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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lucky to get a first chance on Fab, lol.
I think it depends on how well you’ve got to know the person up to the point of their cancellation. Most of us have real lives that don’t always go as planned and things like kids, work, health, etc are more important than sex.
Keep some perspective and judge each person on their merits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes... Though the couple who caused us a wasted three-hour round trip last week won't be getting one.
Nor the couple who got delayed by an hour and a half a mile away unavoidably (turned out they were watching football on TV..)
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"Sometimes... Though the couple who caused us a wasted three-hour round trip last week won't be getting one.
Nor the couple who got delayed by an hour and a half a mile away unavoidably (turned out they were watching football on TV..)
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Which game? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes... Though the couple who caused us a wasted three-hour round trip last week won't be getting one.
Nor the couple who got delayed by an hour and a half a mile away unavoidably (turned out they were watching football on TV..)
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Must have been an unbelievable match!! |
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There's a guy on here that I just felt so attracted to. We'd chat via phone calls and messages. Our calls would last hours and texts all day long. He's had three chances altogether now and although he's apologised profusely each time and I'd love to finally meet him in person I just can't let myself be let down again. He had great verifications etc and didn't seem like a let down but enough is enough and it was starting to make me feel shitty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I deem it unreasonable reason then hell no. Block and they stay in the sin bin. If have on a couple occasions given benefit of doubt but that's been very rare in the 2 yrs I've been here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. You can't change people.
If someone you haven't known long messes up. What's the point?
When things are new, it should be fun and exciting. If it isn't move on.
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Think it depends on the reason given and when we are told. If somebody cancels a meet but tells us in advance and the excuse sounds plausible then we will give them a second chance but if they cancel a second time then that is it. |
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It's hard to gauge. I had to cancel at the last minute cos my daughter went into premature labour and ended up in Dundee at Ninewells. He mailed me " couldn't meet me but drive to Dundee to meet u bitch. Let me see what kind if person he was so guess I dodged a bullet.
In the other hand a gut cancelled on me with a plausible excuse only to b verified by someone else 2 hours later x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s some one I’ve met and played with several times and they cancel then yes they always get a second and possibly third chance, however, if they cancel the initial social meet or even more so arrange, go quiet and come back on a couple of days later, then they never get a second chance, I put a little note on their profile and then give them what for when they come back a few months later asking for a meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends on circumstance of why a 2nd chance is needed if a person has to cancel for a genuine reason then yes but of course if it's not no but again depends on the person |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
I like the idea of second chances in the real world but I haven’t needed to use any on here - everyone can change but do I have the patience to see if it translates to Fab? I would hope so  |
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