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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guys what's your opinions on meeting for a social or otherwise meet when they're not photo verified?
I have a meet tomorrow & I've asked him a few times to send a pic...still waiting.
I'm not meeting him without it, but I realised today he is not photo verified either.
Would that make a difference to anyone? Would you still meet as long as you get a face pic?
I get that people are eager to get on & look at the site but photo veri was the first thing I did, maybe because its not my first time here.
What's your views?  |
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By *emel9Man
over a year ago
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I'd not meet without a pic. You have to "click" with someone and part of that is physical...it's just a fact.
I have friends on here that are very genuine and not photo verified. But met for the first social after a pic and somewhere very convenient to me...in case they were a no show. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reluctance to send a pic would worry me a lot more than the lack of photo verification, but the two together would definitely be ringing alarm bells for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks..just couldn't decide for my self if the veri mattered.
I've delayed the meet until he sends a pic & we can talk again then when he does. I'm definitely guarded because I've mentioned the photo a few times. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks..just couldn't decide for my self if the veri mattered.
I've delayed the meet until he sends a pic & we can talk again then when he does. I'm definitely guarded because I've mentioned the photo a few times."
I'd forget and move on OP. Have you spoken on cam or the phone? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The reluctance to send a pic would worry me a lot more than the lack of photo verification, but the two together would definitely be ringing alarm bells for me "
Yeah that was my thought process too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks..just couldn't decide for my self if the veri mattered.
I've delayed the meet until he sends a pic & we can talk again then when he does. I'm definitely guarded because I've mentioned the photo a few times.
I'd forget and move on OP. Have you spoken on cam or the phone? "
Haven't no. I'm not giving him any more chances, I asked for the pic & if I don't get it then that's it.
I will use the phone or cam going forward though.
...I think we've been in another group together  x |
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Photo verification I don't really take much notice of - it's good, but not a must...
...but I won't meet without having seen a pic first - and if the person won't send one, then I won't meet, simple as...
...had so many fakes who promise this, that and everything inbetween - and then can't, or won't send a photo...
...in this digital age, it's not hard to take a selfie - and a self-verifying one at that. Ask him to send a pic holding a simple piece of paper with "Hi MorganTT" on it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reluctance to send a pic would worry me a lot more than the lack of photo verification, but the two together would definitely be ringing alarm bells for me "
This for me too.
If he can't send a pic I'd stop chatting.
Photo or meet verification means nothing to me. I use my own common sense. |
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"Guys what's your opinions on meeting for a social or otherwise meet when they're not photo verified?
I have a meet tomorrow & I've asked him a few times to send a pic...still waiting.
I'm not meeting him without it, but I realised today he is not photo verified either.
Would that make a difference to anyone? Would you still meet as long as you get a face pic?
I get that people are eager to get on & look at the site but photo veri was the first thing I did, maybe because its not my first time here.
What's your views? "
So let me get this right?
You're meeting somebody you haven't actually seen?
Really?
Apart from the phenomenal personal risk, what if he has a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To all those who say they aint bothered with a photo verification and ask for pics, what happens if that person has just stolen someone elses pictures? Then your in the same boat of potentially meeting a dangerous person , no photo verification for us no meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys what's your opinions on meeting for a social or otherwise meet when they're not photo verified?
I have a meet tomorrow & I've asked him a few times to send a pic...still waiting.
I'm not meeting him without it, but I realised today he is not photo verified either.
Would that make a difference to anyone? Would you still meet as long as you get a face pic?
I get that people are eager to get on & look at the site but photo veri was the first thing I did, maybe because its not my first time here.
What's your views? "
You started off unverified and without being photo verified so i don't see why your making a fuss.
Simple really if he does not send you a face pic you move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To all those who say they aint bothered with a photo verification and ask for pics, what happens if that person has just stolen someone elses pictures? Then your in the same boat of potentially meeting a dangerous person , no photo verification for us no meet"
People who are verified by meets can also be dangerous. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Photo verification I don't really take much notice of - it's good, but not a must...
...but I won't meet without having seen a pic first - and if the person won't send one, then I won't meet, simple as...
...had so many fakes who promise this, that and everything inbetween - and then can't, or won't send a photo...
...in this digital age, it's not hard to take a selfie - and a self-verifying one at that. Ask him to send a pic holding a simple piece of paper with "Hi MorganTT" on it..."
Good idea, thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys what's your opinions on meeting for a social or otherwise meet when they're not photo verified?
I have a meet tomorrow & I've asked him a few times to send a pic...still waiting.
I'm not meeting him without it, but I realised today he is not photo verified either.
Would that make a difference to anyone? Would you still meet as long as you get a face pic?
I get that people are eager to get on & look at the site but photo veri was the first thing I did, maybe because its not my first time here.
What's your views?
So let me get this right?
You're meeting somebody you haven't actually seen?
Really?
Apart from the phenomenal personal risk, what if he has a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle?"
No, I arranged to meet him under the condition that he sends me a photo.
It would be a coffee, in a public place.
Theres risk whether I saw his face or not, but I'm not going into it blind.
I kinda want to see what a bulldog licking piss off a nettle looks like!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To all those who say they aint bothered with a photo verification and ask for pics, what happens if that person has just stolen someone elses pictures? Then your in the same boat of potentially meeting a dangerous person , no photo verification for us no meet"
Photo verification proves nothing- it can be faked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys what's your opinions on meeting for a social or otherwise meet when they're not photo verified?
I have a meet tomorrow & I've asked him a few times to send a pic...still waiting.
I'm not meeting him without it, but I realised today he is not photo verified either.
Would that make a difference to anyone? Would you still meet as long as you get a face pic?
I get that people are eager to get on & look at the site but photo veri was the first thing I did, maybe because its not my first time here.
What's your views?
You started off unverified and without being photo verified so i don't see why your making a fuss.
Simple really if he does not send you a face pic you move on."
No fuss, I got myself photo verified when I set up my account. Just asking for thoughts, thank you for yours  |
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