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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do you do when someone says I know who u are and proceed to tell you about your life where you stay what your interests are and what mistakes you have made previously im a bit freaked out |
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I get this a few times followed by ‘you would be surprised if you knew who I was’ which in a way I find a bit rude but I’m not ashamed to be on here. I don’t mind anyone at all knowing (prob bar my boss!)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got one from a guy who said he could see into our house (through the windows) by binoculars from his house ! Complete crap as our home is surrounded by trees. There's a lot of weird people on here !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you do when someone says I know who u are and proceed to tell you about your life where you stay what your interests are and what mistakes you have made previously im a bit freaked out"
I'm kinda guessing you're worried in case they 'out ' you...honestly no one cares in or out of Fab world, most anyone's ever said to me is "tell me more " so don't stress!!  |
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"What do you do when someone says I know who u are and proceed to tell you about your life where you stay what your interests are and what mistakes you have made previously im a bit freaked out"
Reply saying ffs dad give it a rest |
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"What do you do when someone says I know who u are and proceed to tell you about your life where you stay what your interests are and what mistakes you have made previously im a bit freaked out
Reply saying ffs dad give it a rest"
Hahahaha |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"What do you do when someone says I know who u are and proceed to tell you about your life where you stay what your interests are and what mistakes you have made previously im a bit freaked out"
Has happened a couple of times and I have known them, even met one of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A man that brings his wife to our salon contacted me on here from his single male profile.He sent a gross message saying what he would like to do to me and he attached a pic of his penis and face.
I'm not to sure if he knows it's me but i instantly blocked him.
I have to do her hair once a month and he sits in the waiting room and I have to just smile and not say anything.He really creaps me out and she's a lovely woman. |
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"A man that brings his wife to our salon contacted me on here from his single male profile.He sent a gross message saying what he would like to do to me and he attached a pic of his penis and face.
I'm not to sure if he knows it's me but i instantly blocked him.
I have to do her hair once a month and he sits in the waiting room and I have to just smile and not say anything.He really creaps me out and she's a lovely woman."
You don't have to not say anything, print out his penis and face pic and make a police style wanted poster for your salon
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise |
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"He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise"
maybe you should screenshot the message and if social services turn up show them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A man that brings his wife to our salon contacted me on here from his single male profile.He sent a gross message saying what he would like to do to me and he attached a pic of his penis and face.
I'm not to sure if he knows it's me but i instantly blocked him.
I have to do her hair once a month and he sits in the waiting room and I have to just smile and not say anything.He really creaps me out and she's a lovely woman.
You don't have to not say anything, print out his penis and face pic and make a police style wanted poster for your salon
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Lol I'm not getting involved and my boss and friends at work would freak at me if they knew I was on here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise"
I’m sure social services have better things to do, don’t worry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise
I’m sure social services have better things to do, don’t worry "
what can they do lol
Phone you up and tell you to stop having sex lol
Just block the idiot x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A man that brings his wife to our salon contacted me on here from his single male profile.He sent a gross message saying what he would like to do to me and he attached a pic of his penis and face.
I'm not to sure if he knows it's me but i instantly blocked him.
I have to do her hair once a month and he sits in the waiting room and I have to just smile and not say anything.He really creaps me out and she's a lovely woman.
You don't have to not say anything, print out his penis and face pic and make a police style wanted poster for your salon
Lol I'm not getting involved and my boss and friends at work would freak at me if they knew I was on here x "
Very wise! Although you now have the advantage if he mails you again as you can say you'll mention it to his wife the next time you see her (without disclosing where you meet her) ... If he asks for description or first name then you have it ... See who freaks then ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A man that brings his wife to our salon contacted me on here from his single male profile.He sent a gross message saying what he would like to do to me and he attached a pic of his penis and face.
I'm not to sure if he knows it's me but i instantly blocked him.
I have to do her hair once a month and he sits in the waiting room and I have to just smile and not say anything.He really creaps me out and she's a lovely woman.
You don't have to not say anything, print out his penis and face pic and make a police style wanted poster for your salon
Lol I'm not getting involved and my boss and friends at work would freak at me if they knew I was on here x
Very wise! Although you now have the advantage if he mails you again as you can say you'll mention it to his wife the next time you see her (without disclosing where you meet her) ... If he asks for description or first name then you have it ... See who freaks then ..."
I've blocked him so he can't message me again.Im also not sure if he knows it's me but my tattoos and part of my face are in some of my pics so he might know it's me.
I'm just staying our of it as she's a lovely woman and I'm not getting involved but if he ever says anything to me at work I will tell him that I will let her know what he's doing and where x |
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By *J11Couple
over a year ago
Gloucester |
I had this happen to me, he started saying he’d seen me in our local Costa and had found me on Facebook and that we had mutual friends. Wouldn’t tell me who he was so I blocked him, freaked me out a little.  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise"
just remember he will out himself as well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A man that brings his wife to our salon contacted me on here from his single male profile.He sent a gross message saying what he would like to do to me and he attached a pic of his penis and face.
I'm not to sure if he knows it's me but i instantly blocked him.
I have to do her hair once a month and he sits in the waiting room and I have to just smile and not say anything.He really creaps me out and she's a lovely woman.
You don't have to not say anything, print out his penis and face pic and make a police style wanted poster for your salon
Lol I'm not getting involved and my boss and friends at work would freak at me if they knew I was on here x
Very wise! Although you now have the advantage if he mails you again as you can say you'll mention it to his wife the next time you see her (without disclosing where you meet her) ... If he asks for description or first name then you have it ... See who freaks then ...
I've blocked him so he can't message me again.Im also not sure if he knows it's me but my tattoos and part of my face are in some of my pics so he might know it's me.
I'm just staying our of it as she's a lovely woman and I'm not getting involved but if he ever says anything to me at work I will tell him that I will let her know what he's doing and where x "
Spot on! Fingers crossed ... but you always have that in reserve. |
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Yeh I’ve had someone say they worked with me but wouldn’t tell me where. And a guy who said “what would your mum say if she knew you were on here” I said probably be really jealous actually  said he could tell who I was by my necklace (I had no face pics at the time) it was just a plain necklace, he was just a bullshitter. |
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I’m completely open about swinging The only person in my family that doesn’t know is my mother, to be honest if she did find out I don’t give a damn it’s my life. All my friends know and most of my neighbours. No one can try to cause me trouble because of this I did freak a bit when another neighbour suddenly appeared on my news feed. That was only because our front doors face each other and I know his wife really well. Knew the lies he spouted on his profile about his marriage were bullshit. Just didn’t want to see a pic of his cock on my news feed so blocked him. He’s left the site after 4 weeks because he got no meets |
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"He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise"
Black mail. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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remind them there on here to x ive been freaked out twice 1 guy messaged me on face book god knws hw he got real nasty wen i asked him how on earth hed found me we had freinds in common to ..blocked him x 2nd a creepy guy came into the cluc were i work hes a eeg and i do talk to him but 1 night made it clear hes checked me out on here a fw times i put my most revealing pics to freinds lol told him to think carfully as his prof was quite smdiscusting and blocked him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had this a few weeks ago. It was a nice message but asked if it was me as he knows my name were I live etc.
I said he had the wrong person and blocked him. Did freak me out alittle "
VS had that from a work colleague via text a few years ago. She replied telling him he obviously knows we are on here as he'd recognized us. Nothing bad came of it. |
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I messaged someone recently and included a face pic. She replied with “probably best not to take things further as she knew me”. After a bit of banter too and fro she revealed who she was. I promised not to mention it again. I haven’t messaged her since. Our paths will cross soon for work and I will act as if we’ve never even had the conversation on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A man that brings his wife to our salon contacted me on here from his single male profile.He sent a gross message saying what he would like to do to me and he attached a pic of his penis and face.
I'm not to sure if he knows it's me but i instantly blocked him.
I have to do her hair once a month and he sits in the waiting room and I have to just smile and not say anything.He really creaps me out and she's a lovely woman.
You don't have to not say anything, print out his penis and face pic and make a police style wanted poster for your salon
Lol I'm not getting involved and my boss and friends at work would freak at me if they knew I was on here x "
This is something similar I have had to deal with recently, the job we do means we have a liberal work environment, I work with a lot of women and have discussed elements of my lifestyle with them short of telling them what sites I meet people from, as I'm Bi I've plenty of 'war stories' to share.
So guess what? We have a work Whatsapp group to discuss work stuff outside work hours mainly, a few Fridays ago a post went up with 'my old user name': 'WTF!'.
I was naturally angry, but with the help of a friend here who's partner had a similar experience, and had to delete their profile and leave Fabs for 6 months; he give me my new username (the previous one had been a song title as well). So I have gone off the Whatsapp group, changed my pics and location and name.
'No Regrets' is my statement of defiance. Nobody is going to stop my enjoyment and wonderful social and party life I have found on here. Managers are on the Whasapp Group, so the sad act that found me on here and set up a stupid fake profile to message me has to be careful what she says, as only a handful know about me so it made no sense to most.
Sorry from going off at a tangent OP, but I had to get that off my chest. If it helps, change your details after you have blocked the idiot, but make sure you tell your friends, party organisers as I am on a guest list for one. There is no reason why you, as me should be forced off here. |
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"He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise
Black mail."
Indeed it was black mail. But instead of blocking that type of post should always be reported to Admin first pointing out you may be considering getting the police involved giving the new legal position re "consent" in sexual matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a guy who messages me on occasion saying he recognises me and giving details but I call him out on being a chicken because his profile is hidden, I just take the piss out of him till he shuts up and leaves me alone, he’ll be back again though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise"
Maybe arrange to meet the scumbag but have the police waiting for him. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise
Maybe arrange to meet the scumbag but have the police waiting for him."
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"He then threatened me by saying who I was friends with and that he'd be calling social services if I didn't meet him. I blocked him but feel a bit weird as didn't know who it was but the info he had was very precise"
This is black mail. Report him to admin, copy the messages to them too. |
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