I am struggling to find meets as people are saying they won't meet without verifications. Some people say go to clubs but I work strange hours and am on call often so can't seem to get. It's like trying for a job interview but you need 10 years experience bit nobody over the age of 20. Can anyone help? |
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"There are lots of organised socials about. Maybe think about that rather than paying to go in a club that you may have to leave due to a call out. "
Great pint as most socials are reasonably priced and you don’t require membership.Dont expect fireworks straightaway but if you attend regular socials and make every effort to communicate with people you’ll soon build up your own net work of friends |
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I have the same problem.
While a few people will have empathy and accommodate your difficulty, most just expect verification and I think this is why single guys have such difficulty.
Personally I don't want to treat this like a lifestyle, it's temporary. Maybe I'll have fun as couple later. So I don't want to attend sex social with a big group. Although happy to meet individual or couples that way.
100% being ignored and deleted, unless I'm offering a girl, it's never panned out. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Hi. You are in Stoke on Trent. I sometimes meet gents to give them a veri.
The fact that you aren't fussed about ladies and anything means that I should be an acceptable catch for you.
I am suggesting a social meet only. I have health issues and am not allowed to drive, so you would need to meet me at a local pub during the day.
This is a genuine offer. Please message me to arrange.
This is an offer for this OP only ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"What a lovely offer. I hope OP takes you up on it. well said what a brill offer "
Absolutely and very kind of the lady however is one social verification going to make a huge difference to the op or are there other things he needs to do also? |
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"What a lovely offer. I hope OP takes you up on it. well said what a brill offer
Absolutely and very kind of the lady however is one social verification going to make a huge difference to the op or are there other things he needs to do also? "
of course not once you get that tick the girls start fighting over you ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I was offering to meet him in a pub in the day. Chat about how he could improve his profile and give him a few helpful hints.
A social verifications says if he turned up on time. If he was chatty, polite, attentive and looks like his photos. If I persuade him to put a couple up.
It's a good start for a newbie. But let's see if he replies and wants to actually meet someone.
I recently offered to meet an unverified person, but when I said it was social and to write a veri, the guy didn't want to meet. No point if I wasn't going to fuck !
Newbies, you gotta start somewhere. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I was offering to meet him in a pub in the day. Chat about how he could improve his profile and give him a few helpful hints.
A social verifications says if he turned up on time. If he was chatty, polite, attentive and looks like his photos. If I persuade him to put a couple up.
It's a good start for a newbie. But let's see if he replies and wants to actually meet someone.
I recently offered to meet an unverified person, but when I said it was social and to write a veri, the guy didn't want to meet. No point if I wasn't going to fuck !
Newbies, you gotta start somewhere. "
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"I have the same problem.
While a few people will have empathy and accommodate your difficulty, most just expect verification and I think this is why single guys have such difficulty.
Personally I don't want to treat this like a lifestyle, it's temporary. Maybe I'll have fun as couple later. So I don't want to attend sex social with a big group. Although happy to meet individual or couples that way.
100% being ignored and deleted, unless I'm offering a girl, it's never panned out."
A veri indicates that you are a real person, not a time waster or pic collector and that you are prepared to make an effort to meet. That is pretty valuable, especially for someone new.
What most of us want to avoid is people who don’t see this as a lifestyle but are here as a temporary stopgap between girlfriends to try & get an easy shag
Maybe that’s why you’re having difficulty? |
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"I have the same problem.
While a few people will have empathy and accommodate your difficulty, most just expect verification and I think this is why single guys have such difficulty.
Personally I don't want to treat this like a lifestyle, it's temporary. Maybe I'll have fun as couple later. So I don't want to attend sex social with a big group. Although happy to meet individual or couples that way.
100% being ignored and deleted, unless I'm offering a girl, it's never panned out.
A veri indicates that you are a real person, not a time waster or pic collector and that you are prepared to make an effort to meet. That is pretty valuable, especially for someone new.
What most of us want to avoid is people who don’t see this as a lifestyle but are here as a temporary stopgap between girlfriends to try & get an easy shag
Maybe that’s why you’re having difficulty?"
I would think so most people who are genuinely into the lifestyle will suss someone like that out pretty quickly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP there are a selection of reasons why you are finding it hard to get a meet, not just your lack of verifications. No meet verifications do make it a slower process for those starting out, but that doesn’t get in the way for some guys. On the other hand, for many guys a verification will make no difference whatsoever, and they will never get a meet. Have a good think about what your target market may find appealing, and perhaps ask the forum for profile advice if you are unsure. But please be aware that there are too many single guys to go round for all to be successful on Fab.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I was offering to meet him in a pub in the day. Chat about how he could improve his profile and give him a few helpful hints.
A social verifications says if he turned up on time. If he was chatty, polite, attentive and looks like his photos. If I persuade him to put a couple up.
It's a good start for a newbie. But let's see if he replies and wants to actually meet someone.
I recently offered to meet an unverified person, but when I said it was social and to write a veri, the guy didn't want to meet. No point if I wasn't going to fuck !
Newbies, you gotta start somewhere.
And this is why we love you!! "
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