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Do dates scare people off!?
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By *laireal OP Couple
over a year ago
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Hi,
We've yet to meet anyone on FAB. Had a couple of meets on SH.
4 seperate times on here we've had a similar dead end experience. Found a couple that we both like, ususally them contacting us 1st. After a few exchanges,sent them pics and they say they like us. We suggest meeting up for a drink. They give us the thumbs up. We give some free dates and then no reply! 
We're a bit confused why people would drop out of the conversation at that point. If they didn't like us why say they want to meet?
advice anyone?
C&A |
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I think you've just been unlucky, and sometimes people don't realize that you can't read their minds and don't know why they haven't got in touch.
I can't see anything wrong with you or your profile, so don't give up it'll happen. |
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"Hi,
We've yet to meet anyone on FAB. Had a couple of meets on SH.
4 seperate times on here we've had a similar dead end experience. Found a couple that we both like, ususally them contacting us 1st. After a few exchanges,sent them pics and they say they like us. We suggest meeting up for a drink. They give us the thumbs up. We give some free dates and then no reply!
We're a bit confused why people would drop out of the conversation at that point. If they didn't like us why say they want to meet?
advice anyone?
C&A"
Its a common problem on here, most likely due to many different reasons. You will never know. Best not to take it personally. Thats life! |
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over a year ago
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The simple fact is, life gets in the way. In the past I've chatted to people, been excited about meeting then work, family, previous meet all come up and the new person "forgotten".
It's not a reflection on you, that's just how it is sometimes, you've just been unlucky and as your new you could think it's 'you'd...it's not.
Don't give up and good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's happened to us too so don't take it personally. We prefer to meet for a social drink first too and don't think it puts people off. Those that want to meet us will do so. Good luck on here and don't be disheartened. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I looked at the title of the thread, I though it was gonna be about those gooey sticky things that we used to get at Christmas.
You know the ones, they come in a long oval box and you get a little plastic fork to eat them with. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"When I looked at the title of the thread, I though it was gonna be about those gooey sticky things that we used to get at Christmas.
You know the ones, they come in a long oval box and you get a little plastic fork to eat them with."
Them things that are still in the cupboard till February and then they go in the bin things? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I looked at the title of the thread, I though it was gonna be about those gooey sticky things that we used to get at Christmas.
You know the ones, they come in a long oval box and you get a little plastic fork to eat them with.
Them things that are still in the cupboard till February and then they go in the bin things?"
I love them things pass them my way please  |
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"Hi,
We've yet to meet anyone on FAB. Had a couple of meets on SH.
4 seperate times on here we've had a similar dead end experience. Found a couple that we both like, ususally them contacting us 1st. After a few exchanges,sent them pics and they say they like us. We suggest meeting up for a drink. They give us the thumbs up. We give some free dates and then no reply!
We're a bit confused why people would drop out of the conversation at that point. If they didn't like us why say they want to meet?
advice anyone?
C&A"
patience is the best advice, i have generally found far more really meet here here than over the road,but it can take time...why not remessage them,a friendly hi,if they still dont reply,move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi,
We've yet to meet anyone on FAB. Had a couple of meets on SH.
4 seperate times on here we've had a similar dead end experience. Found a couple that we both like, ususally them contacting us 1st. After a few exchanges,sent them pics and they say they like us. We suggest meeting up for a drink. They give us the thumbs up. We give some free dates and then no reply!
We're a bit confused why people would drop out of the conversation at that point. If they didn't like us why say they want to meet?
advice anyone?
C&A"
Are the people your trying to meet well validated from actual meets?
We find Fab has a lot of fantasists because its a free site compared to the paying sites which i think SH is one of those?
Would also suggest, getting back to them saying (if you dont already).. "any decision on dates yet?" As we find people do need a kick.. as lives tend to get in the way of extra fun, and people do forget to get back to you..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I looked at the title of the thread, I though it was gonna be about those gooey sticky things that we used to get at Christmas.
You know the ones, they come in a long oval box and you get a little plastic fork to eat them with.
Them things that are still in the cupboard till February and then they go in the bin things?
I love them things pass them my way please "
yeah, pass us one...
I find prunes far scarier than dates 
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I looked at the title of the thread, I though it was gonna be about those gooey sticky things that we used to get at Christmas.
You know the ones, they come in a long oval box and you get a little plastic fork to eat them with.
Them things that are still in the cupboard till February and then they go in the bin things?
I love them things pass them my way please
yeah, pass us one...
I find prunes far scarier than dates
Wolf
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I like prunes as well |
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By *laireal OP Couple
over a year ago
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yes all but one were validated a few times. not that we wouldn't meet up with non validated as that's what we are thanks to our zero meets on here thanks again for reassurance everyone.
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Are the people your trying to meet well validated from actual meets?
We find Fab has a lot of fantasists because its a free site compared to the paying sites which i think SH is one of those?
Would also suggest, getting back to them saying (if you dont already).. "any decision on dates yet?" As we find people do need a kick.. as lives tend to get in the way of extra fun, and people do forget to get back to you..
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