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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?
Am I just not attractive lol |
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"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?
Am I just not attractive lol"
Profile needs work mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?
Am I just not attractive lol
Profile needs work mate"
Profile needs work and also why have you hidden all your verifications? People often use them to see what your personality is like.. ie, if your fun, have a sense of humour, shy, can hold a conversation etc.
You need to show as much positivity as you can without sounding arrogant.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?
Am I just not attractive lol
Profile needs work mate
Profile needs work and also why have you hidden all your verifications? People often use them to see what your personality is like.. ie, if your fun, have a sense of humour, shy, can hold a conversation etc.
You need to show as much positivity as you can without sounding arrogant.
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My veris are old and one of them has since deleted their profile so it’s not visible anymore and what kind of things should I work on. Are my pics okay and what kind of things should I put in my bio |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better 
Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!
Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better
Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!
Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*
Good luck!"
Wow thanks  best advice I’ve read! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?
Am I just not attractive lol"
it may be the resemblance to buster Keaton  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's no bio.
There was I was just updating it, still not 100% sure on it though"
Quit with the 'I don't bite' cliche.. Remove it.. It's one of the most overused and unfunny, unimaginative things on profiles. It was funny the first time it was used, back in 307bc.. Now it just smacks of trying to be funny when you're not and having nothing original to entertain with.
Remove it this instant! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's no bio.
There was I was just updating it, still not 100% sure on it though
Quit with the 'I don't bite' cliche.. Remove it.. It's one of the most overused and unfunny, unimaginative things on profiles. It was funny the first time it was used, back in 307bc.. Now it just smacks of trying to be funny when you're not and having nothing original to entertain with.
Remove it this instant! "
Removed! Haha. Yeah I don’t know why I put it on tbh I just see a lot of profiles with the same hahaa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better
Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!
Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*
Good luck!
Wow thanks best advice I’ve read!"
You’d get more sex on tinder being an edgy 22 year old with tattoos! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better
Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!
Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*
Good luck!
Wow thanks best advice I’ve read!
You’d get more sex on tinder being an edgy 22 year old with tattoos!"
That how you 2 met?
Or just office chit chat as not on Tinder being a cpl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nothing wrong with your profile just a bit to long that all i think plus it is harder for us single to enjoy site lately.anyway good luck on here  "
i dont think its too long at all, its friendly and informative...which is better than most, and its not 'harder' for people that have a decent profile and can be bothered to read other peoples. It's 'harder' for people who seem to assume that just by joining they will get meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better
Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!
Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*
Good luck!
Wow thanks best advice I’ve read!
You’d get more sex on tinder being an edgy 22 year old with tattoos!"
Who says I’m not on tinder :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After 24 hours of extremely friendly and helpful support from people regarding our own profile, the best advice WE can give is pay attention to what people tell you if it's harsh, accept it, if it's constructive, build on it, if it's informative,listen to it.
But DO what people suggest, recommend and advise.
It's helped us to strip down 80% of needless, pointless, boring waffle that no one in their right mind would want to sit through.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think your profile is fine - I'm not into the "rough" bit, but you are and it's great that you state it so you can better meet someone suited to you!
My only advice would be that, veris matter to a lot of people, so display the one that IS available. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think your profile is fine - I'm not into the "rough" bit, but you are and it's great that you state it so you can better meet someone suited to you!
My only advice would be that, veris matter to a lot of people, so display the one that IS available."
It’s not the most descriptive veri but if people keep insisting so be it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?
Am I just not attractive lol
Profile needs work mate
Profile needs work and also why have you hidden all your verifications? People often use them to see what your personality is like.. ie, if your fun, have a sense of humour, shy, can hold a conversation etc.
You need to show as much positivity as you can without sounding arrogant.
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It definitely puts me off if people have their verifications hidden, I like to see what others have experienced and also what sort of people they have met and so on and so forth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your profile is fine - I'm not into the "rough" bit, but you are and it's great that you state it so you can better meet someone suited to you!
My only advice would be that, veris matter to a lot of people, so display the one that IS available.
It’s not the most descriptive veri but if people keep insisting so be it"
Discriptive or not we like to see  |
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"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?
Am I just not attractive lol
Profile needs work mate
Profile needs work and also why have you hidden all your verifications? People often use them to see what your personality is like.. ie, if your fun, have a sense of humour, shy, can hold a conversation etc.
You need to show as much positivity as you can without sounding arrogant.
It definitely puts me off if people have their verifications hidden, I like to see what others have experienced and also what sort of people they have met and so on and so forth "
Totally agree. The type of people they've met previously can make it or break it for us. |
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