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Newbies: Allow to message or not?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can set your preferences to not allow newbies to message you untill they have been on site for a bit..gives them chance to settle in and see how the sites works and hopefull send better messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit we have our filters on so that they can’t message, we’ve had several messages from “couples” that I don’t beleive were couples at all some reported and removed. So although not fool proof we only speak with verified members
MrsK x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I get quite a few messages and by the time I get round to read them, they've gone UNLOS - mainly within 30 minutes of actually sending it, no idea what is happening but it happening more frequently  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think they should be allowed to message. We were all newbies once. Saying that, my filters don't allow them to message me. I have tight filters so I can keep my inbox in check  . Some enjoy getting messages off newbies though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find a lot of newbie messages sweet. They are so hopeful!
I try to respond to the nice one as much as I can....."
Then reality sets in and they lose hope  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting thoughts...lol
We’ve been let down 4 times by newbis. We arranged to meet on Whatsapp group (!!) only to seem them disappear hours before the meet. 4 times with 4 different couples !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind helping people out, because unlike others.. I remember being totally new to this.. and it can be a very unfriendly and cliquey place a lot of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Their frustration gets so frustrating most of the times...  frustration at what ? If they can't message you how do you know they are frustrated?  "
Thats the thing...we havent decided to block them thinking rationally but they cant make up their mind if they want to meet or not or they’re just fake profiles.... |
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Perhaps a Photo verification should be considered, if it hasn’t already? Don’t allow them to message until they are verified! I’m genuine but can’t even been arsed to do that on some other site have to take a pic of yourself that matches previous pictures, with Username, Date and site address! Not a bad idea but quite a bit of effort for admin etc |
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