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If you are looking for a lady I would suggest tailoring your profile accordingly.
What most ladies find appealing in a profile is very different to what attracts men. Action pics and mostly pics of the female half of a couple will attract the fellas but ladies prefer to see a good mix of pictures of both of you and are often put off by action pics and close ups of genitalia - we tend to prefer suggestive rather than explicit.
We also like to read in your profile how you see the play dynamic. I.e will everyone be equally involved or are you looking for the ladies to play while he watches etc.
Hope that helps a little  |
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"If you are looking for a lady I would suggest tailoring your profile accordingly.
What most ladies find appealing in a profile is very different to what attracts men. Action pics and mostly pics of the female half of a couple will attract the fellas but ladies prefer to see a good mix of pictures of both of you and are often put off by action pics and close ups of genitalia - we tend to prefer suggestive rather than explicit.
We also like to read in your profile how you see the play dynamic. I.e will everyone be equally involved or are you looking for the ladies to play while he watches etc.
Hope that helps a little "
Good advice! Second what this lady has said.  |
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I agree about the photos, more of Mr would be good - although for me, in the same way a dick pic avatar gets an auto delete, so would yours I’m afraid! Another post mentioned keeping photos suggestive & I totally agree.
You explain your dynamics quite well. The 420 friendly will deter some & be welcome to others.
Hopefully your changes will get you the results
you want!
Good luck! x |
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"I agree about the photos, more of Mr would be good - although for me, in the same way a dick pic avatar gets an auto delete, so would yours I’m afraid! Another post mentioned keeping photos suggestive & I totally agree.
You explain your dynamics quite well. The 420 friendly will deter some & be welcome to others.
Hopefully your changes will get you the results
you want!
Good luck! x"
Thank you. Sorting more pics as we speak x |
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"Clubs clubs clubs! Try a club! There will nearly always be something for you there and it can be so much more relaxed C x
Awesome boobs Mrs telford "
Looking at your pics I will take that as a very, very, very good compliment guys   C x |
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"Please put the 420 ref back of you like to indulge, far better to find out before meeting someone. "
It never came out Absolutely right to be honest, and to be fair it acts as an additional vetting (for those who bother to read it!), as anyone who is morally offended, probably isn't for us. |
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"Please put the 420 ref back of you like to indulge, far better to find out before meeting someone.
It never came out Absolutely right to be honest, and to be fair it acts as an additional vetting (for those who bother to read it!), as anyone who is morally offended, probably isn't for us."
Some people aren’t morally offfended, the smell just makes them ill. |
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