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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So me and my wife for about 2 years were having mmf fun. All of a sudden she is not into it anymore. I loved seen her enjoying herself and having a good time. She still likes to watch double penetration porn and mmf porn. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas how to get her back into it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This all stopped before i came on this. We spoke she told me she still likes it just not interested. One of the guys we used was a mate and they still chat away x |
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"This all stopped before i came on this. We spoke she told me she still likes it just not interested. One of the guys we used was a mate and they still chat away x"
Maybe shes getting what she wants from him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi not sure what to put I've had cancer so no longer get hard.I've said to my wife she can take a lover if she wants she said if i was ok with that.I was .problem is I want to watch her have sex with me dressed. |
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"So me and my wife for about 2 years were having mmf fun. All of a sudden she is not into it anymore. I loved seen her enjoying herself and having a good time. She still likes to watch double penetration porn and mmf porn. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas how to get her back into it. "
There is only one way to find out if she wants to get back in to it and thats to communicate with her. That means listening properly, asking questions and her listening to you and asking questions.
You won't get her back in to it if she doesn't want to but at least your communication will be improved. |
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By *exeterMan
over a year ago
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Maybe you should support her decision what ever it may be play or no play for how long it will be.
You can only embrace someone for who they are and never change them
No matter what I never want any pressure to do anything and expect to be treated equally  |
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"So me and my wife for about 2 years were having mmf fun. All of a sudden she is not into it anymore. I loved seen her enjoying herself and having a good time. She still likes to watch double penetration porn and mmf porn. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas how to get her back into it. "
I doubt you even got a wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Is she still as interested in having sex with you, or has her libido taken a bit of a dip? There can be many reasons why a woman's (or a man's) sex drive changes, the best thing you can do is talk to her and support her with whatever she might be going through.
Have you tried going to a club together? If she's interested, you could go with no pressure to do anything with anything else, just being in that environment and having sex with each other can be incredibly arousing. We've been together 14 years and have a great sex life, but we still enjoy time together in a club where we can switch off from the mundane stuff and just focus on us.
You're very young to be having problems in your marriage, if you want it to work long term, you need to learn how to work through sticky patches together, rather than looking for sex elsewhere without her knowledge...there's a strong chance that that will only damage your relationship further because it'll create distance between you. Invest some time, patience and understanding into your relationship, you'll build a stronger bond between you, and that'll ensure you're closer and happier together in the future.
Good luck, I hope you can work it out so you're both happy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So me and my wife for about 2 years were having mmf fun. All of a sudden she is not into it anymore. I loved seen her enjoying herself and having a good time. She still likes to watch double penetration porn and mmf porn. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas how to get her back into it. "
Maybe she wants to make love not just have sex? If you only appear interested when she is with another man she may feel unloved.
Maybe she is in love with another man who she wants to be "faithful" to? So she only has sex with you as her husband because she has to?
As above... ASK her and listen to what she says. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So OP, the bit on your profile that says "Relationship at home not going well so i need discretion" is that true or just some blather for on here as you think it makes being on here cheating excusable? |
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