Put "NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MALES" as the first line of your profile, no wait, they don't read it anyway, or if they do read it, it doesn't mean them.

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

"Just seen the profile... don't think he's looking for anyone tbh."

Absolutely. Try writing a profile with some information on it. The first line could mention that you are straight and not looking for guys.

Also look in the account section for privacy settings and filters and stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just seen the profile... don't think he's looking for anyone tbh.

Absolutely. Try writing a profile with some information on it. The first line could mention that you are straight and not looking for guys.

Also look in the account section for privacy settings and filters and stuff "

Lizzy... are you looking for a guy

Really gotta get our arses up to your club one weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I simply wanted advice for one thing and I thank people who have advised me but literally I don’t care what my profile looks like honestly just take care of yourselfs and your profiles as I will take care of me this is to the smart alec’s

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Go to message filters on your account. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just seen the profile... don't think he's looking for anyone tbh.

Absolutely. Try writing a profile with some information on it. The first line could mention that you are straight and not looking for guys.

Also look in the account section for privacy settings and filters and stuff "

Thank you

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By *an from UncleMan over a year ago

ml1

"Put "NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MALES" as the first line of your profile, no wait, they don't read it anyway, or if they do read it, it doesn't mean them.

"
lol lol

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

"Just seen the profile... don't think he's looking for anyone tbh.

Absolutely. Try writing a profile with some information on it. The first line could mention that you are straight and not looking for guys.

Also look in the account section for privacy settings and filters and stuff

Lizzy... are you looking for a guy

Really gotta get our arses up to your club one weekend

My advise was for the OP. I have a lovely fuckbuddy, but I still like checking out who else is about and YES you must visit Atlantis. If you visit on a party night, you can usually stay atvthe club, so no extra hotel costs

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

"I simply wanted advice for one thing and I thank people who have advised me but literally I don’t care what my profile looks like honestly just take care of yourselfs and your profiles as I will take care of me this is to the smart alec’s

You had information about filters to stop single men, additional comments were to try to help you get more interest from people other than single men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its not difficult..........

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By *airyfatmanMan over a year ago

by 'ere

You had information about filters to stop single men, additional comments were to try to help you get more interest from people other than single men.

Never knock the advise of a beautiful woman as she knows what is likely to attract her and probably many more like her. She’s only trying to help

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You had information about filters to stop single men, additional comments were to try to help you get more interest from people other than single men.

I do understand but it’s not like I don’t have luck or people don’t want to meet me I am happy I meet occasionally I only wanted advise and I always get roasted about grammar or something I’ve said lol But thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op u will always find someone will give bad advise or give u shit on here just don't bite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You had information about filters to stop single men, additional comments were to try to help you get more interest from people other than single men.

It was hidden amongst all the other crap.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple over a year ago

South Wales

You have to ignore some posters.

They bang on about being nice on one thread and live-and-let-live, but won't hesitate to gang up on a single guy who dares to ask for advice, especially young single guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You had information about filters to stop single men, additional comments were to try to help you get more interest from people other than single men.

Never knock the advise of a beautiful woman as she knows what is likely to attract her and probably many more like her. She’s only trying to help "

He may not think the women giving advice are beautiful or that being beautiful means the advice is good advice. Do ugly women give shit advice?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have to ignore some posters.

They bang on about being nice on one thread and live-and-let-live, but won't hesitate to gang up on a single guy who dares to ask for advice, especially young single guys."

And then flatly deny it goes on on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have to ignore some posters.

They bang on about being nice on one thread and live-and-let-live, but won't hesitate to gang up on a single guy who dares to ask for advice, especially young single guys."

So true, so true

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

This.

The guy just asked for help on a specific feature. He didn't ask for profile advice and, as people are so often fond of saying when the shoe is on the other foot, unsolicited advice isn't allowed.

Would a single woman have received the same response? If he is happy with his profile and not asking for help with it, opinions are best kept private!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This.

The guy just asked for help on a specific feature. He didn't ask for profile advice and, as people are so often fond of saying when the shoe is on the other foot, unsolicited advice isn't allowed.

Would a single woman have received the same response? If he is happy with his profile and not asking for help with it, opinions are best kept private!"

He's changed it from his 2 word profile yesterday... obviously be listened to some of the advise given to him

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

This.

The guy just asked for help on a specific feature. He didn't ask for profile advice and, as people are so often fond of saying when the shoe is on the other foot, unsolicited advice isn't allowed.

Would a single woman have received the same response? If he is happy with his profile and not asking for help with it, opinions are best kept private!

He's changed it from his 2 word profile yesterday... obviously be listened to some of the advise given to him "

Doesn't matter - he didn't ask. If people started giving me advice about my profile, unwanted and unrequited, it would probably make me feel crap enough to go and change it - but that doesn't mean it's a case of brilliant, thanks so much I'm thrilled you said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This.

The guy just asked for help on a specific feature. He didn't ask for profile advice and, as people are so often fond of saying when the shoe is on the other foot, unsolicited advice isn't allowed.

Would a single woman have received the same response? If he is happy with his profile and not asking for help with it, opinions are best kept private!

He's changed it from his 2 word profile yesterday... obviously be listened to some of the advise given to him "

Mate thanks so much for your trusty words yesterday I had to change my profile to get lots of meets just like you— honestly I’m happy my profile may be rubbish but I still get meets and people still know I am decent cheers for nothing you waste

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This.

The guy just asked for help on a specific feature. He didn't ask for profile advice and, as people are so often fond of saying when the shoe is on the other foot, unsolicited advice isn't allowed.

Would a single woman have received the same response? If he is happy with his profile and not asking for help with it, opinions are best kept private!

He's changed it from his 2 word profile yesterday... obviously be listened to some of the advise given to him

It's a shame you retaliated. They like it when that happens and report you; which leads to you getting a forum timeout.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This.

The guy just asked for help on a specific feature. He didn't ask for profile advice and, as people are so often fond of saying when the shoe is on the other foot, unsolicited advice isn't allowed.

Would a single woman have received the same response? If he is happy with his profile and not asking for help with it, opinions are best kept private!

He's changed it from his 2 word profile yesterday... obviously be listened to some of the advise given to him "

Are you keeping tabs on him?

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Like your action shot Op did take it yourself?

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

You had information about filters to stop single men, additional comments were to try to help you get more interest from people other than single men.

Never knock the advise of a beautiful woman as she knows what is likely to attract her and probably many more like her. She’s only trying to help

He may not think the women giving advice are beautiful or that being beautiful means the advice is good advice. Do ugly women give shit advice?"

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like your action shot Op did take it yourself? "

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like your action shot Op did take it yourself? "

He hasn't asked for his profile to be discussed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only vari is from a guy who says turned up and got down to it straight away "

What has that got to do with anything? Do you have a problem with people asking a question on here? Why do you think it's ok to pick his profile?

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

"Like your action shot Op did take it yourself?

He hasn't asked for his profile to be discussed. "

Can a guy not a compliment on here anymore?

If so the forums would be a very dull place?

As long as I’m not critiquing then it’s within the rules unless you are saying it’s not?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

"Only vari is from a guy who says turned up and got down to it straight away

What has that got to do with anything? Do you have a problem with people asking a question on here? Why do you think it's ok to pick his profile?"

You've missed the word 'us' in it though - how do you know he didn't meet a guy with a female friend? And so what if he had met a guy? For all you know he tried it, didn't like it and now wants to block single males going forward. Would that be his choices and preferences set in stone from then on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Honestly thank you all for your concerns yes I met a guy and his partner for a mmf is that not aloud? I thought this site was to encourage people to have meets and meet new people however it feels like for me I am being torn apart for who I am I have anxiety and depression and that does knock my confidence!! 23 yet I feel I have more morals and respect thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have fallen foul of the "knock the younger man" members of the forum. They do like to do this to guys around your age.

Set your message filters to stop single guys messaging you. Be aware though that a lot of couples will be only the male playing. Good luck on Fab and don't take the mean comments of others to heart. Xx

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

OP. Did you get the filter thing sorted now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP. Did you get the filter thing sorted now?"

I have indeed thank you though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You have fallen foul of the "knock the younger man" members of the forum. They do like to do this to guys around your age.

Aww bless your heart thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

good idea with copy paste from a successful user :P ,I recommend to turn ON tv/ts filter once in a while,they will convince u that ur not offline

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"OP. Did you get the filter thing sorted now?

I have indeed thank you though "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"good idea with copy paste from a successful user :P ,I recommend to turn ON tv/ts filter once in a while,they will convince u that ur not offline

What ever lol, I really couldn’t care you think what you need to my friend take care

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