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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi to anyone reading.
Me and the wife have been swinging for a while now, nothing to serious.
We have decided we want to explore solo meets.
Now obviously the wife is the better looking of us two, she get rather alot of attention on here and other sites/app, I myself on the other hand am not so popular when it comes to the opposite sex.
I guess my point is does anyone have any pointers for me.
ie advice and even criticism.
I'd appreciate true honest no matter the comments.
Thanks to anyone who replies
Lewis  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Odds are wat stacked against you unfortunately as some many single guys on here ,whom mess others around so puts others off meeting guys unless at clubs parties ect ,it has us totally |
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To be honest, it has nothing to do with how attractive the female half is. Females on this site are sought after, males are not.
If you are having single profiles, just ensure it is well written with decent photos. |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
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Welcome to the world of being a single guy. Although technically youre not. But im guessing you will still get treated the same or looked apon as a guy pretending to be a couple to try and get a better chance of a meet. Dont think there really is any rule of thumb. Just got to take things as the come. Im sure someone will be along shortly to put me right as it must work for some couples.
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I wonder if you'd have more luck meeting as a couple and finding other couples willing to do separate room swaps? Or finding a couple who you all click with and then arranging solo meets? Or are you looking purely as two 'singles'? |
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"Hi to anyone reading.
Me and the wife have been swinging for a while now, nothing to serious.
We have decided we want to explore solo meets.
Now obviously the wife is the better looking of us two, she get rather alot of attention on here and other sites/app, I myself on the other hand am not so popular when it comes to the opposite sex.
I guess my point is does anyone have any pointers for me.
ie advice and even criticism.
I'd appreciate true honest no matter the comments.
Thanks to anyone who replies
Lewis "
females get attention on this regardless! And ur not less attractive at all! Dont be negative or u will never get a meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A long and dreary road of rejection and apathy from the opposite sex awaits you, coupled with your own feelings of envy & jealousy towards your partner getting lots more meets
Maybe re-evaluate, compromise, look st alternatives (separate room swap for example) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi to anyone reading.
Me and the wife have been swinging for a while now, nothing to serious.
We have decided we want to explore solo meets.
Now obviously the wife is the better looking of us two, she get rather alot of attention on here and other sites/app, I myself on the other hand am not so popular when it comes to the opposite sex.
I guess my point is does anyone have any pointers for me.
ie advice and even criticism.
I'd appreciate true honest no matter the comments.
Thanks to anyone who replies
Lewis "
Attend socials and parties.
Then you meet people more chances of getting 1on1 meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a couple and here is what we have found being in a relationship in swinging is no different to you being a single guy, your other half is always going to get the attention and you will be left out a lot of the time and the same thing happens in clubs too, we have been there. It seems it is so difficult for guys to get anything out of this at all other than watch your partner have sex with lots of men. Keep trying and btw there is nothing wrong with the way you look. But in all honesty that seems to be how it is in swinging so the best of luck to you both |
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