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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been with my girlfriend for 8 years now she does not know I’m on this site, or she doesn’t know I’m into swinging I’m very interested in trying to get her involved does any one have any advice on how would be best to get her involved, would be much appreciated x |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been with my girlfriend for 8 years now she does not know I’m on this site, or she doesn’t know I’m into swinging I’m very interested in trying to get her involved does any one have any advice on how would be best to get her involved, would be much appreciated x"
Try talking to her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’ve been with your girlfriend since you were 12?
Try talking to her. Maybe tell her you’ve heard of this website. Wouldn’t recommend showing her your profile, seeing as you’ve made it most likely with the intention to cheat.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That’s the thing I haven’t made it to cheat I made it with the intention to get her involved but Just haven’t had the balls to try and get her involved hence no verifications or anything x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That’s the thing I haven’t made it to cheat I made it with the intention to get her involved but Just haven’t had the balls to try and get her involved hence no verifications or anything x"
But you’ve stated in your profile you want NSA fun and you’re willing to try anything once? And you’ve set up a single male’s profile, not a couple. I still wouldn’t show her, but if you think it would help, go ahead. Speak to her. |
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The only way to find out of your partner has any interest is to talk to her. Create an atmosphere in which you can both discuss fantasies and be really open with each other. Be prepared for her to say no and accept it if that is her answer. |
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The thing about swinging is that it's all based on trust and communication she needs to know and feel that she can trust you don't see how that can happen with you having started you profile how long ago and the fact that you have been together 8 years and don't even feel that you can talk to her about it.
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Has she made any mention of swinging or being watched? If not then it may not even be on her radar.
Do you watch porn together? If so, find some group porn and see what she thinks. Casually mention that it's something you've been curious about and see what she thinks. Leave the idea to soak for a few days before discussing it again.
If she's not into it then you have two options. Delete your profile and enjoy what you have with your girlfriend. Or keep it and risk losing it all and hurting her.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That’s the thing I haven’t made it to cheat I made it with the intention to get her involved but Just haven’t had the balls to try and get her involved hence no verifications or anything x"
You're obviously very caring towards her in that you've gone to the trouble of setting up an account on a swinging site that she doesn't appear to have any interest in. |
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