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Single female wanting to become a hotwife

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

They have dating threads now and again.

I met a lovely guy on here. Sadly it didn’t work out but it does happen for many.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They have dating threads now and again.

I met a lovely guy on here. Sadly it didn’t work out but it does happen for many.

Good luck x"

Thank you, that’s a shame.

I will have to keep an eye out for those threads.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no such thing as a insant hotwife relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well, you’re hot so I guess you’re halfway there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had an amazing swinging relationship through Fab... We've done lots normal things together too. Most of the friends I've met through here have also met their partners on here.

If you're in to swinging I think its important to meet someone who understands the lifestyle and I've had absolutely no qualms in putting in place strong boundaries to do it. For me it's someone very loving, loyal and affectionate but also a total dirtbag who likes sharing full swap naughtiness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had a relationship from here before. I didn't intend it to happen and it didn't work out. I think you just need rmtonkind of see what happens naturally but if you do start to play together sort the ground rules out straight away. Swinging relationships take a lot of work and a lot of trust it's not a instant kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've had an amazing swinging relationship through Fab... We've done lots normal things together too. Most of the friends I've met through here have also met their partners on here.

Thank you, that’s really interesting to read. I do believe that like it’s something I’m going to find through a swingers site, rather than on a general dating site.

i Understand its not something that can be found and developed over night... but got to start the search somewhere! Xx

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By *ollyGWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Surely if you want to be a Hotwife then this is the place to look, please tell me if you don't agree and why? Can't really do it on Much dot whatever??

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

There have been a number of fab weddings, most recently one here in South Wales of a couple who met as singlies, not looking for anything but hit it off and tied the knot, so it does happen.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Ha ha is this the place to really find a husband?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Ha ha is this the place to really find a husband?

Stranger things have happened. X

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Ha ha is this the place to really find a husband?

Why not?

If you think about it, this is, for a swinging female, the perfect place to find a husband surely?

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By *hocolateRodMan over a year ago

London and over UK

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Ha ha is this the place to really find a husband?

Think you will find that most of the single men on here are already husbands!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

I've always wanted a relationship where the wife can meet other guys. My first gf used to cheat on me and didn't know I had read her diary. Bad I know but was a huge turn on..

What part of wales are you?

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

I've always wanted a relationship where the wife can meet other guys. My first gf used to cheat on me and didn't know I had read her diary. Bad I know but was a huge turn on..

What part of wales are you? "

Ha ha like she’s going to reveal on the forums where she lives

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Surely if you want to be a Hotwife then this is the place to look, please tell me if you don't agree and why? Can't really do it on Much dot whatever??"

Exactly my thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Ha ha is this the place to really find a husband?

Why not?

If you think about it, this is, for a swinging female, the perfect place to find a husband surely?"

I expected mixed opinions and appreciate all the replies.

It seems to be something that does go on here, I’ve had an overwhelming response via inbox with some amazing stories of people finding relationships through Fab.

Thank you all for the input!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you are as likely to find it here as outside Fab. People are genuinely more broadminded today although it’s still more socially acceptable to be gay than kinky.

If you are open from the start that you want a stable relationship where you play away. You won’t waste your time if it’s a definite no from the off but you may be surprised. After all we are a matriarchal society that has been brainwashed to be patriarchal.

P.S When you find him, let me know so I can come and cuck him with you.

. Good luck.

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We met here as singles... it does happen and works very well for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They have dating threads now and again.

I met a lovely guy on here. Sadly it didn’t work out but it does happen for many.

Good luck x"

Pity you are not looking, you look gorgeous xx

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By *cunnylassCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"We met here as singles... it does happen and works very well for us."

That's how it is for us!

Mike and Mandy

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By *esterLilacCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Hey, as you know, we found our relationship here and we have a hot husband relationship. So it’s very possible.

When I had a single female profile, I used to get lots of messages from solo cucks. It depends if you’re looking for a Cuck relationship or a stag-vixen relationship but I’m sure you’ll find some people on the same page.

We had a Cuck party last month and we had solo cuck males in attendance. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Such a damned shame the site says that you are 80 odd miles away OP......

. You have the qualities of a relationship base that I desire. Obviously it takes a lot more than ticking some boxes but getting the most important sexual ones is a rare thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Hey, as you know, we found our relationship here and we have a hot husband relationship. So it’s very possible.

We had a Cuck party last month and we had solo cuck males in attendance. X"

You two were the ones that led me to start looking!

Are you doing a party like that again? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think you are as likely to find it here as outside Fab. People are genuinely more broadminded today although it’s still more socially acceptable to be gay than kinky.

P.S When you find him, let me know so I can come and cuck him with you.

. Good luck. "

Thank you!

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

I've always wanted a relationship where the wife can meet other guys. My first gf used to cheat on me and didn't know I had read her diary. Bad I know but was a huge turn on..

What part of wales are you? "

The Welsh part

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Correct!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to be a hot wife soon - I like my lunatic party life and young guys but I also miss companionship and someone to do normal stuff with. Thought Id found a potential the other day, seemed perfect but he was yet another fake lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know people who met on here then left the scene. They are very happy together. Anything is possible.

I’d love a hot wife , cuckold relationship.

I wouldn’t look on tinder for it though.

Surely here is the perfect place to look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had an amazing swinging relationship through Fab... We've done lots normal things together too. Most of the friends I've met through here have also met their partners on here.

Yes. That.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

I'm sure most men would be looking for more with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All these women saying the right things but are SO DAMNED FAR AWAY

Someone local to me is the preference

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By *is vixen at playCouple over a year ago

Dundee

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Yes, G and I met on here and quickly realised it was more than just sex. We've been together since August and are moving in together soon

It wasn't something that either of us were looking for, we just instantly clicked and after about 3 weeks we were together.

I think you can meet someone anywhere in life, so why not here? My closest friends know we met here, we just tell everyone else we met online.

After taking some time away to get to know each other properly, we realised that a stag and vixen/hotwife relationship is what we want. We've had a few meets and so far it's going well. The most important thing is communication - keep talking about everything and be honest with each other. And after care is very important, ensure you have that time together afterwards.

And as much fun as this is, fab is only a hobby and we can walk away from it at any time. It's not all we are.

Hope that helps, happy to chat privately if you have any questions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely if you want to be a Hotwife then this is the place to look, please tell me if you don't agree and why? Can't really do it on Much dot whatever??

Exactly my thoughts! "

And mine! Just struggling to find a hot hubby

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My old fb met his wife on here when it was swinging heaven, had his profile longer than his wife he always said lol

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Been looking for this myself OP but alas, too many so-called cucks who watch too much porn and expect me to be riding huge cocks to appease their wants. When what* seek is a regular relationship where I'm free to do whatever I please.

You'd think finding similar sexually liberal people on a site like this would be easy but seems trickier than the real world.

Also, a lot of the single chaps I know as friends say they're happy to swing solo but would never do it as part of a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Yes, G and I met on here and quickly realised it was more than just sex. We've been together since August and are moving in together soon

It wasn't something that either of us were looking for, we just instantly clicked and after about 3 weeks we were together.

I think you can meet someone anywhere in life, so why not here? My closest friends know we met here, we just tell everyone else we met online.

And as much fun as this is, fab is only a hobby and we can walk away from it at any time. It's not all we are.

Hope that helps, happy to chat privately if you have any questions

V "

Thank you so much for that message, great to hear that you’re both enjoying a life together. I really hope that’s what I find too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Ha ha is this the place to really find a husband?

Why not?

If you think about it, this is, for a swinging female, the perfect place to find a husband surely?"

I would agree, ìf you want to find a partner that is open to swinging here would be the place. Just needs everyone to be honest about what they are looking for

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By *SophiexCouple over a year ago

Kilmarnock

I suggest every good looking woman should have a man at home to provide for her and at least two others who have great bodies and big cocks to provide in other ways

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By *ollyGWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

Ha ha is this the place to really find a husband?

Why not?

If you think about it, this is, for a swinging female, the perfect place to find a husband surely?"

Well it's possible?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Looking for the same but only found fwbs or FB.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

Me and my girl met of FAB and loving things from a couples angle here. We where both not meeting with any the intentions of looling for a relationship but when you meet that awesome person, you meet them. Love doesn't seem to fit conveniently to your planned life schedule (either way I guess). So I know it can happen on here but no real practice advice on how to go about FAB dating. Maybe you could add a foot note just saying that you are open to a deeper relationship with the right person who's openly mutral on that. But you haven't got a sinister ulterior motive and happy to play on a strings basis.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I found my best friend for fun (BFFF) here over 6 years ago, we've had & continue to have the most amazing times. We accept we love each other deeply as friends & we care but neither of us wants to progress to anything more. It's worked well for 6 years with only 1 fall out & we've faced difficult times in our personal lives but what we have suits us. I'm a Cuckqueen btw & finding a man who can deliver on my needs like Chewy does, has taken me over 30 years, we won't be changing what we have. There's all sorts of relationships out there, who says it needs to fit any kind of box?

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By *30FetMan over a year ago

Bucharest

"Surely if you want to be a Hotwife then this is the place to look, please tell me if you don't agree and why? Can't really do it on Much dot whatever??

Exactly my thoughts! "

Not always . Here are some single guys looking exactly for a relationship based on cuckolding. Like ME

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

This is a great thread. I'm glad some of you have found the right dynamic too.

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By *30FetMan over a year ago

Bucharest

"This is a great thread. I'm glad some of you have found the right dynamic too. "

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By *30FetMan over a year ago

Bucharest

"Surely if you want to be a Hotwife then this is the place to look, please tell me if you don't agree and why? Can't really do it on Much dot whatever??

Exactly my thoughts!

And mine! Just struggling to find a hot hubby

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Wow! An overwhelming response! Thank you all for your opinions and happy relationship stories! It’s given me much food for thought and encouraging too.

I’m off to write my little footnote on my profile now

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By *weet and Spicy69Couple over a year ago

Northwest

I met my mr on here was only supposed to be a shag hahahaha 2 and a half years later here we are with a couples profile.

As they killers would say... " how did it end up like this it was only a kiss "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got it on my profile too.x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good morning,

Any of you found your hubby here on Fab, any advice on meeting people looking for something more in their swinging life... is there such place to look for swinging dating?

well with your sexy looks you should have no trouble finding Mr right that for sure..enjoy it with lots of fun along the way

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By *uckoldDesiresMan over a year ago

Dublin

Why cant you live in Dublin!!!

You are exactly what I seek

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I met my mr on here was only supposed to be a shag hahahaha 2 and a half years later here we are with a couples profile.

As they killers would say... " how did it end up like this it was only a kiss "

That’s brilliant! Wishing you both many more fab years too xx

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By *egs11ABCWoman over a year ago

Aberdeen

Not sure after fab I could go back to a monogamous relationship so be nice to meet someone to do the couple stuff but have the kind of sex life the married couples on here have x

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By *ockHardMcrCockMan over a year ago

Manchester

Hi, I recently had a hotwife, who's husband just came along for safety, but stayed clothed and let us get on with it without any getting involved.

I even managed to arrange am MMMF for her at my place, which she absolutely loved, but she mis-understood a subsequent message and blocked me.

Would love to do it again !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d date m or f

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

I’m not married to him but I have a swingers relationship with my partner and we met through fab, we were FWBs for about 5 years before deciding to give things a go

And so far so good

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