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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Amateur porn. It worked for us. We watched a straight threesome while we were having sex and that was that."
Thanks! Makes sense! Should of thought of that! And great pics!  |
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I remember back many years ago in the pub with a large group of women (they all worked together). Somebody passed pieces of paper and asked them all to write their sexual fantasies.
All but one of them wrote 'sex with more than one man'.
Chances are your partner already harbours this fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I remember back many years ago in the pub with a large group of women (they all worked together). Somebody passed pieces of paper and asked them all to write their sexual fantasies.
All but one of them wrote 'sex with more than one man'.
Chances are your partner already harbours this fantasy."
would like to think so! She’s just shy in admitting what she like! |
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"I remember back many years ago in the pub with a large group of women (they all worked together). Somebody passed pieces of paper and asked them all to write their sexual fantasies.
All but one of them wrote 'sex with more than one man'.
Chances are your partner already harbours this fantasy."
What did the other one put?! |
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"I remember back many years ago in the pub with a large group of women (they all worked together). Somebody passed pieces of paper and asked them all to write their sexual fantasies.
All but one of them wrote 'sex with more than one man'.
Chances are your partner already harbours this fantasy. would like to think so! She’s just shy in admitting what she like! "
Work at establishing good sexual communication. If she's shy at saying what she likes encourage but don't insist. If it helps her get her to write it down.
If she says no accept that. If your sexual communication has improved you might reap dividends that will compensate for not swinging. |
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I begged paul to let me get involved but he wouldn't until we had talked....a lot....to make sure it was what I really wanted and was ready for....so ad others have said...good communication and understanding is key. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Obviously it is something that requires a lot of communication, but to see if she is interested try a quiz called mojoupgrade. "
will give that a go |
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"Thanks for all the tips! "
Does she know that you have a profile here? If not you need to decide now whether you want to keep it or delete it.
If she does why not have a look round the site together with a glass of wine one evening?
Either way the basis of a successful swinging relationship is absolute honesty.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks for all the tips!
Does she know that you have a profile here? If not you need to decide now whether you want to keep it or delete it.
If she does why not have a look round the site together with a glass of wine one evening?
Either way the basis of a successful swinging relationship is absolute honesty.
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she doesn’t, doing a bit of research before I risk breaching the subject haha |
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"Thanks for all the tips!
Does she know that you have a profile here? If not you need to decide now whether you want to keep it or delete it.
If she does why not have a look round the site together with a glass of wine one evening?
Either way the basis of a successful swinging relationship is absolute honesty.
she doesn’t, doing a bit of research before I risk breaching the subject haha"
Ok. You're not the first and won't be the last . Just bear in mind what I said about honesty, you can't expect her to be honest with you about what she wants sexually if you're not returning the favour.
I'm not having a go at you just pointing out that sharing your most intimate desires takes trust, you'd be better working at building that up than doing solo research.
Good luck. I hope it works out well for both of you. |
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Nothing more to add than just talk. But remember you are not persuading her, you are finding out if this is something she would enjoy.
My wife can ask me if I would like to be fucked by another man. But she can't persuade me to do it.
You can ask your gf if she would like to be fucked by another man/woman. But you can't persuade her to do it if it's not her fantasy. |
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"Thanks for all the tips!
Does she know that you have a profile here? If not you need to decide now whether you want to keep it or delete it.
If she does why not have a look round the site together with a glass of wine one evening?
Either way the basis of a successful swinging relationship is absolute honesty.
she doesn’t, doing a bit of research before I risk breaching the subject haha"
I'm not convinced that's all you're doing with your status. |
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Have a hot night in watch a naughty film. Few glasses of wine and naughty chat. Tell her you like it when she wears revealing outfits while out. Tell her you get turned on seeing other guys looking at her.and things should progress from there. That's how I got wife into it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X"
You restored our faith in normal people on here |
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"I remember back many years ago in the pub with a large group of women (they all worked together). Somebody passed pieces of paper and asked them all to write their sexual fantasies.
All but one of them wrote 'sex with more than one man'.
Chances are your partner already harbours this fantasy.
What did the other one put?! "
She was already having sex with more than one man |
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X"
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm? |
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm?"
The harm is to himself. Being accepted as a liar will eventually lead to having a split personality which will eventually leading to harming others... |
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm?
The harm is to himself. Being accepted as a liar will eventually lead to having a split personality which will eventually leading to harming others..."
An interesting inference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. "
What do you do for fantasy wank fodder? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm?
The harm is to himself. Being accepted as a liar will eventually lead to having a split personality which will eventually leading to harming others..."
Are you a psychoanalyst? |
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"The guy is a dreamer but some people seem to enjoy sharing their dream worlds...Fab is the dreamers playground anyway..."
My dream world of ‘talk’ will keep the dude going for ages, with a few hard faps in between.
Dr. Steve |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm?
The harm is to himself. Being accepted as a liar will eventually lead to having a split personality which will eventually leading to harming others...
Are you a psychoanalyst?"
I am not but I used to be two persons in one life and it can be scary. Started by telling lies, creating stories and seeing how people adapt into them... |
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm?
The harm is to himself. Being accepted as a liar will eventually lead to having a split personality which will eventually leading to harming others...
Are you a psychoanalyst?
I am not but I used to be two persons in one life and it can be scary. Started by telling lies, creating stories and seeing how people adapt into them..."
That doesn't mean this guy is lying or that if he is he will follow your path. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm?
The harm is to himself. Being accepted as a liar will eventually lead to having a split personality which will eventually leading to harming others...
Are you a psychoanalyst?
I am not but I used to be two persons in one life and it can be scary. Started by telling lies, creating stories and seeing how people adapt into them...
That doesn't mean this guy is lying or that if he is he will follow your path."
Nobody knows...good luck to him then. Hopefully we’ll see him as a couple here soon or if his plan has worked, verified by a couple... |
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm?
The harm is to himself. Being accepted as a liar will eventually lead to having a split personality which will eventually leading to harming others...
Are you a psychoanalyst?
I am not but I used to be two persons in one life and it can be scary. Started by telling lies, creating stories and seeing how people adapt into them...
That doesn't mean this guy is lying or that if he is he will follow your path.
Nobody knows...good luck to him then. Hopefully we’ll see him as a couple here soon or if his plan has worked, verified by a couple..."
That’s really not how mental Illness works. The illness was most likely there first,
You can’t lie then end up with a split personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm?
The harm is to himself. Being accepted as a liar will eventually lead to having a split personality which will eventually leading to harming others...
Are you a psychoanalyst?
I am not but I used to be two persons in one life and it can be scary. Started by telling lies, creating stories and seeing how people adapt into them...
That doesn't mean this guy is lying or that if he is he will follow your path.
Nobody knows...good luck to him then. Hopefully we’ll see him as a couple here soon or if his plan has worked, verified by a couple...
That’s really not how mental Illness works. The illness was most likely there first,
You can’t lie then end up with a split personality "
Yes, you start the stories when the other person starts crying for attention, you end up with two wardrobes, two names, you name it... |
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"I cant believe how you’ve all fallen in this dreamer’s wonderland and actually gave the fantasist advice too. i thought that too!!! X
Because it's good to help people along the way. Every one of us started out somewhere. If the guy is fantasising where's the harm?
The harm is to himself. Being accepted as a liar will eventually lead to having a split personality which will eventually leading to harming others...
Are you a psychoanalyst?
I am not but I used to be two persons in one life and it can be scary. Started by telling lies, creating stories and seeing how people adapt into them...
That doesn't mean this guy is lying or that if he is he will follow your path.
Nobody knows...good luck to him then. Hopefully we’ll see him as a couple here soon or if his plan has worked, verified by a couple...
That’s really not how mental Illness works. The illness was most likely there first,
You can’t lie then end up with a split personality
Yes, you start the stories when the other person starts crying for attention, you end up with two wardrobes, two names, you name it..."
I’m either not understanding you or your not understanding me |
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need to work out how to bring it up!
