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By *randy Love OP Woman
over a year ago
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I am on here as a single but my partner also has a profile and we have a couples profile.. He recently had a new phone and said I could use the old one for our granddaughter to play on.. So thought I'd check it make sure there was nothing on that she shouldn't see.. His kik app was still active on our WiFi and there a few messages to and from men.. This has come as a bit of a shock as I only have to mention a 3sum and he's against it.. He's totally straight so he says.. Do I ask him or not?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would ask! But don't make him feel like you're attacking him, just curious!"
I agree with this lady. Be careful how you phrase it as he may go on the defensive and it'll be harder to get the truth out of him. Been there, done that! Good Luck! |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I am on here as a single but my partner also has a profile and we have a couples profile.. He recently had a new phone and said I could use the old one for our granddaughter to play on.. So thought I'd check it make sure there was nothing on that she shouldn't see.. His kik app was still active on our WiFi and there a few messages to and from men.. This has come as a bit of a shock as I only have to mention a 3sum and he's against it.. He's totally straight so he says.. Do I ask him or not?? "
Ask him be careful how you phrase thing men tend to get defencive or accuse you of accusing them |
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"I am on here as a single but my partner also has a profile and we have a couples profile.. He recently had a new phone and said I could use the old one for our granddaughter to play on.. So thought I'd check it make sure there was nothing on that she shouldn't see.. His kik app was still active on our WiFi and there a few messages to and from men.. This has come as a bit of a shock as I only have to mention a 3sum and he's against it.. He's totally straight so he says.. Do I ask him or not?? "
What do you want to do? Do you want to go on with your relationship with this unspoken between you?
If it was me I would just say what I'd seen and ask him to discuss it with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How the hell have you not asked him already. You don't have to go into extreme detail...just mention it. The amount of couples that don't talk to each other astounds me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How the hell have you not asked him already. You don't have to go into extreme detail...just mention it. The amount of couples that don't talk to each other astounds me x"
Me too.  It's really sad. It makes me want to stay single forever. |
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"How the hell have you not asked him already. You don't have to go into extreme detail...just mention it. The amount of couples that don't talk to each other astounds me x
Me too. It's really sad. It makes me want to stay single forever. "
Same!  |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"How the hell have you not asked him already. You don't have to go into extreme detail...just mention it. The amount of couples that don't talk to each other astounds me x
Me too. It's really sad. It makes me want to stay single forever.
Same! "
Watch out, the self righteous are on the move!
If it is a fairly recent thing and you have been together for a while, maybe he just hasn't found the right moment to talk about it. It can be difficult if he doesn't understand it himself. And it may just be that he "gets off" on sending and receiving messages from a distance.
But I agree with the comments on here about broaching the subject with some tact and understanding. Although, if he knows you have a single profile, he may already have seen this post! |
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