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how long wiil i have to wait
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was just wondering how long single guys have had to wait before getting their first meeting.I am patient and only been here a couple of weeks but it would be nice to have a ball park figure. |
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Everyone is different. Some have said on similar threads that they have waited over a year for a meet, others get meets very quickly, so all we can say is somewhere between 10 seconds and 12 months. |
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Unfortunately the ball parks were sold off ages ago along with school playing fields. You are more likely to get a 'Car Park figure' as a result or a 'Mixed use development with social housing and ground floor retail units figure'. |
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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago
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Why on earth do people assume that by joining this site they are going to get a meet let alone a session?
The odds of finding someone who
a)Fancies your pic/profile
b) Is within your area
c) Falls in your criteria and you theirs
d) Knows how to communicate properly
e) Is actually who they say they are
f) Understands what being a swinger really is as opposed to "it's a sex site so everyone must be gagging for it"
Not sure what the bookies would give any one!
There are however exceptions!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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not assuming anything. I am doing this not just for sex but for friendship too.
ok i would like to get sex out of it but i understand that i would not be everyone's cup of tea.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poor OP you rotten lot! 
Seriously OP you've asked a bit of a fact question but three weeks is early days, and if the thought if two months without getting your end away makes you scream you may need to rethink your options.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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that was a joke, i did without for 10 years until my last girlfriend. i understand it will take a while to build online relationships before people trust me. I was just wondering how long other people have had to wait before their first meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it can vary so hard to put a timescale on it. I'm sure you're only too aware that single guys vastly outnumber couples and ladies on here. If you're truly into swinging (as opposed to shag hunting) then be patient and play the long game as it will be worth it. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some real advise for you now change your profile pics one shows a not very tidy room and your profile could do with a clean up to ask this lot they will help you right a better one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need patience, an attractive profile and an ability to work out what people actually want without being either too pushy or too brief. Give it a few months and get to know people, maybe visit a club first and get a feel for the scene,few single guys do this and then start asking impatient questions.x |
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