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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Random question for you. I still have my anal virginity intact and got fingered whilst rimmed the other day.
Here's the question. It hurt a bit, makes me worry if I want Anal, did you have this pain or concern or should I just man up and do it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anal should be pleasurable and not hurt.
The first time is important and needs to be a gradual process of relaxation "
Yep I agree, I used to not like it , however different parntner now and after being fully prepared Totally relaxed loads of foreplay , anal toys also help with lube . It's totally different and when in the mood now I love it!  |
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Yup all the above. If you're thinking about trying this then have a go with toys first, work up through sizes, always plenty of lube, relaxation needed etc. I find that vibrating toys are good for me. If it's hurting then stop, you are really sensitive and easily damaged back there. Get it right and it should be really good, just don't let anybody get it wrong with you. Polly xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bed your self in by using different sizes of Butt plugs to help stretch your bum hole gently over time .. start of small and work yourself up to a bigger size over time |
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By *oitreMan
over a year ago
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Apparently there is an anal muscle. If this hasn't relaxed then you will feel pain when entered. I suggest you buy a dildo and practice on yourself. I did just that many years ago and now a cock can slip in easily! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bed your self in by using different sizes of Butt plugs to help stretch your bum hole gently over time .. start of small and work yourself up to a bigger size over time "
this, helps a lot |
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Plus lube, being prepared & being relaxed are the key to good anal play!
But, if you’re not comfortable, then no - don’t do it! 
