Hi all,
I'm a straight guy but for years i have wondered what it would be like playing with some toys up my ass. there are plenty of toys out there on the market so it must be a good feeling haha
Do you have any tips on how to ease into it? Last thing i want is for it to all go wrong and put me off in future
No offers of help please, i think this is something i need to find my own way with first
Cheers
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over a year ago
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Lube, start with a finger, then get yourself a set of training plugs, the smallest will be thin and they go up in size.
Get yourself really horny before trying and don't forget the lube and cut and clean your finger nails.
Start off small, if you have pain then stop, it should not be painful. Use more lube! Did I mention lube?
I trained myself like you are intending.
Best of luck, it's incredibly enjoyable. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Lube, start with a finger, then get yourself a set of training plugs, the smallest will be thin and they go up in size.
Get yourself really horny before trying and don't forget the lube and cut and clean your finger nails.
Start off small, if you have pain then stop, it should not be painful. Use more lube! Did I mention lube?
I trained myself like you are intending.
Best of luck, it's incredibly enjoyable. "
You'll not get better advice than this
Only thing I'd add and this is personal choice if playing on your own - but it's worth investing in an anal douche to use before playing |
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"Lube, start with a finger, then get yourself a set of training plugs, the smallest will be thin and they go up in size.
Get yourself really horny before trying and don't forget the lube and cut and clean your finger nails.
Start off small, if you have pain then stop, it should not be painful. Use more lube! Did I mention lube?
I trained myself like you are intending.
Best of luck, it's incredibly enjoyable. "
Thanks for the advice! Do you think i should use lube? ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lube, start with a finger, then get yourself a set of training plugs, the smallest will be thin and they go up in size.
Get yourself really horny before trying and don't forget the lube and cut and clean your finger nails.
Start off small, if you have pain then stop, it should not be painful. Use more lube! Did I mention lube?
I trained myself like you are intending.
Best of luck, it's incredibly enjoyable.
Thanks for the advice! Do you think i should use lube? "
For a first time ..if you dont it will be quite sore |
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"Lube, start with a finger, then get yourself a set of training plugs, the smallest will be thin and they go up in size.
Get yourself really horny before trying and don't forget the lube and cut and clean your finger nails.
Start off small, if you have pain then stop, it should not be painful. Use more lube! Did I mention lube?
I trained myself like you are intending.
Best of luck, it's incredibly enjoyable.
Thanks for the advice! Do you think i should use lube? "
Just a bit yes!
Lube your cock and ass and give yourself a good wank, get really horny then just use your fingertip and rub the outside of your asshole, enjoy the sensation, then as you feel the urge just slip the fingertip in, just the end, the sphincter is the most pleasurable part, at this point I came the first time I did it! Before you know it you'll be working your way to fill size, but remember to go in very slowly and learn the right angle for you, and use lube! An anal tear is no fun believe me!
Enjoy! ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"Lube, start with a finger, then get yourself a set of training plugs, the smallest will be thin and they go up in size.
Get yourself really horny before trying and don't forget the lube and cut and clean your finger nails.
Start off small, if you have pain then stop, it should not be painful. Use more lube! Did I mention lube?
I trained myself like you are intending.
Best of luck, it's incredibly enjoyable. "
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Lube, start with a finger, then get yourself a set of training plugs, the smallest will be thin and they go up in size.
Get yourself really horny before trying and don't forget the lube and cut and clean your finger nails.
Start off small, if you have pain then stop, it should not be painful. Use more lube! Did I mention lube?
I trained myself like you are intending.
Best of luck, it's incredibly enjoyable.
Thanks for the advice! Do you think i should use lube? "
Yes.
Unlike the vagina, the anus does not generate its own lubricant.
For the purposes of practice, any lubricant is good. I like baby oil.
If you progress to the stage of penetrative sex, however, only water-based lube works with a condom. Anything else and it can degrade the condom.
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"Lube, start with a finger, then get yourself a set of training plugs, the smallest will be thin and they go up in size.
Get yourself really horny before trying and don't forget the lube and cut and clean your finger nails.
Start off small, if you have pain then stop, it should not be painful. Use more lube! Did I mention lube?
I trained myself like you are intending.
Best of luck, it's incredibly enjoyable.
Thanks for the advice! Do you think i should use lube?
Just a bit yes!
Lube your cock and ass and give yourself a good wank, get really horny then just use your fingertip and rub the outside of your asshole, enjoy the sensation, then as you feel the urge just slip the fingertip in, just the end, the sphincter is the most pleasurable part, at this point I came the first time I did it! Before you know it you'll be working your way to fill size, but remember to go in very slowly and learn the right angle for you, and use lube! An anal tear is no fun believe me!
Enjoy! "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Lube, start with a finger, then get yourself a set of training plugs, the smallest will be thin and they go up in size.
Get yourself really horny before trying and don't forget the lube and cut and clean your finger nails.
Start off small, if you have pain then stop, it should not be painful. Use more lube! Did I mention lube?
I trained myself like you are intending.
Best of luck, it's incredibly enjoyable.
You'll not get better advice than this
Only thing I'd add and this is personal choice if playing on your own - but it's worth investing in an anal douche to use before playing" ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lube, finger, then when you get brave try something bigger. Try different positions and see what's comfortable. The orgasm is fucking intense, I first took and ex's dildo while trying to persuade her to do anal, after she said would you do it, so I let her. I tend to be Dom but the thought of being used by an older Dom girl is a fantasy. |
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