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One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work |
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"I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work "
Is your FB someone from here or someone you know?
Shift work seems to be a blessing in disguise! |
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over a year ago
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Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute |
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"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute "
What stopped you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work
Is your FB someone from here or someone you know?
Shift work seems to be a blessing in disguise! "
Someone from here, however he has deleted his profile...apparently swinging just isn’t for him
And honestly, if I had different work hours I’m not so sure I would be meeting up with anyone. Not often anyway, I’m busy in the evenings and most weekends! I’m just lucky though with these hours, and understand that it’s not an easy thing meeting during weekdays |
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"I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work
Is your FB someone from here or someone you know?
Shift work seems to be a blessing in disguise!
Someone from here, however he has deleted his profile...apparently swinging just isn’t for him
And honestly, if I had different work hours I’m not so sure I would be meeting up with anyone. Not often anyway, I’m busy in the evenings and most weekends! I’m just lucky though with these hours, and understand that it’s not an easy thing meeting during weekdays "
Do you send images over to hubby whilst he’s at work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work
Is your FB someone from here or someone you know?
Shift work seems to be a blessing in disguise!
Someone from here, however he has deleted his profile...apparently swinging just isn’t for him
And honestly, if I had different work hours I’m not so sure I would be meeting up with anyone. Not often anyway, I’m busy in the evenings and most weekends! I’m just lucky though with these hours, and understand that it’s not an easy thing meeting during weekdays
Do you send images over to hubby whilst he’s at work? "
Images, videos, if he’s on his lunch maybe a wee phone call.... |
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"I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work
Is your FB someone from here or someone you know?
Shift work seems to be a blessing in disguise!
Someone from here, however he has deleted his profile...apparently swinging just isn’t for him
And honestly, if I had different work hours I’m not so sure I would be meeting up with anyone. Not often anyway, I’m busy in the evenings and most weekends! I’m just lucky though with these hours, and understand that it’s not an easy thing meeting during weekdays
Do you send images over to hubby whilst he’s at work?
Images, videos, if he’s on his lunch maybe a wee phone call.... "
Has anyone ever noticed your FB going over? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work
Is your FB someone from here or someone you know?
Shift work seems to be a blessing in disguise!
Someone from here, however he has deleted his profile...apparently swinging just isn’t for him
And honestly, if I had different work hours I’m not so sure I would be meeting up with anyone. Not often anyway, I’m busy in the evenings and most weekends! I’m just lucky though with these hours, and understand that it’s not an easy thing meeting during weekdays
Do you send images over to hubby whilst he’s at work?
Images, videos, if he’s on his lunch maybe a wee phone call....
Has anyone ever noticed your FB going over? "
One neighbour has, he’s my age and guessed straight up what was going on. I joked he can think whatever he wants to think, which I think, made him think that he’s just a relative. He’s 10 years older than me but does look older, so if someone was nosey enough to ask, I could easily think of an excuse . But apart from that one neighbour, not that I’m aware of! He doesn’t park in my drive way, he parks across the road in a wee car park (I live on a newly built estate, so there’s lots of cars in and out the street every day). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute
What stopped you? "
Moved away, way away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We currently have two regular guys we meet. It works really well because we know each other well and know what gets each other off.
It can be quite tricky to find regulars and from what other people have said we are very lucky really |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute "
We feel your pain, it is amazing how difficult it can be, that is why if you find a good one you keep going back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My opinion would be a bit careful with a regular.
Before you know it your chatti g about life and sharing little jokes and before you know it one or both is developing feelings
That would be our concern
1 or 2 regulars
would be vastly preferable to trying to find randoms
But finding one that over time would keep perspective on his role without forming emotional attachements is key amd not easy
Easy enough to find someone but not easy for them to stay in the fuck zone without them trying to creep into the relationship zone
Just an opinion |
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i had a boyfriend i seen for over 10 yrs until he got married, that worked well for me, would have sex most weekends, after nights drinking at home with me and hubby or on the way home after nights out together, seen him a few afternoons when hubby was at work too, seeing a couple of guys now maybe 24 or 5 times a year each been seeing them for about 6yrs, relax better when i get to know a guy and obviously he gets to know me, what turns me on etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute
We feel your pain, it is amazing how difficult it can be, that is why if you find a good one you keep going back. "
Cannot agree more
Wife is uber picky and of the single males we have had message she just hasn't been able to find the right one to be a regular and we find that many potential meets go quiet when comes to day of social etc
Odd |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute
We feel your pain, it is amazing how difficult it can be, that is why if you find a good one you keep going back.
Cannot agree more
Wife is uber picky and of the single males we have had message she just hasn't been able to find the right one to be a regular and we find that many potential meets go quiet when comes to day of social etc
Odd"
It is uncanny how similar our experiences are. |
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"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute
We feel your pain, it is amazing how difficult it can be, that is why if you find a good one you keep going back.
Cannot agree more
Wife is uber picky and of the single males we have had message she just hasn't been able to find the right one to be a regular and we find that many potential meets go quiet when comes to day of social etc
Odd"
We’ve encountered the same.
We’ve pretty much given up on the idea of regulars and will just concentrate on finding guys we like for one offs. If they want to meet again then great, but if not so be it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes 1 male and 3 females at different times. |
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I’m trying to find a regular, met one that may turn into a regular, but a regular/boyfriend type arrangement with a lady/hotwife would be perfect for me |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
I would say the best way to find a regular is to continue to meet guys and see if they want to meet a second time. .who knows a second then third time could turn into a regular thing...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm also looking for something regular and gorgeously connecting. I don't think developing *some* feelings is a problem. In a way it's the whole point of having something regular imo. It just becomes more rewarding and fulfilling. The eroticism deepens.
For me, it's all about what you do with those feelings. If you're mature and adult about it all, recognising it's all just a lovely bit of play, it isn't real, and making sure you respect any relationship or emotional boundaries that are there, tucking your gorgeous arousal away as something beautiful and enriching... but essentially a gorgeous bit of role play with a fun sexy friend. Or if you start being a wally about it all and conjure up a whole clutterfuck of drama and chaos that causes the whole delicious game to unravel. Just my 2p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Foolish fools. |
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feelings sometimes do come into it, especially if there is a lot of intimacy with kissing etc, i felt i was falling in love with one guy, but had to keep reminding myself, i was taken and he was a friend of hubby's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve had 7 regular guy in 4 years. We currently have 2 guys in the go. One of them we’ve been seeing intermittently for 3 years and the other we’ve been seeing since last summer. We also have a lady friend.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you have a regular guy who has other regular ladies, the chances of 'feelings' are less likely. |
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"I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work
Is your FB someone from here or someone you know?
Shift work seems to be a blessing in disguise!
Someone from here, however he has deleted his profile...apparently swinging just isn’t for him
And honestly, if I had different work hours I’m not so sure I would be meeting up with anyone. Not often anyway, I’m busy in the evenings and most weekends! I’m just lucky though with these hours, and understand that it’s not an easy thing meeting during weekdays
Do you send images over to hubby whilst he’s at work?
Images, videos, if he’s on his lunch maybe a wee phone call.... "
That is very hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve had 7 regular guy in 4 years. We currently have 2 guys in the go. One of them we’ve been seeing intermittently for 3 years and the other we’ve been seeing since last summer. We also have a lady friend.
Mrs"
If you need another guy I'm single . Can travel .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am currently looking for exactly this. For regular fun on the side, taking on dates etc etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute
We feel your pain, it is amazing how difficult it can be, that is why if you find a good one you keep going back.
Cannot agree more
Wife is uber picky and of the single males we have had message she just hasn't been able to find the right one to be a regular and we find that many potential meets go quiet when comes to day of social etc
Odd
It is uncanny how similar our experiences are. "
Think a lot find it the same
We have a system that probably doesn't help but s out time wasters
Mrs gives kik to the very few potentials
Then arranges a social if that goes ok then arrange a separate meet to play
Most do dark before the social lol
This place is becoming a pain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute
We feel your pain, it is amazing how difficult it can be, that is why if you find a good one you keep going back.
Cannot agree more
Wife is uber picky and of the single males we have had message she just hasn't been able to find the right one to be a regular and we find that many potential meets go quiet when comes to day of social etc
Odd
We’ve encountered the same.
We’ve pretty much given up on the idea of regulars and will just concentrate on finding guys we like for one offs. If they want to meet again then great, but if not so be it. "
This could be the way forward |
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Katie has had a few over the years. Currently two on the go. Our system is to meet a guy as a three and if she likes him all future dates are one to one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are still in early days on this Hotwife journey and enjoying socialising and flirting but have already both agreed that if we find one or two guys who tick every box then it may suit us if they became regulars.
We find it difficult to build the connection on a one nighter - only really managed once - and like the idea of being able to organise meets with someone knowing what we are getting into and building the excitement up.
Each to their own though and can certainly see the benefits of both approaches if you can get the right guys x |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
I'd love to hear (either here or privately) how it all started for you both? The first conversation, first meet...etc. Don't be shy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to see a couple a few times a week and we would have fun as singles or all 3 of us together.
Sadly my work changed and j went away fir a few months. By the time I came back she had found another guy.
I’ve tried to rekindle the fun but she is no longer interested in me and says the past is in the past.
Was fun while it lasted |
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Gayle has had regulars but also loves meeting new guys too so she has a mix of both! |
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Every regular begins with a one nighter. |
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"I am currently looking for exactly this. For regular fun on the side, taking on dates etc etc. "
That's called a girlfriend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d live nothing more than a regular lady or couple but that’s hard to find on here lol |
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Not often enough. Too long a period of non contact before chatting again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Katie has had a few over the years. Currently two on the go. Our system is to meet a guy as a three and if she likes him all future dates are one to one. " |
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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It works well for me, I try not to meet them more than every other week or so, so we are not living in each others pockets so to speak. Hubby loves it and always wants to know what I have been up to. |
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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago
Kilmarnock |
"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?..."
Yes, met a guy off here maybe 3 years ago and only dropped him a few weeks back as he was becoming too much like hard work... Must have met him well over 20 times in those 3 years which may not seem a lot but considering I am only free about 1 Saturday in 6 we did fcuk a fair amount
Now looking for a new regular... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a wanna be hotwife. Would like a regular guy for intimate fun, who likes my adventures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to find a regular guy for hotwife fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have regular friends i meet when i can.
Have always played that way. I dont like having loads of one offs. |
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We have two regular guys that wife enjoys playing with. One we meet at club the other at hotel when he down our way. The rest of time we may look for one off meets with guys girls or couples if they take our fancy. But wife really enjoys her two regulars |
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Fuck buddie we been seeing about 6 yrs now xx some mornings some nights own key to house now xxx hubby loves the pics we send it phone call xx good friebds too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmmmm. As people say the more the meets you have with someone the more comfortable you are with that person and are able to push boundary’s more
Love to be someone’s regular
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I would love a regular again. Someone who fully under cuckolding and would be happy to spend the night regularly with me/us.
My cuck works away Monday to Friday so once Trust is established regular meets would be great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It works well for me, I try not to meet them more than every other week or so, so we are not living in each others pockets so to speak. Hubby loves it and always wants to know what I have been up to."
The nice thing about regular meets is that you can build up trust and go places you perhaps wouldn't on a one off quickie. You can also build up a level of friendship that helps everything flow more naturally, giving it all a much more delicious seductive context, and that's quite different from the whole anonymous sex thing, which can feel a bit surreal at times and a bit demeaning at others. So I completely understand what you and others enjoy about regular meets xx |
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"It works well for me, I try not to meet them more than every other week or so, so we are not living in each others pockets so to speak. Hubby loves it and always wants to know what I have been up to.
The nice thing about regular meets is that you can build up trust and go places you perhaps wouldn't on a one off quickie. You can also build up a level of friendship that helps everything flow more naturally, giving it all a much more delicious seductive context, and that's quite different from the whole anonymous sex thing, which can feel a bit surreal at times and a bit demeaning at others. So I completely understand what you and others enjoy about regular meets xx "
That’s exactly why it’s become so appealing |
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"I would love a regular again. Someone who fully under cuckolding and would be happy to spend the night regularly with me/us.
My cuck works away Monday to Friday so once Trust is established regular meets would be great. "
The overnight meets are one of the best things about this, waking up with that someone after a passionate night and starting again is a wonderful thing to be able to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve had 7 regular guy in 4 years. We currently have 2 guys in the go. One of them we’ve been seeing intermittently for 3 years and the other we’ve been seeing since last summer. We also have a lady friend.
Mrs"
I have been a regular for 3.5yrs
Thoroughly enjoyed ...meeting the lady as well as hubby for 3some fun. All started with a wink on here. Super exciting and sex gets better and better. Have the mental as well as physical connection. We have all become good friends |
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"I would love a regular again. Someone who fully under cuckolding and would be happy to spend the night regularly with me/us.
My cuck works away Monday to Friday so once Trust is established regular meets would be great.
The overnight meets are one of the best things about this, waking up with that someone after a passionate night and starting again is a wonderful thing to be able to do "
We’ve never tried an overnight meet actually. Could be something for the future |
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My wife used to have a regular guy who’d she meet and send me pics etc of, it’s brilliant when you have guys you trust in this way to treat her well socially and sexually.
Unfortunately we find it difficult now, guys promise the world but rarely work out in reality. We tend just to hook up with single guys in clubs now.
We both enjoy having regular partners aside ourselves, hopefully this might occur again soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby regularly got a female he fucks she’s a friend of ours and he has a huge thing for her thighs and ass so whatever keeps him happy I’m ok with it as I get my fair share when we go out together |
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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago
Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and |
We would love a regular guy but so many time wasters grr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife used to have a regular guy who’d she meet and send me pics etc of, it’s brilliant when you have guys you trust in this way to treat her well socially and sexually.
Unfortunately we find it difficult now, guys promise the world but rarely work out in reality. We tend just to hook up with single guys in clubs now.
We both enjoy having regular partners aside ourselves, hopefully this might occur again soon."
All.about the trust and not overstepping the line as a lover/fwb....always have to be respectful of the boundaries and not take the 'michael'...after all ita the hubby and wife who need to be stimulated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sue has had a regular for 5 years and meets at least once a week. It's ideal as we can both trust him (as he doesnt meet others ) so recently gone bare back ( something we swore we would never do ) its certainly added to the fun |
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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago
tamworth |
Have started seeing a few couples on a regular basis...just greedy and looking for more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im looking for an fb if anyones interested |
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here."
Well as much as most say that they want to be regulars and not just looking for a one off,truth is from our experience most guy's the thrill is in the chase and once mission accomplished they move on fairly quickly.
That said we have three or four trustworthy guy's who with a decent amount of notice Mrs can have a meet.
We prefer it this way rather than just one guy everytime.
That's not really swinging then it's more like a relationship. |
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Regular is always better, as already said in previous posts,,, it just adds excitement and comfort to meets...
I’m Looking for a regular.... |
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"I would love a regular again. Someone who fully under cuckolding and would be happy to spend the night regularly with me/us.
My cuck works away Monday to Friday so once Trust is established regular meets would be great.
The overnight meets are one of the best things about this, waking up with that someone after a passionate night and starting again is a wonderful thing to be able to do
We’ve never tried an overnight meet actually. Could be something for the future "
Going to sleep and waking up together definitely does add another dynamic I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being honest it’s what we seek... however, my experience of single males here to date has not been good and at least three have been a complete nightmare so now I’m very cautious.
There seems to be a reality chip missing, with most assuming that because you have a profile on here and describe yourself as a hot wife that makes you random and desperate.
I tend to view this as an indulgence... something decadent so I want a man that reflects that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here.
Well as much as most say that they want to be regulars and not just looking for a one off,truth is from our experience most guy's the thrill is in the chase and once mission accomplished they move on fairly quickly.
That said we have three or four trustworthy guy's who with a decent amount of notice Mrs can have a meet.
We prefer it this way rather than just one guy everytime.
That's not really swinging then it's more like a relationship."
Quite the reverse for me...more the thrill of being regular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife will only meet guys to fuck but won't let me meet women because it will make her jealous . And I barely get sex .. fucked .com |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like every guy on here "me,me, me, me" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm jealous of you all
While I've been the other for a few wives I've always wanted a partner who would swing and cuckold me. Can never seem to find a single women who is up for the more taboo side of life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have two regular guys that wife enjoys playing with. One we meet at club the other at hotel when he down our way. The rest of time we may look for one off meets with guys girls or couples if they take our fancy. But wife really enjoys her two regulars "
If she needs a 3rd regular please consider me |
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It’s just getting the right connection and being realistic about expectations! Setting boundaries to suit everyone - it’s a relationship after all!
Finding sincere people who can trust each other isn’t so easy to find but you’ve just got to keep trying and experimenting along the way!
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over a year ago
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A couple we know have a regular guy but its generally the wife visiting him once a month , gone on for years , dont think they do 3 somes etc . |
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You will have to chat with her if we bump into you at club |
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At the moment we ate doing more one off meets then anything and ticking of our list but in future we would like a regular guy for V to play with both on her own and when i there. G |
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We had one for 3 years then he got himself a girlfriend so he stopped been looking foe another regular |
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over a year ago
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Marc wants me to have a regular guy who I meet with for sex. I like the idea of texting him that I'll be home late for work because I'm going off to fuck someone else. Hasn't happened yet, though. A fantasy... |
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over a year ago
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Regualar is good.. safe.. no nonsense.. and great sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute
We feel your pain, it is amazing how difficult it can be, that is why if you find a good one you keep going back.
Cannot agree more
Wife is uber picky and of the single males we have had message she just hasn't been able to find the right one to be a regular and we find that many potential meets go quiet when comes to day of social etc
Odd
We’ve encountered the same.
We’ve pretty much given up on the idea of regulars and will just concentrate on finding guys we like for one offs. If they want to meet again then great, but if not so be it. "
It can be so hard to find regular couples too, from the opposite perspective. How on earth can both sides find it so hard? Doesn’t make sense |
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It’s usually where both parties have certain criteria and the regulars close to them don’t fit those criteria and the ones that do are too far!
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"It’s usually where both parties have certain criteria and the regulars close to them don’t fit those criteria and the ones that do are too far!
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It just seems that with so many frustrated bulls and couples that you would think you could find people within your criteria |
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I think key to finding a regular guy for HW / Cuck fun but without the drama of feelings creeping in is to find someone in a similar situation to yourself.
So if you’re in a relationship find someone who’s in a similar situation, someone who can’t afford to ‘fall in love’ and has no intention of that happening.
I’ve just started meeting a lady I think will develop into a regular meet, her hubby knows and helps out being accommodating and making himself scarce when we meet. She too has made encouraging sounds about me meeting other ladies too, mainly because she wants a MFF, greedy girl.
So couples, we are out there, just send a message, you never know where it might lead...
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over a year ago
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I much prefer a regular couple, just getting to know them and the dynamic is so erotic. Its just a question of available time, location and reliability. I am certainly looking again for the regularity of seeing a couple. |
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over a year ago
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I used to meet a married lady most weeks for some sexy fun. We used send pics, videos and even had the odd phone call while he was at work. Once we had a 3some which was great. I enjoyed the idea of playing with a hot wife and look forward to repeating the experience soon ?? |
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By *rs spicyCouple
over a year ago
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I've had several regulars which is great. I do enjoy the thrill of a first time meet as well. Double the pleasure! |
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"I think key to finding a regular guy for HW / Cuck fun but without the drama of feelings creeping in is to find someone in a similar situation to yourself.
So if you’re in a relationship find someone who’s in a similar situation, someone who can’t afford to ‘fall in love’ and has no intention of that happening.
I’ve just started meeting a lady I think will develop into a regular meet, her hubby knows and helps out being accommodating and making himself scarce when we meet. She too has made encouraging sounds about me meeting other ladies too, mainly because she wants a MFF, greedy girl.
So couples, we are out there, just send a message, you never know where it might lead...
HG
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But the bull of a Hotwife couple would usually be a single man (unless he were cheating). Only the hotwife and her partner would be in a permanent relationship. Therefore it wouldn’t as a norm be possible for those pursuing this type of arrangement to find it from someone in a similar situation. Part of what makes this arrangement particularly exciting is that the bull is single and the hotwife is not, so it is only the hotwife who can’t afford to fall in love, not the bull. Theoretically anyway.
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over a year ago
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I've been a regular of a hotwife for quite a while now,I usually see her at least once or twice a week.Sometimes her husband is there and either watches or joins in,other times it's just the two of us.It has worked well for all involved so far |
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"I think key to finding a regular guy for HW / Cuck fun but without the drama of feelings creeping in is to find someone in a similar situation to yourself.
So if you’re in a relationship find someone who’s in a similar situation, someone who can’t afford to ‘fall in love’ and has no intention of that happening.
I’ve just started meeting a lady I think will develop into a regular meet, her hubby knows and helps out being accommodating and making himself scarce when we meet. She too has made encouraging sounds about me meeting other ladies too, mainly because she wants a MFF, greedy girl.
So couples, we are out there, just send a message, you never know where it might lead...
HG
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But the bull of a Hotwife couple would usually be a single man (unless he were cheating). Only the hotwife and her partner would be in a permanent relationship. Therefore it wouldn’t as a norm be possible for those pursuing this type of arrangement to find it from someone in a similar situation. Part of what makes this arrangement particularly exciting is that the bull is single and the hotwife is not, so it is only the hotwife who can’t afford to fall in love, not the bull. Theoretically anyway.
Mrs"
I don’t agree, for one the term bull is more closely associated with a cukckold type set up and not the hotwife scene.
Hot wifeing can be more of a boyfriend set up, I believe the bf can be either in a relationship of his own or not, as long as everyone is happy.
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Love to find a regular couple xx |
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over a year ago
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My hotwife has had a regular guy since Xmas and meets him every week in his hotel as he lives up north and travels down for work.
They send pics to me next what they are doing and this week of hot a picture of her with a full facial. |
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over a year ago
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"We currently have two regular guys we meet. It works really well because we know each other well and know what gets each other off.
It can be quite tricky to find regulars and from what other people have said we are very lucky really" very lucky guys x |
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over a year ago
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"I want one" I’m here babes x
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over a year ago
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"I've had several regulars which is great. I do enjoy the thrill of a first time meet as well. Double the pleasure!"
I enjoy meeting new men, The thrill and excitement and expectation of sex with a new partner can become addictive
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
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Hi would love to meet a couple or single lady for regular meets. I've been in the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced in different situations and understand/appreciate that everyone has their own fantasies they want to try and dynamic which works for them. I also have plenty of ideas/scenarios we could try x |
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Exactly what I’m looking for. Reason being for me it’s a lot less drama |
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over a year ago
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Our regular guy moved to Scotland, it would definitely be better if we had a regular guy to meet. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I'm very open to a hotwife relationship too. |
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over a year ago
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"Marc wants me to have a regular guy who I meet with for sex. I like the idea of texting him that I'll be home late for work because I'm going off to fuck someone else. Hasn't happened yet, though. A fantasy..." .
We like that |
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"I think key to finding a regular guy for HW / Cuck fun but without the drama of feelings creeping in is to find someone in a similar situation to yourself.
So if you’re in a relationship find someone who’s in a similar situation, someone who can’t afford to ‘fall in love’ and has no intention of that happening.
I’ve just started meeting a lady I think will develop into a regular meet, her hubby knows and helps out being accommodating and making himself scarce when we meet. She too has made encouraging sounds about me meeting other ladies too, mainly because she wants a MFF, greedy girl.
So couples, we are out there, just send a message, you never know where it might lead...
HG
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But the bull of a Hotwife couple would usually be a single man (unless he were cheating). Only the hotwife and her partner would be in a permanent relationship. Therefore it wouldn’t as a norm be possible for those pursuing this type of arrangement to find it from someone in a similar situation. Part of what makes this arrangement particularly exciting is that the bull is single and the hotwife is not, so it is only the hotwife who can’t afford to fall in love, not the bull. Theoretically anyway.
Mrs
I don’t agree, for one the term bull is more closely associated with a cukckold type set up and not the hotwife scene.
Hot wifeing can be more of a boyfriend set up, I believe the bf can be either in a relationship of his own or not, as long as everyone is happy.
HG"
Yeah as long as everyone knows the score and is happy with it |
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we are looking for regular guy for em if anyone's interested |
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"I think key to finding a regular guy for HW / Cuck fun but without the drama of feelings creeping in is to find someone in a similar situation to yourself.
So if you’re in a relationship find someone who’s in a similar situation, someone who can’t afford to ‘fall in love’ and has no intention of that happening.
I’ve just started meeting a lady I think will develop into a regular meet, her hubby knows and helps out being accommodating and making himself scarce when we meet. She too has made encouraging sounds about me meeting other ladies too, mainly because she wants a MFF, greedy girl.
So couples, we are out there, just send a message, you never know where it might lead...
HG
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But the bull of a Hotwife couple would usually be a single man (unless he were cheating). Only the hotwife and her partner would be in a permanent relationship. Therefore it wouldn’t as a norm be possible for those pursuing this type of arrangement to find it from someone in a similar situation. Part of what makes this arrangement particularly exciting is that the bull is single and the hotwife is not, so it is only the hotwife who can’t afford to fall in love, not the bull. Theoretically anyway.
Mrs
I don’t agree, for one the term bull is more closely associated with a cukckold type set up and not the hotwife scene.
Hot wifeing can be more of a boyfriend set up, I believe the bf can be either in a relationship of his own or not, as long as everyone is happy.
HG"
I agree with you. The term bull is indeed more associated with the cuckolding end of the hotwife spectrum. But you are right a Hotwife’s boyfriend can indeed also be in a relationship. My personal experience, having had hotwife relationships with both single and taken men, and on varying levels of the spectrum, that not only is it more the norm for the men to be single, but i also find it a more successful experience with single men for a variety of reasons. Maybe just bad luck on my part of course, and no doubt others will have had different experiences. But I personally think single men make better hotwife boyfriends or bulls. I also find it quite hard finding a married/taken guy who plays alone with consent and no restrictions.
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I would like to have a regular as the more you meet the more you become comfy with that person so the sex gets better |
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over a year ago
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We have a couple of friends that we’ve played with, both together and me alone, on and off over 5 years+. We all get along socially aside from the naughty stuff which to me is a plus rather than a problem. Sex with someone you like on a personal level and can have a giggle with is always going to be better I feel. |
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"My opinion would be a bit careful with a regular.
Before you know it your chatti g about life and sharing little jokes and before you know it one or both is developing feelings
That would be our concern
1 or 2 regulars
would be vastly preferable to trying to find randoms
But finding one that over time would keep perspective on his role without forming emotional attachements is key amd not easy
Easy enough to find someone but not easy for them to stay in the fuck zone without them trying to creep into the relationship zone
Just an opinion"
Another concern is in respect to a lady being a regular and the husband falling for her? Yes it can happen peeps and when it does it is quite stressful to deal with.... |
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over a year ago
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Great read well done op x
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While there are a few guys that Mrs H has fucked more than once we really wouldn't want a regular FB.
We try to keep our swinging and private lives as separate as possible and for us it would cross a line or at least blur the edges. |
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By *olexMan
over a year ago
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I've been a semi regular partner for a hotwife & i loved it. Unfortunately that finished but it's something i'd like to continue with a new hotwife. |
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"I've been a semi regular partner for a hotwife & i loved it. Unfortunately that finished but it's something i'd like to continue with a new hotwife."
What’s a ‘semi regular partner for a hotwife’? |
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over a year ago
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"I've been a semi regular partner for a hotwife & i loved it. Unfortunately that finished but it's something i'd like to continue with a new hotwife.
What’s a ‘semi regular partner for a hotwife’? "
Our long term playmate we probably see about 3 or 4 times a year. I guess that’s a bit of a stretch calling him regular, but he’s become such a good friend and we’re very fond of him. Semi-regular might be a good description of what we have with him. However my new lover I hope will be more regular. Once a month would suit me nicely.
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By *olexMan
over a year ago
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"I've been a semi regular partner for a hotwife & i loved it. Unfortunately that finished but it's something i'd like to continue with a new hotwife.
What’s a ‘semi regular partner for a hotwife’?
Our long term playmate we probably see about 3 or 4 times a year. I guess that’s a bit of a stretch calling him regular, but he’s become such a good friend and we’re very fond of him. Semi-regular might be a good description of what we have with him. However my new lover I hope will be more regular. Once a month would suit me nicely.
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here."
Yes and they can work although are problematic, when you can get it right go for it.
Diaries are always an issue we found but they are achievable if you set out what’s what from the start xx |
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Having been the third party in several hotwife relationships over the period of 20 years I'd like to think I have some knowledge of the matter. Varying from a couple of years to eight years, yes it can work.
I have met, initially the couples to start with and over time, usually a couple of weeks it has progressed to meeting the wife alone, either out or at theirs.
It has to be about communication and honesty certainly between the couple. In all cases I have got on well with the husband and have always felt privileged in the fact he trusts me with his wife whether he has been there or not.
In all relationships, photos have always been taken to send to the husband or show him on his return from work or wherever. While I am having great sex, it is the enhancement the couple get to their sex life which is important.
While not saying it couldn't happen, if all three people recognise it for what it is, swinging, extra curricular activities, whatever you like to call it then falling for the wife, extra guy/ femaleshouldn't arise axa situation. If it did then the parties need to recognise that and step away. As I say it comes down to trust and communication. I did have one scenario where the husband became jealous enough to withdraw and it was obvious. Although there was nothing going on, except what he had given his blessing to, it happens. You then need to step back and allow the couple to communicate and work things out, even walking away if necessary. I don't think this has happened with experienced couples I have played with but it did with a fairly new to the scene couple. They talked it out and we continued to play as a 3some until such a time that they wanted to go back to the hotwife playing without him.
Communication, communication and trust in all involved.
Regular can be as regular as the parties involved wish to be. The majority of mine were weekly, a couple monthly. Whatever works. |
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* that should read a couple of months. Not 'a couple of weeks'. |
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"Having been the third party in several hotwife relationships over the period of 20 years I'd like to think I have some knowledge of the matter. Varying from a couple of years to eight years, yes it can work.
I have met, initially the couples to start with and over time, usually a couple of weeks it has progressed to meeting the wife alone, either out or at theirs.
It has to be about communication and honesty certainly between the couple. In all cases I have got on well with the husband and have always felt privileged in the fact he trusts me with his wife whether he has been there or not.
In all relationships, photos have always been taken to send to the husband or show him on his return from work or wherever. While I am having great sex, it is the enhancement the couple get to their sex life which is important.
While not saying it couldn't happen, if all three people recognise it for what it is, swinging, extra curricular activities, whatever you like to call it then falling for the wife, extra guy/ femaleshouldn't arise axa situation. If it did then the parties need to recognise that and step away. As I say it comes down to trust and communication. I did have one scenario where the husband became jealous enough to withdraw and it was obvious. Although there was nothing going on, except what he had given his blessing to, it happens. You then need to step back and allow the couple to communicate and work things out, even walking away if necessary. I don't think this has happened with experienced couples I have played with but it did with a fairly new to the scene couple. They talked it out and we continued to play as a 3some until such a time that they wanted to go back to the hotwife playing without him.
Communication, communication and trust in all involved.
Regular can be as regular as the parties involved wish to be. The majority of mine were weekly, a couple monthly. Whatever works."
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love a few regulars and have a couple on the go now but as soon as it becomes non sexual then its night night im here with hubs for the fun and extra pleasure to our sex life extra sex is lush ...clingy emotional guys are not.. |
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"love a few regulars and have a couple on the go now but as soon as it becomes non sexual then its night night im here with hubs for the fun and extra pleasure to our sex life extra sex is lush ...clingy emotional guys are not.."
Am surprised guys get clingy?! Would have thought it would have been the reverse - did you find these regulars in vanilla life? |
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nope via fab and other's we've been swinging pretty much 20 years now on and off and been on fab from the beginning and the other big site before this one its hard to find anyone who can leave the emotions behind always have been and not just guys when we first started all them many moons ago I had one meet with a fem who then went on to become a stalker lol put me off meeting women for a very long time .... fab has changed and where it used to be a swingers site its now 50/50 swinging /dating or moving with the times I guess im ok with that as it works for many but it muddles the puddle for many as to what the really want ...we are just old fashion swingers looking for extra sex fun ..nothing else |
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"nope via fab and other's we've been swinging pretty much 20 years now on and off and been on fab from the beginning and the other big site before this one its hard to find anyone who can leave the emotions behind always have been and not just guys when we first started all them many moons ago I had one meet with a fem who then went on to become a stalker lol put me off meeting women for a very long time .... fab has changed and where it used to be a swingers site its now 50/50 swinging /dating or moving with the times I guess im ok with that as it works for many but it muddles the puddle for many as to what the really want ...we are just old fashion swingers looking for extra sex fun ..nothing else "
Oh i see - you are right re fab now - its become more of a regular hookup tinder site - so the people are going to be get more clingy... |
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over a year ago
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here." Mrs nw has a couple of guys that she meets, usually when I am away on business, she phones me or facetimes me while she is meeting , massive turn on for us both, not to mention the guys ! |
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"nope via fab and other's we've been swinging pretty much 20 years now on and off and been on fab from the beginning and the other big site before this one its hard to find anyone who can leave the emotions behind always have been and not just guys when we first started all them many moons ago I had one meet with a fem who then went on to become a stalker lol put me off meeting women for a very long time .... fab has changed and where it used to be a swingers site its now 50/50 swinging /dating or moving with the times I guess im ok with that as it works for many but it muddles the puddle for many as to what the really want ...we are just old fashion swingers looking for extra sex fun ..nothing else "
Fab has changed, considerably since I joined. I'm sure other sites have too. I've taken a step back from this site and other over the last couple of years because of that. Too many singles aren't looking for what the site was set up for, in my opinion, couples too, those new to the scene seem to have different expectations than those of years ago. Emotions should be left at the door and far to many seem to forget that. That I think, is why the 'scene' has changed over the years. I'm not saying you can't become friends or even care about someone....as a friend, but that is as far as it should go. |
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"I would love a regular again. Someone who fully under cuckolding and would be happy to spend the night regularly with me/us.
My cuck works away Monday to Friday so once Trust is established regular meets would be great.
The overnight meets are one of the best things about this, waking up with that someone after a passionate night and starting again is a wonderful thing to be able to do
We’ve never tried an overnight meet actually. Could be something for the future "
Wife has had overnight meet in the past
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over a year ago
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"Our regular guy moved to Scotland, it would definitely be better if we had a regular guy to meet. "
Agree, regulars would be so much better
Our area on here, Nottingham has a shallow pool as wife very picky |
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over a year ago
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here."
I believe its all depend on how to make it workout both side and also main important thing is having a trust plus set boundaries ! Plus meet times and days which work for both ppl. Many guys or cpl here looking for regular fb but sometimes it wont workout for them because the reason behind is either they dont build up a good commucation connection or they dont put effort to make every meet into something excited !!
I would love to have a regular Fb which i make sure to seduce her mind and body which keep her happy on every meet !! |
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I've had a few one offs but would like to find a regular guy for fun when hubby is at work |
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"I think key to finding a regular guy for HW / Cuck fun but without the drama of feelings creeping in is to find someone in a similar situation to yourself.
So if you’re in a relationship find someone who’s in a similar situation, someone who can’t afford to ‘fall in love’ and has no intention of that happening.
I’ve just started meeting a lady I think will develop into a regular meet, her hubby knows and helps out being accommodating and making himself scarce when we meet. She too has made encouraging sounds about me meeting other ladies too, mainly because she wants a MFF, greedy girl.
So couples, we are out there, just send a message, you never know where it might lead...
HG
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But the bull of a Hotwife couple would usually be a single man (unless he were cheating). Only the hotwife and her partner would be in a permanent relationship. Therefore it wouldn’t as a norm be possible for those pursuing this type of arrangement to find it from someone in a similar situation. Part of what makes this arrangement particularly exciting is that the bull is single and the hotwife is not, so it is only the hotwife who can’t afford to fall in love, not the bull. Theoretically anyway.
Mrs
I don’t agree, for one the term bull is more closely associated with a cukckold type set up and not the hotwife scene.
Hot wifeing can be more of a boyfriend set up, I believe the bf can be either in a relationship of his own or not, as long as everyone is happy.
HG
I agree with you. The term bull is indeed more associated with the cuckolding end of the hotwife spectrum. But you are right a Hotwife’s boyfriend can indeed also be in a relationship. My personal experience, having had hotwife relationships with both single and taken men, and on varying levels of the spectrum, that not only is it more the norm for the men to be single, but i also find it a more successful experience with single men for a variety of reasons. Maybe just bad luck on my part of course, and no doubt others will have had different experiences. But I personally think single men make better hotwife boyfriends or bulls. I also find it quite hard finding a married/taken guy who plays alone with consent and no restrictions.
Mrs "
Gotta say I’d be very happy to be your hot wife boyfriend me very much likey x x |
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over a year ago
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"I've been a semi regular partner for a hotwife & i loved it. Unfortunately that finished but it's something i'd like to continue with a new hotwife.
What’s a ‘semi regular partner for a hotwife’?
Our long term playmate we probably see about 3 or 4 times a year. I guess that’s a bit of a stretch calling him regular, but he’s become such a good friend and we’re very fond of him. Semi-regular might be a good description of what we have with him. However my new lover I hope will be more regular. Once a month would suit me nicely.
Mrs"
Lucky guy x |
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here.Mrs nw has a couple of guys that she meets, usually when I am away on business, she phones me or facetimes me while she is meeting , massive turn on for us both, not to mention the guys ! "
Wow yes I’ve seen the pics and fabbed plenty of them. Me defo likes and luv to participate x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a semi regular partner for a hotwife & i loved it. Unfortunately that finished but it's something i'd like to continue with a new hotwife.
What’s a ‘semi regular partner for a hotwife’?
Our long term playmate we probably see about 3 or 4 times a year. I guess that’s a bit of a stretch calling him regular, but he’s become such a good friend and we’re very fond of him. Semi-regular might be a good description of what we have with him. However my new lover I hope will be more regular. Once a month would suit me nicely.
Mrs
Lucky guy x"
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love a regular again. Someone who fully under cuckolding and would be happy to spend the night regularly with me/us.
My cuck works away Monday to Friday so once Trust is established regular meets would be great.
The overnight meets are one of the best things about this, waking up with that someone after a passionate night and starting again is a wonderful thing to be able to do
We’ve never tried an overnight meet actually. Could be something for the future
Wife has had overnight meet in the past
Loved it"
Ummm I bet when she gets home that’s an amazing session x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work " you are hot. I would love to fuxk you while your hubby was at work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a semi regular partner for a hotwife & i loved it. Unfortunately that finished but it's something i'd like to continue with a new hotwife.
What’s a ‘semi regular partner for a hotwife’?
Our long term playmate we probably see about 3 or 4 times a year. I guess that’s a bit of a stretch calling him regular, but he’s become such a good friend and we’re very fond of him. Semi-regular might be a good description of what we have with him. However my new lover I hope will be more regular. Once a month would suit me nicely.
Mrs
Lucky guy x
Thank you "
Your welcome x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any single women looking for a cuckold relationship?
Come and say hi |
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here."
I’ve been a regular guy for some Fab couples over the last 7 or so years. My wife has an extremely low, vanilla sex drive and I’m bi. She doesn’t want to know about what I get up to so long as I don’t bring grief or unwanted presents home. That aside, everything else is pretty good.
My role varies, but ultimately it’s about pleasing the couple in whatever way they want. Some couples have the bf, partner or hubby join in. In others he sits and watches, sometimes restrained, or doing tasks she or I set for him. Typically bringing drinks, food, water, toys.
Some hotwives want to be dommed, tied up, spanked and played with in front of hubby at home, in public at a club, hotel or private party blindfolded or not. She is turned over to my care and is under my protection for the time we’re together.
Nothing better than being with his most prized possession, figuring out what makes everyone tick, her soft and hard limits, playing and repeating. Repeats can be every week, fortnightly, monthly or longer between sessions. It’s whatever works for the three of you.
I pay my way but never the entire evening. That steps into ‘Sugar Daddy’ realm which I’m not comfortable with.
Ultimately these are supposed to be NSA sexual encounters. I’m happy with those and have walked away when things started feeling awkward. Regular meetings lead to better sexual experiences and that’s all each side seeks.
Hopefully plenty of more fun to be had by thread members & followers xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here.
I’ve been a regular guy for some Fab couples over the last 7 or so years. My wife has an extremely low, vanilla sex drive and I’m bi. She doesn’t want to know about what I get up to so long as I don’t bring grief or unwanted presents home. That aside, everything else is pretty good.
My role varies, but ultimately it’s about pleasing the couple in whatever way they want. Some couples have the bf, partner or hubby join in. In others he sits and watches, sometimes restrained, or doing tasks she or I set for him. Typically bringing drinks, food, water, toys.
Some hotwives want to be dommed, tied up, spanked and played with in front of hubby at home, in public at a club, hotel or private party blindfolded or not. She is turned over to my care and is under my protection for the time we’re together.
Nothing better than being with his most prized possession, figuring out what makes everyone tick, her soft and hard limits, playing and repeating. Repeats can be every week, fortnightly, monthly or longer between sessions. It’s whatever works for the three of you.
I pay my way but never the entire evening. That steps into ‘Sugar Daddy’ realm which I’m not comfortable with.
Ultimately these are supposed to be NSA sexual encounters. I’m happy with those and have walked away when things started feeling awkward. Regular meetings lead to better sexual experiences and that’s all each side seeks.
Hopefully plenty of more fun to be had by thread members & followers xx"
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here.
I’ve been a regular guy for some Fab couples over the last 7 or so years. My wife has an extremely low, vanilla sex drive and I’m bi. She doesn’t want to know about what I get up to so long as I don’t bring grief or unwanted presents home. That aside, everything else is pretty good.
My role varies, but ultimately it’s about pleasing the couple in whatever way they want. Some couples have the bf, partner or hubby join in. In others he sits and watches, sometimes restrained, or doing tasks she or I set for him. Typically bringing drinks, food, water, toys.
Some hotwives want to be dommed, tied up, spanked and played with in front of hubby at home, in public at a club, hotel or private party blindfolded or not. She is turned over to my care and is under my protection for the time we’re together.
Nothing better than being with his most prized possession, figuring out what makes everyone tick, her soft and hard limits, playing and repeating. Repeats can be every week, fortnightly, monthly or longer between sessions. It’s whatever works for the three of you.
I pay my way but never the entire evening. That steps into ‘Sugar Daddy’ realm which I’m not comfortable with.
Ultimately these are supposed to be NSA sexual encounters. I’m happy with those and have walked away when things started feeling awkward. Regular meetings lead to better sexual experiences and that’s all each side seeks.
Hopefully plenty of more fun to be had by thread members & followers xx
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Are you flirting in public MrsClassy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here.
I’ve been a regular guy for some Fab couples over the last 7 or so years. My wife has an extremely low, vanilla sex drive and I’m bi. She doesn’t want to know about what I get up to so long as I don’t bring grief or unwanted presents home. That aside, everything else is pretty good.
My role varies, but ultimately it’s about pleasing the couple in whatever way they want. Some couples have the bf, partner or hubby join in. In others he sits and watches, sometimes restrained, or doing tasks she or I set for him. Typically bringing drinks, food, water, toys.
Some hotwives want to be dommed, tied up, spanked and played with in front of hubby at home, in public at a club, hotel or private party blindfolded or not. She is turned over to my care and is under my protection for the time we’re together.
Nothing better than being with his most prized possession, figuring out what makes everyone tick, her soft and hard limits, playing and repeating. Repeats can be every week, fortnightly, monthly or longer between sessions. It’s whatever works for the three of you.
I pay my way but never the entire evening. That steps into ‘Sugar Daddy’ realm which I’m not comfortable with.
Ultimately these are supposed to be NSA sexual encounters. I’m happy with those and have walked away when things started feeling awkward. Regular meetings lead to better sexual experiences and that’s all each side seeks.
Hopefully plenty of more fun to be had by thread members & followers xx
Are you flirting in public MrsClassy "
Maybe |
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here.
I’ve been a regular guy for some Fab couples over the last 7 or so years. My wife has an extremely low, vanilla sex drive and I’m bi. She doesn’t want to know about what I get up to so long as I don’t bring grief or unwanted presents home. That aside, everything else is pretty good.
My role varies, but ultimately it’s about pleasing the couple in whatever way they want. Some couples have the bf, partner or hubby join in. In others he sits and watches, sometimes restrained, or doing tasks she or I set for him. Typically bringing drinks, food, water, toys.
Some hotwives want to be dommed, tied up, spanked and played with in front of hubby at home, in public at a club, hotel or private party blindfolded or not. She is turned over to my care and is under my protection for the time we’re together.
Nothing better than being with his most prized possession, figuring out what makes everyone tick, her soft and hard limits, playing and repeating. Repeats can be every week, fortnightly, monthly or longer between sessions. It’s whatever works for the three of you.
I pay my way but never the entire evening. That steps into ‘Sugar Daddy’ realm which I’m not comfortable with.
Ultimately these are supposed to be NSA sexual encounters. I’m happy with those and have walked away when things started feeling awkward. Regular meetings lead to better sexual experiences and that’s all each side seeks.
Hopefully plenty of more fun to be had by thread members & followers xx
Are you flirting in public MrsClassy
Maybe "
Excellent account ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to find regular
I'm single so can travel too
Daytime or evening |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
We have never thought about looking for a hot wife but it looks like most hotwifes want single men anyway. |
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"One for the hotwife couples out there...
Have you ever had a regular guy? If so, how did it work?
Feel free to message if you’d rather not post it on here.
I’ve been a regular guy for some Fab couples over the last 7 or so years. My wife has an extremely low, vanilla sex drive and I’m bi. She doesn’t want to know about what I get up to so long as I don’t bring grief or unwanted presents home. That aside, everything else is pretty good.
My role varies, but ultimately it’s about pleasing the couple in whatever way they want. Some couples have the bf, partner or hubby join in. In others he sits and watches, sometimes restrained, or doing tasks she or I set for him. Typically bringing drinks, food, water, toys.
Some hotwives want to be dommed, tied up, spanked and played with in front of hubby at home, in public at a club, hotel or private party blindfolded or not. She is turned over to my care and is under my protection for the time we’re together.
Nothing better than being with his most prized possession, figuring out what makes everyone tick, her soft and hard limits, playing and repeating. Repeats can be every week, fortnightly, monthly or longer between sessions. It’s whatever works for the three of you.
I pay my way but never the entire evening. That steps into ‘Sugar Daddy’ realm which I’m not comfortable with.
Ultimately these are supposed to be NSA sexual encounters. I’m happy with those and have walked away when things started feeling awkward. Regular meetings lead to better sexual experiences and that’s all each side seeks.
Hopefully plenty of more fun to be had by thread members & followers xx
Are you flirting in public MrsClassy
Maybe
Excellent account ????"
Who, me or MrsClassy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to meet a couple every month ish for fun. Saw them for nearly 3 years. It worked well and feelings didn’t come into it we all just had fun together when it was convenient.
When started seeing them they said one things that puts them off is people constantly asking to meet like they wanted a relationship with them but we had the arrangement we’d only meet if they made contact first after that the trust built up and had a great time.
Was really lucky to have that time and hope to find another couple for similar arrangement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are trying to find Lisa some regular guys for her to meet weekly alone. She has one guy that is becoming regular and others on the boil some of who she has already fucked once or twice.
We have rules in that photos are taken during the fun for me to see when she gets home and a couple of other things.
Funnily enough none of them so far have come from here.
The next step in our hotwife journey is for her to flirt tease and meet to fuck a guy and for her to only tell me about if afterwards. |
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By *offee27Man
over a year ago
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I've been a regular for a local lady for about a year, she's 7 years older than me and meet once or twice a week (whenever she's horny) I've stayed the weekend at hers when her husband's been away. We were Fucking for about 3 months before I met the husband and had a mfm together after that we've met before when her husband's in and is very laid back about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love to try this x |
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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"Had one previously and worked well
The goal is to find another
And SOON!!!!
But just finding a potential meet is trying at the minute
We feel your pain, it is amazing how difficult it can be, that is why if you find a good one you keep going back. "
Oh... hello! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's our dream to find a regular lover for Mrs Naughty. |
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Work has me visiting the same areas regularly throughout the year and I can accommodate in a hotel or meet during the day.
Live in hope of finding a regular playmate |
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Wife has a boyfriend she invites over twice a week they often head off to our bedroom for long sex sessions whilst I wait down stairs. Wife always arrives back down stairs smiling and satisfied so I’m happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has a young lover. I’m away on business at the moment and they are enjoying each other. I know when I call her tonight and return home tomorrow I’ll have a happy wife. I encourage her to explore and enjoy her sexuality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love playing with a hot wife its a massive turn on and privilege im looking lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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privilege you are looking? get over yourself |
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Not really been with many single guys, only on holiday but we do like the thought of this if we found the right guy |
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regular fun with guy is so much better than one of meets, the more meets the more relaxed and better fun and you get to know the guy and he gets to know you very well to and that can make it more open, so yes go for it and enjoy |
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I have only developed regulars by meeting guys and it being mutually agreed that we both enjoy it/want more.
A bit hard to know straight away if you are well enough suited to not just be a horny bit of fun like is usually the case off here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wife has a boyfriend she invites over twice a week they often head off to our bedroom for long sex sessions whilst I wait down stairs. Wife always arrives back down stairs smiling and satisfied so I’m happy " your a lucky man and so is her lover. She’s absolutely stunning like bed your pics
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wife has a boyfriend she invites over twice a week they often head off to our bedroom for long sex sessions whilst I wait down stairs. Wife always arrives back down stairs smiling and satisfied so I’m happy your a lucky man and so is her lover. She’s absolutely stunning like bed your pics " sorry I ment loved your pics bloody pre text lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d love to find a regular hot wife partner to pop in on when she calls. In my line of work business lunches and meetings have me put the office for extended periods of time anyway and so taking a long lunch to pleasure a wife whilst she shows her hubby what he’s missing out on would be great. Plus the fact that it’s regular means your not sending out a load of contacts as a single man looking to shine in an ocean of everyone else.
MrHornyGent seems to have got his set up working for him, seems a good role model for a single male member! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular allows to establish a deeper sexual connection and more accurate understanding of someone’s body, inspire the roleplay with fantasies and scenarios, allows time to push boundaries and it could also be a stimulus for cuckold couples given its philosophical impact on a couple’s day to day. Important is to know how to manage it and where to draw the line. Of course one-offs also have their particular and distinctive taste and flavour ! A bit of both would be the ideal world |
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"Regular allows to establish a deeper sexual connection and more accurate understanding of someone’s body, inspire the roleplay with fantasies and scenarios, allows time to push boundaries and it could also be a stimulus for cuckold couples given its philosophical impact on a couple’s day to day. Important is to know how to manage it and where to draw the line. Of course one-offs also have their particular and distinctive taste and flavour ! A bit of both would be the ideal world "
How many long term hotwife style relationships have you been involved in? |
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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago
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Would love to find a regular hotwife. .work from home so very flexible. ..sadly no takers as yet... |
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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago
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my old gf had a regular 'other' bf, i got on with him very well as we spoje over the 2 years, it was a very sexy dynamic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fully agree with this |
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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago
deptford London |
there was no worry about him being bigger etc, we just had a great time |
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"Would love to find a regular hotwife. .work from home so very flexible. ..sadly no takers as yet... "
More chance of a win on the lottery! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular allows to establish a deeper sexual connection and more accurate understanding of someone’s body, inspire the roleplay with fantasies and scenarios, allows time to push boundaries and it could also be a stimulus for cuckold couples given its philosophical impact on a couple’s day to day. Important is to know how to manage it and where to draw the line. Of course one-offs also have their particular and distinctive taste and flavour ! A bit of both would be the ideal world "
Fully agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Random one offs may well be fun and exhilarating but as previously mentioned a much better sexual connection comes from familiarity and trust |
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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago
tamworth |
"Would love to find a regular hotwife. .work from home so very flexible. ..sadly no takers as yet...
More chance of a win on the lottery! "
But was holding out hope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet with my FB once a week. I work mornings and then afternoons, so I’m free between 9.30-1.30 every day. We fuck at mine, while my hubby’s at work "
Very much a situation I would like to have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Katie has had a few over the years. Currently two on the go. Our system is to meet a guy as a three and if she likes him all future dates are one to one. "
We tend to do the same as I the m have to feel comfortable with the addition, just for security sake really. Then if they're is a connection we take it from there and once all feel comfortable seperate dates can be organised. Our agreement is I always know what's going on, as does F if I meet on my own, nothing is hidden and we still enjoy each other's bodies. We feel it enhances our relationship and learn loads of new things which we get the benefit of as well with each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be happy to |
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