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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi. I'm a horny married man that loves sex with my wife but love to try swinging with her. She is very old fasion and not keen on idea. I have chatted and even told her that I have dreams about going to clubs and that she has played in the dreams. She still not keen to chat about it. Any suggestions? |
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It's a difficult situation when one person really wants to try something like swinging and the other doesn't.
I suggest chatting about fantasies and really being experimental with each other. Your dream of involving other people might never happen but other really great stuff might. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"It's a difficult situation when one person really wants to try something like swinging and the other doesn't.
I suggest chatting about fantasies and really being experimental with each other. Your dream of involving other people might never happen but other really great stuff might."
It's difficult as she's not keen to talk about it either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If she's not interested then leave it alone. I'm assuming she knows you're on here and have had meets.
I doubt she does"
I bet she must....”trust and respect for all ladies” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If she's not interested then leave it alone. I'm assuming she knows you're on here and have had meets.
I doubt she does
I bet she must....”trust and respect for all ladies”"
Lol I doubt the wife even exists  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She is very old fasion and not keen on idea. "
Might be your answer there 
"I have chatted and even told her that I have dreams about going to clubs and that she has played in the dreams. "
Seems you are able to have an open dialogue with her... have you told her about how much fun you have on here?
"She still not keen to chat about it. "
I think she isn’t interested, but hey keep fucking other women without her knowledge, after all marriages and relationships aren’t based on trust at all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, I don't want any pressure on her and for her to do it because she wants to do it, Not because I want it."
Well, it doesn't sound like she wants to do it. Just drop it. She'll hopefully let you know if she ever changes her mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. I'm a horny married man that loves sex with my wife but love to try swinging with her. She is very old fasion and not keen on idea. I have chatted and even told her that I have dreams about going to clubs and that she has played in the dreams. She still not keen to chat about it. Any suggestions?"
Yes, show her your profile, that'll do it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first met my wife, after a while I told her it was a massive turn on for me, she was not to keen on it and would not talk about I give it time and then asked her if I could whatch porn while we wear in bed, she started to enjoy this she slowly come around and got to like the idea and also it come out that her turn on was to watch me play with a guy,she said she would give swinging a go, if I would play with a guy,what would you do |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"When I first met my wife, after a while I told her it was a massive turn on for me, she was not to keen on it and would not talk about I give it time and then asked her if I could whatch porn while we wear in bed, she started to enjoy this she slowly come around and got to like the idea and also it come out that her turn on was to watch me play with a guy,she said she would give swinging a go, if I would play with a guy,what would you do"
You would do what you are comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After I came out of a relationship with the Ex who introduced ME to swinging it was a few months until I was introduced to my now partner by a couple I had chatted to on here. At the time she was a vanilla lady, heard a lot about the site and clubs and party's and such so she had a bit of excitement about her, UNTIL the day she asked me to explain it to her better.....the result?? A tantrum kick off of rage and disgust at the sheer thought of it. "consensual cheating" were the exact words she used followed by 3 days of zero contact before she came round to speaking to me.
Dropped the whole subject in a heartbeat and it was never spoken of again......
Fast forward EIGHT MONTHS and she comes back to me with...."So, this swinging then?"......and THAT was the turning point that SHE brought it up because she wanted to.
The point is.....
You've mentioned it. She doesn't want to. Leave it alone. IF she wants to do it SHE will come back to YOU. Until then, close the box and don't go back to it, however much you think you can change her mind you won't unless she wants to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You want? But she does not want! Stop thinking with your cock ! I bet she does not know you even here too!
Is called swinging when the couple are in mutual agreement !
You would like someone to force you to do something , you don't like?
We are all different ! We need to respect people choice !
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It's only about the chatting and you can't make her discuss or do it.
Rather than it being about you, ask about her - but not your interests. Develop her trust in sharing with you, even if it leads to something that has nothing in it for you but a better marriage |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The thing is you both have to enjoy it and neither party be forced into anything just carry on chatting maybe do a fantasy wishlist and see if any fantasies match and take it from there also take sex out of it and try socials extended friendship groups and talking to other real couples help to see the spark between them it's electric x |
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You can bring a horse to water so to speak...
At the end of the day if she's not into it she's not into it. You married her for who she is so either accept this and enjoy all the other things that you love and married her for or trade it for the lifestyle that may not work out for you. Your choice? But don't pester her or follow this urge behind her back, it will only end in hurt. |
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"Hi. I'm a horny married man that loves sex with my wife but love to try swinging with her. She is very old fasion and not keen on idea. I have chatted and even told her that I have dreams about going to clubs and that she has played in the dreams. She still not keen to chat about it. Any suggestions?"
Just swing with women on here? |
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"Have you tried giving her a piece of chocolate every time the word swinging comes up in conversation?
Or just do this?
Either/or"
It also helps if you pinch her whenever the word 'monogamy' comes up in conversation. Best do it from behind and blame a wasp. Or just get some wasps and release them during a conversation about monogamy, both ways will work. |
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