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Are Saturdays the worst day to try and schedule meets?
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Our preferred day is Saturday. Plenty of time to get ready and hyped up, and we go out Saturday evenings anyway.
However, we've found Saturday to be the hardest day to arrange meets. Perhaps Saturdays are sacred and not to be infringed upon. It's often the case that guys we talk to try and avoid committing to Saturday meets. Perhaps that's THEIR evening out with their loved one. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Saturday is my preferred day to meet as you say, there is more time to get ready etc
But yes, most men do appear to be busy at the weekend, same as my messages seem to be at the lowest ebb come the weekend, infer to that as you will  |
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"Our preferred day is Saturday. Plenty of time to get ready and hyped up, and we go out Saturday evenings anyway.
However, we've found Saturday to be the hardest day to arrange meets. Perhaps Saturdays are sacred and not to be infringed upon. It's often the case that guys we talk to try and avoid committing to Saturday meets. Perhaps that's THEIR evening out with their loved one."
Try early evenings through the week, when all the "single" males with no commitments have to be at home eating tea with their wives and kids. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our preferred day is Saturday. Plenty of time to get ready and hyped up, and we go out Saturday evenings anyway.
However, we've found Saturday to be the hardest day to arrange meets. Perhaps Saturdays are sacred and not to be infringed upon. It's often the case that guys we talk to try and avoid committing to Saturday meets. Perhaps that's THEIR evening out with their loved one.
Try early evenings through the week, when all the "single" males with no commitments have to be at home eating tea with their wives and kids."
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol"
What's wrong with going to the pub? Perfectly normal if you don't fab 24/7 lol. |
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"Saturday is my preferred day to meet as you say, there is more time to get ready etc
But yes, most men do appear to be busy at the weekend, same as my messages seem to be at the lowest ebb come the weekend, infer to that as you will "
I find that if I log on to FAB after about 9pm on either a Friday or Saturday night, I get loads of messages. I get a lot Sunday evenings too. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol"
I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol
I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company
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yeah we do... now bow down before her |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol
I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company
yeah we do... now bow down before her "
Sorry I've got to go down the pub, but I'm free at lunch breaks during the working week |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol
I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company
yeah we do... now bow down before her
Sorry I've got to go down the pub, but I'm free at lunch breaks during the working week "
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I prefer mid week meets - occasionally I’ll go to the club on a Saturday night, but weekends are for ‘real life’ things more often than not. Seeing friends, shopping, pottering round at home or in the garden, out for dinner, cinema, drinks etc |
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"I prefer mid week meets - occasionally I’ll go to the club on a Saturday night, but weekends are for ‘real life’ things more often than not. Seeing friends, shopping, pottering round at home or in the garden, out for dinner, cinema, drinks etc "
Crikey! That's a lot to fit into a single Saturday! |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"Our preferred day is Saturday. Plenty of time to get ready and hyped up, and we go out Saturday evenings anyway.
However, we've found Saturday to be the hardest day to arrange meets. Perhaps Saturdays are sacred and not to be infringed upon. It's often the case that guys we talk to try and avoid committing to Saturday meets. Perhaps that's THEIR evening out with their loved one."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The man we are looking for needs to be athletic / muscular, tall, handsome, charming, intelligent, clean, well-hung, talented, and prepared to put a bit of effort in to interest her with polite but seductive messages
Probably makes things a bit more difficult to find on here
Most of the fit blokes are more than likely out on the piss chating up the fit athletic girls who are maybe not going to take weeks of talking round to get I thier knickers  |
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"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol
I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company
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And single males don't do that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol
I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company
And single males don't do that?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work rolling shifts so no such thing as a weekend off for me
My 3 days off are when ever they fall and that becomes my weekend
So a Saturday is just another normal day, lots and lots of people out there in same work situation
So not Bering able to meet at a weekend does not mean married
However in my case I am but I state that on my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Likewise, I tend to fly back into the UK at very irregular times (work abroad) including Saturdays. Saturday night is keeping up with friends and going out to the pub for me - which kind of wrecks Sunday too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whatever suits both parties obviously
im self employed so can schedule meets around peoples commitments, so i can do days afternoons evenings mid weekor weekends
ive found allmy meets have been a saturday night though.
its to rushed on a friday night after a hard weeks work
id love a sunday afternoon meet as sundays are dead boring for me . |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
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"Saturday is my preferred day to meet as you say, there is more time to get ready etc
But yes, most men do appear to be busy at the weekend, same as my messages seem to be at the lowest ebb come the weekend, infer to that as you will "
They have gone home to the wife! |
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Saturdays are hard for me. I work 2 out of 3 Saturday's due to my shifts. Then half of them I'm working in the evenings (the weekends when my kids go away to their mum's). Plus if I'm on earlies or off these are the weekends when my kids are at home. So often for a Saturday I'd normally have to take annual leave. So for a Sat meet would have to be very special and reliable. |
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"I prefer mid week meets - occasionally I’ll go to the club on a Saturday night, but weekends are for ‘real life’ things more often than not. Seeing friends, shopping, pottering round at home or in the garden, out for dinner, cinema, drinks etc
Crikey! That's a lot to fit into a single Saturday!"
You laugh, but so far today I’ve done some tidying in the garden, been to see two lots of friends & done a shop - and I’m just now getting in the shower to go out to the club tonight with friends!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't speak for everyone else but I mostly work weekdays and even some weekends which leave weekends really busy for everything else including meeting with non fab friends.
I have maybe 2 people from fab that have crossed over into my real life who I'd meet up with socially and have my number so we can text chat about things other than sex.
Fab still I'd s fraction of my life and as such gets a fraction of my time. |
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