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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought when you open an account here you have to take a pic with a sheet of paper with words on it showing arms legs whatever then it's approved by admin why is that not classed as a genuine verification?  |
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I thought when you open an account here you have to take a pic with a sheet of paper with words on it showing arms legs whatever then it's approved by admin why is that not classed as a genuine verification? "
Think verify should be a hit more than confirming u are not a bot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It actually does.
If the guy leaves a very graphic veri hes not the sort that I would meet.
If his veris are from any Tom dick or mayble he's not the sort of guy I would meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought when you open an account here you have to take a pic with a sheet of paper with words on it showing arms legs whatever then it's approved by admin why is that not classed as a genuine verification? "
for some its enough for me personally i only medt green tick veri as in youv already met someone |
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"Doesn't give much info though. ."
What info would you want?
Surely everyone is different and no experience is the same. 1 detailed veri might put others off meeting that person.
They turn up and are who they say they are is enough we think. |
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"I thought when you open an account here you have to take a pic with a sheet of paper with words on it showing arms legs whatever then it's approved by admin why is that not classed as a genuine verification? "
That's fine in it self, but doesn't show your personality or how you interact with others.  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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I like reading veris just because I am nosey. I especially like funny ones.
I don't make my mind up about a person based on what others say. To me that is lazy. To assume you will get on with rita just because bob and sue did is also quite a silly notion in my opinion. One of my best friends and my most mortal enemy on here get on very well. |
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"Just out of interest. What do people think makes a good verification...and do people actually read them...  "
not sure what makes a good veri but at the end of the day all veries are ment to do is prove that the person is genuine and actually showed up for the meet.
Im not remotly interested in what went on during that meet as I think that should only be between the people meeting and no one else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i will register that they're there, but don't read them ,especially the longer, drippy detailed ones...yuck! and oddly, most sound as if the same woman wrote them all.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read them and wonder about the ones that are not displayed.
Not sure ones that simply confirm a meet are much good. "Met him, he is real, on time, pulse, did not cause offence"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of interest. What do people think makes a good verification...and do people actually read them... "
Honestly if someone I’m interested in has left veris for people along the lines of “ruined her” or she ch*cked on my cock like a pro”
It’s a no from me
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ive just received a message, asking to message someone as he has ran out of messages, he has put that on a verification for us, which is annoying as we have never met or even spoken to him, is it allowed for him to send us a message this way, even though our verifications are set in private, its still annoying as its stuck in there. |
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
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"ive just received a message, asking to message someone as he has ran out of messages, he has put that on a verification for us, which is annoying as we have never met or even spoken to him, is it allowed for him to send us a message this way, even though our verifications are set in private, its still annoying as its stuck in there."
Really don't think that's acceptable... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive just received a message, asking to message someone as he has ran out of messages, he has put that on a verification for us, which is annoying as we have never met or even spoken to him, is it allowed for him to send us a message this way, even though our verifications are set in private, its still annoying as its stuck in there."
That shouldn't be allowed.
They should change the way veris are made.
You should be able to accept or decline the veri.
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dont believe the same guy has just left another message as a verification, because we never replied to the last one half hour ago, please if anyone knows how to delete his messages from our verifications, pleas inbox us, Thank you in advance, so annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think of veris a bit like trip advisor reviews to be honest... anyone can say they are hot, sexy, amazing etc and in reality it can mean nothing... a heap of amazing veris however gives you a great insight and confidence in a person or couple. The most important part of a profile in my view.
Always worth looking at those who’ve veried though... quite often you can spot someone with limited veris has created a few account and veried themselves etc |
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think of veris a bit like trip advisor reviews to be honest... anyone can say they are hot, sexy, amazing etc and in reality it can mean nothing... a heap of amazing veris however gives you a great insight and confidence in a person or couple. The most important part of a profile in my view.
Always worth looking at those who’ve veried though... quite often you can spot someone with limited veris has created a few account and veried themselves etc"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think the explicit veris are rarther appealing as what may work and excite for 1 person will be different to the next.
I hide mine and they are all just saying about the social side mainly as my veri for them is the same as I never kiss and tell.  |
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"ive just received a message, asking to message someone as he has ran out of messages, he has put that on a verification for us, which is annoying as we have never met or even spoken to him, is it allowed for him to send us a message this way, even though our verifications are set in private, its still annoying as its stuck in there.
That shouldn't be allowed.
They should change the way veris are made.
You should be able to accept or decline the veri.
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Totally agree with you .
It’s bloody stupid to allow any tom , dick or Harry to verify anyone . Apart from the fact that it appears that someone is legitimately verified when they aren’t when this happens , it also makes anyone sceptical often whole system . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive just received a message, asking to message someone as he has ran out of messages, he has put that on a verification for us, which is annoying as we have never met or even spoken to him, is it allowed for him to send us a message this way, even though our verifications are set in private, its still annoying as its stuck in there.
That shouldn't be allowed.
They should change the way veris are made.
You should be able to accept or decline the veri.
Totally agree with you .
It’s bloody stupid to allow any tom , dick or Harry to verify anyone . Apart from the fact that it appears that someone is legitimately verified when they aren’t when this happens , it also makes anyone sceptical often whole system ."
I wish Fab had a system where if people agree to meet you both confirm online and then are asked to veri afterwards (ip checked for no duplication) then afterwards enter your views, if they didn’t show etc it’s posted on your their profile etc... I don’t get the value of hidden veris |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm going to meet someone I look at those that have left a veri and the veri the guy has left.
Veris tell alot about the person."
I do this and would read others to see if there's a consistency in the verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite frankly, verifications put us off!
Why would we want to meet someone who has shagged half the country  "
So you'd meet someone who shagged the country without you knowing by either hiding their veris or deliberately not giving or having them? I'very read on forums a lot who do not give or review veris for this very reason. It kinda puts a question on your selective methods if this is really how you select. Also someone may have been here a few months and met 20 peple and another 3 years and met 100 yet their profile only says 'over a year'. Who would you choose? It doesn't seem as simple as you make it out to be. |
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"ive just received a message, asking to message someone as he has ran out of messages, he has put that on a verification for us, which is annoying as we have never met or even spoken to him, is it allowed for him to send us a message this way, even though our verifications are set in private, its still annoying as its stuck in there."
Just report it to admin as a fake verification they’ll remove it from your account for you no questions asked |
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"I think of veris a bit like trip advisor reviews to be honest... anyone can say they are hot, sexy, amazing etc and in reality it can mean nothing... a heap of amazing veris however gives you a great insight and confidence in a person or couple. The most important part of a profile in my view.
Always worth looking at those who’ve veried though... quite often you can spot someone with limited veris has created a few account and veried themselves etc"
Agree. It's about a pattern where there are enough samples to draw a conclusion.
I'm looking to see if other people think this person is considerate and decent. See if I can back up my own judgement before taking a risk with someone. I tend to prefer non-explicit veris, but sometimes the explicit ones are hot too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of interest. What do people think makes a good verification...and do people actually read them... "
I like my veris. Apart from that they mean nothing to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also noticed a pattern those that want to interact online only with people with little or no veris tend to draw in the gullible who will pay for webcam etc |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"Quite frankly, verifications put us off!
Why would we want to meet someone who has shagged half the country "
Don't worry , that new guy you're about to meet has only had 3 previous fab accounts and fucked 479 people |
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I do as I'm nosy
I think ones that have humour in them are good,that tell you they had a great time ,but without all the graphic details .I saw one a man displayed that just said in capitals ,met him!
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"Quite frankly, verifications put us off!
Why would we want to meet someone who has shagged half the country "
There are many reasons , take your pick from some of these .
Experience has shown us that well verified folk are far more likely to turn up when they say they will .
Experienced swingers know what they are doing , which may enhance the whole experience - especially for newbies .
Experienced swingers are able to help the nervous come out of themselves .
Experienced swingers are way less likely to judge other swingers .
Experienced swingers are more likely to get checked out more regularly , and take necessary precautions and protection .
So there you have a few reasons .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought when you open an account here you have to take a pic with a sheet of paper with words on it showing arms legs whatever then it's approved by admin why is that not classed as a genuine verification? "
I don’t class that as a genuine veri an I only message verified users. It shows someone is on here to meet an not just here for the wank bank.
Veris are important. Same time I flick between having mine up an taking them down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read them & the verifications that they have left & that persons Verifications...I've had a lot of time on my hands lately... Verifications make me cringe though, they're more like reviews after the first one. I hate the explicit ones, they put me off. |
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For us a verification tells us that the person is genuine and does what it says on the tin, we made the mistake of meeting someone on a whim who was not verified and it was a disaster so never again, we dont want to be the ones to find out a guy is a weirdo and nothing like his pics |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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For us a verification just shows that the person is genuine and is likely to turn up, beyond that the only other thing we look at is the date of the last one and use if as a gauge as to whether the profile is still actively meeting. |
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I rarely bother to read them but do like people to have and show some verifications.
It shows they turn up and actually meet. You can't have too many verifications in my opinion... As least they can't all possibly be false 
We don't show all ours as we simply use them to show we do meet, so think having them all up is unnecessary.
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"Quite frankly, verifications put us off!
Why would we want to meet someone who has shagged half the country
There are many reasons , take your pick from some of these .
Experience has shown us that well verified folk are far more likely to turn up when they say they will .
Experienced swingers know what they are doing , which may enhance the whole experience - especially for newbies .
Experienced swingers are able to help the nervous come out of themselves .
Experienced swingers are way less likely to judge other swingers .
Experienced swingers are more likely to get checked out more regularly , and take necessary precautions and protection .
So there you have a few reasons .
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