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Local, or not...
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By *DSR OP Man
over a year ago
leicester |
on most sites most of the girls demand men to be close to them (post code wise!) does this seem to apply on this site? because it doesn't seem like you could spend all day emailing different girls on my searches unless i was to start sending emails outside my local area (say past a 30ish mile radias) do you people search for far away? i guess this site is more based at internet chatting and the odd meet? meaning it's more common to travel further?
just seeing what people have found in their time here
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We don't use the site for internet chatting and the off meet, and I think most others are the same. We use the site to meet other couples and distance isn't a mjor problem to us. This isn't actually a dating site and if you have a car and are prepared to travel to meet people you fancy then that's fine and your choice. If you aren't able to travel very far then you obviously need to look at profiles nearer to you.~Z |
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"We don't use the site for internet chatting and the off meet, and I think most others are the same. We use the site to meet other couples and distance isn't a mjor problem to us. This isn't actually a dating site and if you have a car and are prepared to travel to meet people you fancy then that's fine and your choice. If you aren't able to travel very far then you obviously need to look at profiles nearer to you.~Z"
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By *DSR OP Man
over a year ago
leicester |
thanks for the repliesd everyone... I know it's going to take a biut of adjusting to get myself thinking more like a swingers site mentality, than a dating sites frame of mind... & yes i will start to do searches for longer distancies (starting the next time i log on here)
thanks everyone for the replies tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ha! I'll break the trend here..mass majority of meets i've had the guy/couple has been around 30 miles away or more..
This is partly because I like to play regularly and don't want to bump into last night/weeks meet at tesco with my kids.. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I'd like to meet local guys but don't seem to succeed, so the majority of my meets take place in Leeds or further afield. I do work in Bristol a bit and get plenty of interest there, so maybe it's only York guys who are shy of meeting. |
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"thanks for the repliesd everyone... I know it's going to take a biut of adjusting to get myself thinking more like a swingers site mentality, than a dating sites frame of mind... & yes i will start to do searches for longer distancies (starting the next time i log on here)
thanks everyone for the replies tonight"
Swinging is not dating...you need to understand that regardless of distance. |
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By *DSR OP Man
over a year ago
leicester |
"thanks for the repliesd everyone... I know it's going to take a biut of adjusting to get myself thinking more like a swingers site mentality, than a dating sites frame of mind... & yes i will start to do searches for longer distancies (starting the next time i log on here)
thanks everyone for the replies tonight
Swinging is not dating...you need to understand that regardless of distance."
yes i'm not thick 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to bump into a regular in Sainsbury's and on the train. As people I play with take the lead from me, and know the meaning of discretion I've never had a problem with local men.
I meet socially first and the furthest I travel to meet is about 200m...I know, lazy, but it works for me and never had a timewaster.
I wouldn't travel miles for a coffee...what's that about?!! Nope, it suits me to play locally.
That said. I live eight miles from work and it can take 90 minutes to traverse the south circular.  |
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By *DSR OP Man
over a year ago
leicester |
"ha! I'll break the trend here..mass majority of meets i've had the guy/couple has been around 30 miles away or more..
This is partly because I like to play regularly and don't want to bump into last night/weeks meet at tesco with my kids.."
that's something worth considering... thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I search in scotland, but hey as I know I can travel with notice(lots), I tend to envisage fucking some english,welsh and irish people alot lol-someday...of course I dont pester them as if I could meet them in a few days or hrs lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer people that are fairly local i.e. roughly an hour drive or less as I cannot travel far and it does annoy me when I get guys from Plymouth, London, Leeds etc sending me messages with the "I can travel" as it clearly states on my profile that I cannot  |
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Since joining the swinging scene, I've travelled as far as Glasgow, North Wales, and Devon for socials and meets.
Distance isn't an issue to me, I like meeting new people and making new friends.
If it wasn't for swinging, I'd never have tried camping on the Welsh coast, and probably never will again!
My more recent meets have been local, simply because I've been unemployed recently, and haven't been able to travel as far as I'd like.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys can be as far away as they the distance they are willing to travel to meet me! I have a distance boundry that im willing to travel to/within
I dont people search at all, let them that are interested message me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like to meet people that are local to us...have never had a problem when we have bumped into someone we have played with out & about. "
thats it! I'm moving...
from ur new pestering stalking pantie stealing neighbour |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Like to meet people that are local to us...have never had a problem when we have bumped into someone we have played with out & about.
thats it! I'm moving...
from ur new pestering stalking pantie stealing neighbour"
My neighbour actually had my knickers last week...and they didn't have to steal them lol
Have got one of those round washing things with the arms coming off to hang up your delicates on....cut a long story short it was windy and came off and got hooked in their garden 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well we prefer meets "at ours" and the funny thing is, our "locals" are hard work and yet folk from further away are on the money
If it was the other way around and time/family wasn't the issue, we would travel to meets wherever the contact was from and think most serious members would do the same |
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Distance isn't a problem for me at all. I just arrange to meet in a location half the distance between us. This is after chatting for a while etc.
The guys local to me, dont seem that interested in me 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I insist on local as I think its unfair to expect a guy to travel for an hour or more, when we meet for 30mins to an hour.. hence we state local..
But wont meet on our own doorstep.
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I don't meet my neighbours : tho next door did once apply - which was scary/funny, and largely happy to meet anyone from anywhere. As people often travel, I never assume that those appearing to write from Land's End or John o Groats are actually contacting me from/about meeting there.
The meets section is a good way to highlight if you're in a varied area/looking to travel too. Where there's a will, there's a way, and decent people are worth investing more energy into. |
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