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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hello fabs!

I've been having some trouble recently and I need some advice.

I have a partner, she knows what I do and I have her full permission to do so. One of the women I hooked up with from this site has taken issue with me having a partner and she believes I've been keeping her 'in the dark' so to speak. She has been launching a Facebook campaign to 'unmask' me as the filthy sick swinging that I am. She has created fake profile after fake profile and I've reported her each time and eventually the page will get taken down only for her to make another one. We've gone to the police but I'm hesitant to give them their details as I don't want any real harm to come to them....I'm guessing they could probably lose their jobs, etc.

She has also targeted my partners family and friends... including her children. I don't believe in call-outs so I can't say who it is here.

Has anyone else had these kind of issues? What did you do? This has been going on since January 3rd!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get it sorted, look after number one pal

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

can't you get your partner to text her telling her to stop fucking around in your private live?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give the police her name or user name, she needs stopping. She will probably do it to other men too. She could have become obsessed with you and could do you or a family member actual harm. Don't worry about her losing her job. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"can't you get your partner to text her telling her to stop fucking around in your private live? "

She has... doesn't make it stop. They messaged her directly from the start!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Give the police her name or user name, she needs stopping. She will probably do it to other men too. She could have become obsessed with you and could do you or a family member actual harm. Don't worry about her losing her job. X"

I believe it's a group of people from here with her as the ring leader. She's kinda well known in the swinger circle down here.

I don't know everyone and what if she's done a Charlie Manson and just got people to do her dirty work thus keeping her fingers clean....she is quite manipulative like that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have a partner who doesn't play but gives you permission to?

You don't accom?

And she's just "one of the women you've hooked up with from this site."

Wow. You buck the trend for the "single" man on here judging by nearly every other single man's experience they share.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would report to admin as well. Fully explain whats happened. I wouldnt worry about what the police thought i would report her. Xx

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Take it to the police. Nobody has the right to harras you and your family. Let the police have all the info and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have a partner who doesn't play but gives you permission to?

You don't accom?

And she's just "one of the women you've hooked up with from this site."

Wow. You buck the trend for the "single" man on here judging by nearly every other single man's experience they share.

Actually i know of two guys similar things have happened to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have a partner who doesn't play but gives you permission to?

You don't accom?

And she's just "one of the women you've hooked up with from this site."

Wow. You buck the trend for the "single" man on here judging by nearly every other single man's experience they share.

Actually i know of two guys similar things have happened to. "

OK. Well that's us told.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have a partner who doesn't play but gives you permission to?

You don't accom?

And she's just "one of the women you've hooked up with from this site."

Wow. You buck the trend for the "single" man on here judging by nearly every other single man's experience they share.

We used to see a man from Fab who couldn’t accommodate and was playing alone with his wife’s consent. He’d met a fair few women and couples, and still does.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have a partner who doesn't play but gives you permission to?

You don't accom?

And she's just "one of the women you've hooked up with from this site."

Wow. You buck the trend for the "single" man on here judging by nearly every other single man's experience they share.

We used to see a man from Fab who couldn’t accommodate and was playing alone with his wife’s consent. He’d met a fair few women and couples, and still does.

Mrs"

Again that's us told-just seems to fly in the face of the majority of other single mens experiences going by the posts we see. OP can sort his issue simply enough without our advice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP sounds like a matter for the police. Have you reported her to Facebook? Perhaps you should remove yourself from Facebook, Fab and any other social media for a while.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe it's a group of people from here with her as the ring leader. She's kinda well known in the swinger circle down here.

I don't know everyone and what if she's done a Charlie Manson and just got people to do her dirty work thus keeping her fingers clean....she is quite manipulative like that! "

Just tell the police. Whoever they are they need sorting.

What do you mean they are targeting her children too? How old are her kids?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have a partner who doesn't play but gives you permission to?

You don't accom?

And she's just "one of the women you've hooked up with from this site."

Wow. You buck the trend for the "single" man on here judging by nearly every other single man's experience they share.

We used to see a man from Fab who couldn’t accommodate and was playing alone with his wife’s consent. He’d met a fair few women and couples, and still does.

Mrs

Again that's us told-just seems to fly in the face of the majority of other single mens experiences going by the posts we see. OP can sort his issue simply enough without our advice."

The majority of single guys do indeed have not much luck on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take it to the police. Nobody has the right to harras you and your family. Let the police have all the info and take it from there."

1000% this. There are some really fucked up people in the world.

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Take it to the police. Nobody has the right to harras you and your family. Let the police have all the info and take it from there.

1000% this. There are some really fucked up people in the world. "

There are a few odd'uns on here it must be said.

A few years ago I had an issure with another lady who met somebody before I did. She proceeded to bad mouth me here, messaged many of my friends via my verifications and then follow me from this guys home back to my home and trashed my car. Police were involved, you can imagine the embarrassment of disclosing my profile here and explaining how I had apparently crossed this charming lady.

Nothing could be proven so she got away with it.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Send your wife round to f**k her as punishment... once worked in a porn I watched.

Joking aside... deffo go to the police. Sounds like that stalking tale off 24hr in police custody and I hope they delete the silly cows profile off here. Not really in the spirit of swinging is it, ‘outing’ you like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take it to the police. Nobody has the right to harras you and your family. Let the police have all the info and take it from there.

1000% this. There are some really fucked up people in the world. "

Tell the police all her contact details, it won't be the first time the police have dealt with this situation and when they do contact her she will either be arrested or put on a police bail order, for a court appearance if she does it again and yes it's a bit scary letting people you don't know about the life style but it could be far worse if this harasser goes further with fake accusations.

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

"Hello fabs!

I've been having some trouble recently and I need some advice.

She has also targeted my partners family and friends... including her children. I don't believe in call-outs so I can't say who it is here.

Has anyone else had these kind of issues? What did you do? This has been going on since January 3rd!

If this issue has gone this far and now involves children and other family, definitely report to police and press charges. Put you and your family first. That person needs to know they can't harass you this way and you are serious about the privacy and safety of your family.

Personally I would be fuming as that's emotional abuse. Whoever that person is needs to be put in their place and leave you alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've gone to the police but I'm hesitant to give them their details

Did the police say thank you and wish you well or ask for a full account of why you went to them? Surely you can't go to the police with a complaint and then hold back the very piece of information they would expect you to share?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

So you went to the police but didn't give any details,what was the point of that then why go in the first place if not to give details?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"We've gone to the police but I'm hesitant to give them their details

Exactly!

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

The police won't be shocked or judgemental so go to them and report the person on here please

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