"This is something I struggle with. What makes a decent first message "
Read the persons/couples profile carefully and check what they like/dislike and age limit. If it’s a couple write to both to the man and woman. Then write a respectable message telling them how you match their requirements. Send a face if they ask for it. Don’t send a cock pic! Your message message may well be deleted if you do.
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"This is something I struggle with. What makes a decent first message "
Introduce yourself, mention briefly where you feel your profiles match and ask them to get back to you if interested.
A lot of profiles ask for certain words to be included or certain types of message. If you're happy to do that make sure you comply. |
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I tend to look at a profile as well as read a message, and if no effort has been made with either, it’ll get deleted. Anything where someone has clearly made an effort, or has a good profile / message will always get a reply |
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