Hey everyone,
After a bit of help please.
I don't message many women or couples on here, but when a profile I like comes by and I message I never get a reply.
I understand that women and couples will get plenty of messages every day, but is there any way i can stand out?
I've always been useless at first lines, whether it be in person at a pub/club/wherever or on here.
Any tips would be great
Thanks x |
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By *aenMan
over a year ago
Here and There |
I doubt it’s the message - unless you’re just sending FAF. Most will look at your profile first and the impression they get will be what they base their response on. Only natural when you think about it. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
There is a lot of emphasis on your profile about being discreet. So perhaps people don't reply as they don't want to meet someone who cheats on their partner. I am not saying this is the case, but the wording might put people off.
In general I suggest people read the ladies profile and then comments on something that they like or what appealed to them. Show you are interested in them as a person, not just a quick fuck. |
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Read the profile of the person/persons you are messaging; see what they like and point out areas where you match. Have a look at the forums and see if they have commented on anything, again establish if you have common ground.
Try to string a couple of sentences together as ‘Hi, how are you’; ‘fancy a shag’ just don’t do it for most people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first thing a lot of people do is look at your profile and photos. If those aren't very impressive then your message stands a better chance of being deleted. |
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"Just be yourself and trust me you will click with someone it does take a while. Good luck and happy swinging."
You must to read the profile .sometimes I delete because ,the location .Or headings saying Hotel meets, I explain in my profile I don't meet in hotels . Sometimes they just say hi and other times I don't like the profile.Good luck is not a magic message , is find someone who likes all about you . X
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