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Why don't ladies meet? Or let you down last minute!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it becoming so hard to find ladies that will meet on here? You can spend lots of time chatting and when it comes down to a meet arranged they let you down or ignore you! 
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"Why is it becoming so hard to find ladies that will meet on here? You can spend lots of time chatting and when it comes down to a meet arranged they let you down or ignore you!
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Because most of them are actually men. |
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Some may been, some may be nervous! I used to spend longer chatting first but now cut to the chase and arrange a phone call or social meet sooner, saves wasting time on someone you aren't going to be compatible with |
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I’ve met quite a few women through this sight over the years I’ve been here the ones pretending to be men are easy to spot, men and women have a very different way of communication especially sexually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate being let down after long great chatting.. and yes unfortunately there alot of guys acting as couples or women witch is sad and prophetic . If you do get let down im sure you have lots of people who would meet you as great profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Instantly check them out by asking to chat on the phone to confirm it is an actually woman you are chatting to,they will understand if they have nothing to hide..if genuine and a meeter, they will gladly swap numbers with you |
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I have to say if I had a pound for every time I’d made an arrangement to meet someone (a day but not a specific time of place) and then they ghosted me or sent me a flakey excuse I’d be rich. I will also say that couples are by far the worst in my experience. |
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"Instantly check them out by asking to chat on the phone to confirm it is an actually woman you are chatting to,they will understand if they have nothing to hide..if genuine and a meeter, they will gladly swap numbers with you"
7 years on the site and I’ve never once exchanged numbers, nor would I, common sense is all you need |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Instantly check them out by asking to chat on the phone to confirm it is an actually woman you are chatting to,they will understand if they have nothing to hide..if genuine and a meeter, they will gladly swap numbers with you
7 years on the site and I’ve never once exchanged numbers, nor would I, common sense is all you need "
20 years of swinging ..we have always chatted before any meet..so what works for you and works for us is down to personnel preferences ..you can give out a number that is not your main number if worried about it like another sim card for swinging |
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"Instantly check them out by asking to chat on the phone to confirm it is an actually woman you are chatting to,they will understand if they have nothing to hide..if genuine and a meeter, they will gladly swap numbers with you
7 years on the site and I’ve never once exchanged numbers, nor would I, common sense is all you need
20 years of swinging ..we have always chatted before any meet..so what works for you and works for us is down to personnel preferences ..you can give out a number that is not your main number if worried about it like another sim card for swinging "
I could but I don’t want to like you said it’s anout what works for me. Looses me a few meets it’s no skin of my nose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it becoming so hard to find ladies that will meet on here? You can spend lots of time chatting and when it comes down to a meet arranged they let you down or ignore you!
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Maybe try meeting a couple where the female part is happy to meet on her own, I know Shaz is if it's a sexy lady she would be there like a shot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"20 years of swinging ..we have always chatted before any meet..so what works for you and works for us is down to personnel preferences ..you can give out a number that is not your main number if worried about it like another sim card for swinging "
Yes us to, we been on the scene now about 18 year and only chat before a meet, only give our number out once we meet someone and know him/her/them to be ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it becoming so hard to find ladies that will meet on here? You can spend lots of time chatting and when it comes down to a meet arranged they let you down or ignore you!
Because most of them are actually men. "
Very very true.....the easy way to catch them out simples really..........just ask to speak to the female on the phone and ha ha WHOOOOOOOSH they are gone or you are blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it becoming so hard to find ladies that will meet on here? You can spend lots of time chatting and when it comes down to a meet arranged they let you down or ignore you!
Because most of them are actually men.
Very very true.....the easy way to catch them out simples really..........just ask to speak to the female on the phone and ha ha WHOOOOOOOSH they are gone or you are blocked. "
Not full proof, I'm deaf so therefore not that simple x |
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"Instantly check them out by asking to chat on the phone to confirm it is an actually woman you are chatting to,they will understand if they have nothing to hide..if genuine and a meeter, they will gladly swap numbers with you"
I will never give my number out to strangers on a swinging site, nor will I faff about with a play phone and I’ve been doing this for years. |
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