"Ask me ol mucka. Women generally like confident men.
Nothing wrong in asking.. "would you like to meet"
That's fair enough maybe it's a confidence thing and dont want be knocked back lol "
Better get used to it mate.. you will get more knock backs than sucess.
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"Ask me ol mucka. Women generally like confident men.
Nothing wrong in asking.. "would you like to meet"
That's fair enough maybe it's a confidence thing and dont want be knocked back lol
Better get used to it mate.. you will get more knock backs than sucess.
Good luck "
This - we all get knock backs, even women & couples! It’s nothing personal, just that you’re not what they are looking for at that moment in time!
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"
What are you scared of? It will be a yes or no answer.  |
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"
No harm in asking.....what’s the worst that could happen? NB: they may also decide not to reply which is as good as a ‘no’.
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"
You simply say "I would really like to meet you" is that simples enoughs |
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"
If the chat is going well asking for a meet can change the whole tone of the conversation. Talk about what their plans are so you know when they are free or going out. You can ask what their plans are after their night out etc. Then pop on oh if your lucky or play your cards right I might be free. Put in a wee lol to keep it light hearted then you can be by their response how they feel about meeting you x |
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"
The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.
We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time. |
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x
The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.
We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time. "
That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol |
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If the chat is going well, they tick my boxes and we've swapped face pics I'm assuming we're both interested in meeting up for coffee! I have been known to ask first 
Just go for it OP....unless you're happy to just chat. |
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x
The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.
We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time.
That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol "
Maybe don't hint you would like to meet. Just say, do you fancy meeting for a coffee and chat in person sometime ?
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x
The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.
We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time.
That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol
Maybe don't hint you would like to meet. Just say, do you fancy meeting for a coffee and chat in person sometime ?
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Yeah sound like a good idea to me lol x |
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x
The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.
We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time.
That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol "
That, to me, screams time wasters, probably because they're fake.  . Don't take it personal. Just move on to someone else.  *Mrs |
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"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x
The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.
We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time.
That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol
That, to me, screams time wasters, probably because they're fake. . Don't take it personal. Just move on to someone else. *Mrs"
I get that there are time wasters lol, just seem to be the only people i attract haha |
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