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Hey i kmow there are a million threads aboit what makes a good profile... but they r all men looking to increase their chances of getting any attention.
I would like some advice about female profiles...
I have always quite liked mine and i think it keeps the majority of those i dont wish to associate with at bay... but i still find myself having to reaffirm my standard constantly...
I am more kink than swing.. im not monogomous but i dont want a string on 1 nighters or a new partner very month.. i like to have built a rappor with someone.. engage mentally... but all i seem to attract os people who will meet for a social then be serially unavailable or pushy and rude..
What do you guys think is a good female profile?
How is it best to explain what you want..
What pics should you have up??
What should be avoided??
Any guidance would be appreciated xx C
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some female profiles are clearly better than others but generally they all get lots of attention.
A picture of your crotch and “fill in later” will produce messages for a female. Less so for a man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't worry about the written bits...most (if not all) men skip straight to the pics anyway...."
After looking at pics we message you and if we get more than 3 replies, we then read your profile so write one up about yourself and your sexual interests.. thank me later girls  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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It's great that it's written as a poem. Love that idea. For those that read it, it is clear what you are looking for.
But most people don't seem to read profiles.
You could put main theme is capitals at the start, but it would make no difference |
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Brilliant profile. A lot of women don't bother, which then makes it difficult to write an interesting message. I usually skip over a rubbish profile, but many won't.
Any interests outside sex are quite useful, as I never send a sexual opening message (not that I'm an expert). In your case, I guess I'd have to write a poem.
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Thanks for all your responses.. ill leave it as is haha
And just continue to use the block button for those who send 'Wuu2' 'hiya' or 'free for a fuck'
Im pleased you think my wants are clear sometimes i feel as though im not communicating clearly
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I think some of the methaphoric poetic lines doesnt really say much. Perhaps its just taking up space for youto be direct and clear and what you do/do not want.
It doesnt say about being more into kink....
And im a non smoker but 420.... so i get what that means! |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Hey i kmow there are a million threads aboit what makes a good profile... but they r all men looking to increase their chances of getting any attention.
I would like some advice about female profiles...
I have always quite liked mine and i think it keeps the majority of those i dont wish to associate with at bay... but i still find myself having to reaffirm my standard constantly...
I am more kink than swing.. im not monogomous but i dont want a string on 1 nighters or a new partner very month.. i like to have built a rappor with someone.. engage mentally... but all i seem to attract os people who will meet for a social then be serially unavailable or pushy and rude..
What do you guys think is a good female profile?
How is it best to explain what you want..
What pics should you have up??
What should be avoided??
Any guidance would be appreciated xx C
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Your profile is great, no need for any changes |
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"If you are into kink more than swing, perhaps another well known site, but for kinksters is for you as this is mostly for swingers? "
Im on that site lol
Im not looking for more messages... im looking to reduce them... |
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over a year ago
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It's a great profile. Your pictures are sexy and tasteful (it helps that you have a body to die for!) and the first picture reveals your kinky interests a little. You could perhaps add another picture with handcuffs or tied hands or something like that to further emphasize your preferences.
I wouldn't personally mention kink in the text description at all for the fear of attracting too many weirdos. Experienced people will read your clues from the pictures anyway.
I've got mixed feelings about the poem. Poems are full of sub-text and hidden meaning, so I'm not sure whether your poem is a form of self-expression or an instructions manual, you know what I mean? It's somewhere in between, isn't it, and that's beautiful and quirky but a bit confusing.
I agree that the age limit is restrictive. Your choice and your preference for sure, but there's so much skill involved in kinky sex, it seems shortsighted to have a cut-off point at 36!
On the whole, I doubt that your lifestyle disappointments have much to do with your profile. Things don't always go to plan, happens to the best of us.
Good luck and have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" A picture of your crotch and “fill in later” will produce messages for a female. Less so for a man "
Not so sure. Loads of guys have a string of messages on profiles like that. Of course, all of the women they met only seem to have one verification |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry i can not help i am no good with profiles.. but i would be honest upfront and straight to the point about yourself and what your looking for may the force be with you in your search for fun |
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"but i still find myself having to reaffirm my standard constantly"
It’s likely these people haven’t read your profile. Two ways I do mine is to increase filters to the max to avoid the wrong people messaging in the first place, of those left if they ask something I say in my profile or don’t match it, I delete. I don’t get into discussion, my affirming my boundary is the delete. I have no wish to get into a debate with someone who doesn’t respect a boundary up front. Harsh but life’s too short  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have a vagina..you will be fine
I can't believe you posted that comment, what a total cunt."
Why? What he said was 100% true? Women do not need to write much in their profile and they'll still have sad desperate men tripping over themselves to message them, or worse, try to come across as a liberal that in the forums that would never say anything so brash |
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"You have a vagina..you will be fine
I can't believe you posted that comment, what a total cunt.
Why? What he said was 100% true? Women do not need to write much in their profile and they'll still have sad desperate men tripping over themselves to message them, or worse, try to come across as a liberal twat* in the forums that would never say anything so brash"
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"It's a great profile. Your pictures are sexy and tasteful (it helps that you have a body to die for!) and the first picture reveals your kinky interests a little. You could perhaps add another picture with handcuffs or tied hands or something like that to further emphasize your preferences.
I wouldn't personally mention kink in the text description at all for the fear of attracting too many weirdos. Experienced people will read your clues from the pictures anyway.
I've got mixed feelings about the poem. Poems are full of sub-text and hidden meaning, so I'm not sure whether your poem is a form of self-expression or an instructions manual, you know what I mean? It's somewhere in between, isn't it, and that's beautiful and quirky but a bit confusing.
I agree that the age limit is restrictive. Your choice and your preference for sure, but there's so much skill involved in kinky sex, it seems shortsighted to have a cut-off point at 36!
On the whole, I doubt that your lifestyle disappointments have much to do with your profile. Things don't always go to plan, happens to the best of us.
Good luck and have fun x"
Thankyou for your feed back youve given me plenty to ponder over thankyou xx |
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"but i still find myself having to reaffirm my standard constantly
It’s likely these people haven’t read your profile. Two ways I do mine is to increase filters to the max to avoid the wrong people messaging in the first place, of those left if they ask something I say in my profile or don’t match it, I delete. I don’t get into discussion, my affirming my boundary is the delete. I have no wish to get into a debate with someone who doesn’t respect a boundary up front. Harsh but life’s too short "
Hehehe not such a softie  |
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"but i still find myself having to reaffirm my standard constantly
It’s likely these people haven’t read your profile. Two ways I do mine is to increase filters to the max to avoid the wrong people messaging in the first place, of those left if they ask something I say in my profile or don’t match it, I delete. I don’t get into discussion, my affirming my boundary is the delete. I have no wish to get into a debate with someone who doesn’t respect a boundary up front. Harsh but life’s too short
Hehehe not such a softie "
Depends what mood you get me in....and what I might have in my hand at the time mwahahaha. On that note I need to show you my epilator... |
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