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Name shame

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think name shaming should be allowed on here or some sort or like dislike button so people are aware of abusive or timewasting people on here

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

So if I posted BBB CPL let me down, didn't show up for the meet we'd arranged that would be ok?

No, thought not, because of course we've never even exchanged messages and I've never even looked at your profile but if you were allowed to do as you suggest that is exactly what would happen - lots of false accusations and petty grievances being aired and Fab would be a worse place for it.

If you feel someone has genuinely wasted your time then report them and allow admin to investigate is the only fair option

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

BBB CPL are time wasters....... see what we did there OP

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It wouldn’t work for the reasons given above. A dislike button wouldn’t be objective either so pointless. If you get timewasters, then improve your selection process.

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By *agermeisterMan over a year ago

Leeds

BBB CLP altered my toaster setting and left toast crumbs in my margarine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well that’s that all sorted then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BBB CPL are time wasters....... see what we did there OP"

Are they?

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By *andare63Man over a year ago

oldham

"I think name shaming should be allowed on here or some sort or like dislike button so people are aware of abusive or timewasting people on here "

What’s the difference between timewasting and changing ones mind ? At the end of the day it would just be your opinion

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By *stwo80Couple over a year ago

yorkshire

"BBB CLP altered my toaster setting and left toast crumbs in my margarine "

Is that a euphemism ?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"BBB CLP altered my toaster setting and left toast crumbs in my margarine

Is that a euphemism ?

If it was, I think he means he left his margarine in her toaster

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree as I got banned for 48 hours for doing just that. Why shouldn't we be able to name and shame, at least it would make other people aware of certain people's actions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree as I got banned for 48 hours for doing just that. Why shouldn't we be able to name and shame, at least it would make other people aware of certain people's actions "

You’re one to talk, I waited for you for hours and you didn’t bother telling me you weren’t coming.

(See why it doesn’t work?)

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple over a year ago

South Wales

"BBB CLP altered my toaster setting and left toast crumbs in my margarine "

Margarine? Really? In 2018?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe there could be a “meet agreed” button both sides can choose to click (and see the other has also clicked) ... and any reporting can only happen where both sides have agreed.

There may still be bad blood reporting after bad meets. But gets around the totally fake reporting issue ...

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By *ccasionalfunCouple over a year ago

hereandthere

I named and shamed a profile using our pics. The profile remained with ours pics while I was threatened with a ban!!! How the fuck does that work

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I named and shamed a profile using our pics. The profile remained with ours pics while I was threatened with a ban!!! How the fuck does that work "

Because the due process is for you to report it to admin, not be the vigilante and name and shame.

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

"I named and shamed a profile using our pics. The profile remained with ours pics while I was threatened with a ban!!! How the fuck does that work

Because the due process is for you to report it to admin, not be the vigilante and name and shame. "

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By *ccasionalfunCouple over a year ago

hereandthere

"I named and shamed a profile using our pics. The profile remained with ours pics while I was threatened with a ban!!! How the fuck does that work

Because the due process is for you to report it to admin, not be the vigilante and name and shame. "

listen at the mr straight and narrow

I had reported and nothing was done, when you find someone using your photos you want people to know and sitting back and letting a few volounteers decide if you are really who you say you are is a no no for me.

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By *aenMan over a year ago

Here and There

"BBB CLP altered my toaster setting and left toast crumbs in my margarine

Is that a euphemism ?

If it was, I think he means he left his margarine in her toaster

Is that like a re-enactment of Last Tango in Paris

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

"I named and shamed a profile using our pics. The profile remained with ours pics while I was threatened with a ban!!! How the fuck does that work

Because the due process is for you to report it to admin, not be the vigilante and name and shame.

listen at the mr straight and narrow

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By *ccasionalfunCouple over a year ago

hereandthere

it didn't happen for me

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Admin have said they will never have name and shame, report instead

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