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Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
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What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
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"I don't know if it's common or not but it does happen.
If it's going in a direction you're not happy with it's best to call it a day. Nobody wants unnecessary drama."
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
Mrs"
It started as a fb thing and just friends, but she was getting a bit clingy |
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
Mrs
It started as a fb thing and just friends, but she was getting a bit clingy"
He was fine with yhat and distanced himself from it ss if he was an outsider |
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
Mrs
It started as a fb thing and just friends, but she was getting a bit clingy
He was fine with yhat and distanced himself from it ss if he was an outsider"
If it caused you to no longer enjoy the arrangement then obviously no point in carrying on. I wouldn’t worry too much about.
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
Mrs
It started as a fb thing and just friends, but she was getting a bit clingy"
What was she doing you describe as ‘clingy’?
Did you not set boundaries before you started seeing this couple?
Seems strange that the husband took a step back ‘leaving you to it’. |
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Back where we lived previously, I visited a hotwife on and off for three years - one afternoon she told me she loved me...
....I was taken aback, to say the least - had a conversation with her on the lines of it just being a no-strings fun relationship, nothing more...
....not long after I stopped seeing her some time later, she left her husband for her new FB - though she went back to hubby a few months later... |
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
Mrs
It started as a fb thing and just friends, but she was getting a bit clingy
What was she doing you describe as ‘clingy’?
Did you not set boundaries before you started seeing this couple?
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Clingy:, calling, sending txts at all hrs, missing me etc.
Boundaries: yes, they set boundaries that were compatible with mine, but she overstepped a little.
Yep I've recovered lol, just keen to not relive it with another |
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"Back where we lived previously, I visited a hotwife on and off for three years - one afternoon she told me she loved me...
....I was taken aback, to say the least - had a conversation with her on the lines of it just being a no-strings fun relationship, nothing more...
....not long after I stopped seeing her some time later, she left her husband for her new FB - though she went back to hubby a few months later..."
Good grief....
Thst would freak me out big style  |
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
Yes that has happened to me and it’s happened to my husband. It is off-putting and a shame as it spoils an otherwise good thing. But it’s not that bad - it shouldn’t freak you out or put you off having fun with others.
Mrs
What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
Mrs
It started as a fb thing and just friends, but she was getting a bit clingy
What was she doing you describe as ‘clingy’?
Did you not set boundaries before you started seeing this couple?
.
Clingy:, calling, sending txts at all hrs, missing me etc.
Boundaries: yes, they set boundaries that were compatible with mine, but she overstepped a little.
Yep I've recovered lol, just keen to not relive it with another "
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
Mrs
It started as a fb thing and just friends, but she was getting a bit clingy
What was she doing you describe as ‘clingy’?
Did you not set boundaries before you started seeing this couple?
.
Clingy:, calling, sending txts at all hrs, missing me etc.
Boundaries: yes, they set boundaries that were compatible with mine, but she overstepped a little.
Yep I've recovered lol, just keen to not relive it with another "
Yes that has happened to me and it’s happened to my husband. It is off-putting and a shame as it spoils an otherwise good thing. But it’s not that bad - it shouldn’t freak you out or put you off having fun with others.
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
Mrs
It started as a fb thing and just friends, but she was getting a bit clingy
What was she doing you describe as ‘clingy’?
Did you not set boundaries before you started seeing this couple?
.
Clingy:, calling, sending txts at all hrs, missing me etc.
Boundaries: yes, they set boundaries that were compatible with mine, but she overstepped a little.
Yep I've recovered lol, just keen to not relive it with another
Yes that has happened to me and it’s happened to my husband. It is off-putting and a shame as it spoils an otherwise good thing. But it’s not that bad - it shouldn’t freak you out or put you off having fun with others.
Mrs"
Off putting yes, just was out the blue,. Will be more prepared next time. Thanksfor the advice everyone |
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"Met a couple and arranged to meet again, all ok so far, but she did seem to be getting to the stage of us having a relationship., this worried me and so didnt meet again.
Is this common? It did freask me out a little, so more warey of repeating it.
What was it she did that felt a bit too relationshippy for your liking? And did her partner have any issues with this, or was it just you that had concerns?
Mrs
It started as a fb thing and just friends, but she was getting a bit clingy
What was she doing you describe as ‘clingy’?
Did you not set boundaries before you started seeing this couple?
.
Clingy:, calling, sending txts at all hrs, missing me etc.
Boundaries: yes, they set boundaries that were compatible with mine, but she overstepped a little.
Yep I've recovered lol, just keen to not relive it with another "
When entering into this kind of lifestyle one should always be aware that another could develop feelings for one, some people cannot separate love and sex.....  |
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