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Any advice on our profile?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just looking for some pointers on improving our profile. We're not very wordy usually so it's a bit hard to know what to write..
We've had some interest so far which is great but just wanted to make sure we haven't put something that doesn't come across well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just looking for some pointers on improving our profile. We're not very wordy usually so it's a bit hard to know what to write..
We've had some interest so far which is great but just wanted to make sure we haven't put something that doesn't come across well.
Thanks in advance "
Looks ok to us but I'm sure there will be a more fiercer critic that will come along soon and give their opinion |
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Looks about right to me. Short and to the point in terms of what you're after, as opposed to having nothing written, or something akin to a Tolstoy novel at the other end of the scale.
Nice pics, maybe a few more would help.
I always find verifications interesting and helpful. Just saddened you're not after tgurls!!!
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Profile is fine, but don't get your hopes up. Single women are the most sought after demographic on here and make up only about 5% of members. You are both quite young and there are few people as young as you on here and most women will not meet people much younger.
Sorry to be a pain, but best to be realistic... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1.You will want to get verified by meeting soon. As the weeks/months increase it will look less likely that you're keen to meet people, and some will be less enthusiastic about messaging you.
2. I was kinda put off by the part where you mention that you'll send "proof pics/Skype or whatever to prove we're genuine and we'll ask for the same before meeting". Many are not interested in taking bespoke photos or doing skype sessions etc. so that may turn some away.
3. Your photos are lovely! Great looking couple!  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Ohhhhh...you two are utterly adorable!
Yes, it’s short and to the point, yes your age may count against you here but you both come across as really lovely. That’s definitely going to count for you!
I would flesh out the profile a bit but then I’m a nattering jackdonkey so I can’t help myself. Maybe a line or two about each of you to get a sense of your respective personalities. But honestly? If that’s not you, then don’t force it. |
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I’d put the photo of both of you as a profile pic - if I received a message from you (unlikely!), I’d assume it was a single male profile and delete unless it was more than ‘hi’ but less than ‘War and Peace’.
I don’t do proof pics so that would be a no from me...
Your profile reads well but stops short of what I’d need to know before engaging in conversation - where are your boundaries with a single female? Does he fuck both fems or is that reserved for wife only? Do you all get involved or is someone sitting watching? Maybe I’m cynical following too many disappointments but maybe it’ll help you get a perspective from this perspective. Happy hunting Have lots of fun. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why have you swapped profile pics? The one of you both together is much better"
Oops- I changed it by accident, must have accidentally clicked it when I was scrolling through on my phone! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d put the photo of both of you as a profile pic - if I received a message from you (unlikely!), I’d assume it was a single male profile and delete unless it was more than ‘hi’ but less than ‘War and Peace’.
I don’t do proof pics so that would be a no from me...
Your profile reads well but stops short of what I’d need to know before engaging in conversation - where are your boundaries with a single female? Does he fuck both fems or is that reserved for wife only? Do you all get involved or is someone sitting watching? Maybe I’m cynical following too many disappointments but maybe it’ll help you get a perspective from this perspective. Happy hunting Have lots of fun. X"
Ah thanks- I suppose that's what we meant when we said we didn't have lots of rules to follow- we don't have any limits like that I don't think!
I think the proof pic thing is fine with me. We've been messed about a couple of times so if we were chatting with someone who wasn't open to doing a proof pic and didn't have a few published verification by meets then we'd probably be OK with leaving it there to be honest
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Lovely profile! I'd agree that maybe some body shots of you both would help.
Bio wise, I think it would be good to know about any fantasies you may both have. That way any potential meets could see if you're looking for the same thing? Not having any limits can be good but it could also work against you.
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By *emel9Man
over a year ago
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"Lovely profile! I'd agree that maybe some body shots of you both would help.
Bio wise, I think it would be good to know about any fantasies you may both have. That way any potential meets could see if you're looking for the same thing? Not having any limits can be good but it could also work against you.
Good luck! "
I'd agree with the above...I'd also just keep an eye on making sure paragraphs of a good size are used.
Big lumps of text can be difficult to read on phones, or tablets..which most people seem to use now.
Spreading it out makes it easier to follow and see what you are about.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all. Have added a couple more photos (including a full body one of S, I need to take some more recent ones of me). And I've broken up the text a little and elaborated a little on the no limits thing. Hopefully that's a little better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just looking for some pointers on improving our profile. We're not very wordy usually so it's a bit hard to know what to write..
We've had some interest so far which is great but just wanted to make sure we haven't put something that doesn't come across well.
Thanks in advance "
Looks fine to us.
Maybe pop along to a club near you. That way you'll meet others in a safe, hassle free environment. Socialising is key for us and we pretty much now only meet at our local club in Zouch. We also work there on Fridays, so we have a great social circle of friends. It's not all about get jiggy for us.
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