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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do unicorns in those scene get that name as they are like some sort of mythical creature, rare and seldom seen.
We would like to take our first step in to the world of Fab, with a single female. It seems like it's mission impossible to be honest.
It's early days so we will persevere, unless anyone has any advice that night increase our chances?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it’s because they’re only glimpsed briefly, before they realise the pitfalls of being a single woman on a swingers' site?
So rare and fleeting are those glimpses, that most people come to the conclusion that these shy and scarce creatures are but a figment of the imagination... |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Do unicorns in those scene get that name as they are like some sort of mythical creature, rare and seldom seen.
We would like to take our first step in to the world of Fab, with a single female. It seems like it's mission impossible to be honest.
It's early days so we will persevere, unless anyone has any advice that night increase our chances?
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I have one as a fwb. Rule number one though, don't refer to them as unicorns. Especially in person.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's plenty of bi women around and plenty that DO play with couples. Start going to your local socials and to clubs and make friends with some women - this is much more likely to reult in a 3some than trying to get a woman to meet you privately off the site. Most 3somes and moresomes I have had have been based on a friendship first.
And remember, the lady is there for her own enjoyment, not just to achieve your fantasy or add to your sex life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of bi single females here but one thing we’ve learnt is A) most hate the term unicorn (not all but most) and B) most see couples wanting that elusive lady as people to avoid because most (not all) don’t want to feel like some kind of prize or sex toy for the evening.
We thought it would be easy finding a lady but it isn’t, it’s very ‘hard work’ and it was a while before we knew the reason why. We were mortified when we discovered that a lot of the ladies feel this way and rewrote our profile accordingly.
Probably the best thing to do is get to a club. We were given this advice and while we haven’t met a lady yet it’s not something we have given up on yet.
Remember that the lady is there for her enjoyment as well as yours and she doesn’t want to go home at the end feeling a bit used for your own enjoyment.
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont mind the name unicorn myself.
Theres a few of us here. However meeting cpls can be real hard work and a bit intimidating.. I myself have had nothing but trouble from cpls on fab amd those i have met have been met from elsewhere. Its quite tricky navigating the wants of 2 people as well as remembering all thier 'rules'.
Best advice is to be very friendly and very honest with what you are seeking. Use a group kik or whatsapp chat so the ladies can chat and so u can all chat together.
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As someone who does meet and play with couples we do exist. Are we rare? Possibley, but I know of quite a few who do. However what you have to remember is that we are highly sort after (before people shout up our own arse, get over yourself) Couples looking for single fems want us, single fems looking for fem/fem play want us, single men want us either as a one on one or as a couple.
But what do we want?? Well attraction all round. To not be treated as a sex toy. For our fantasies to be just as important as yours. Can we be chosey? Hell yeh!
So how do you bag a unicorn? Well phrases like that don't help - but get to socials and clubs. Socialise and ask us what we are looking for. There is no quick fix. It takes time to build those connections. If you are looking for a quick fix then an escort would be your best bet.
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By (user no longer on site)
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" But what do we want?? Well attraction all round. To not be treated as a sex toy. For our fantasies to be just as important as yours. Can we be chosey? Hell yeh! "
I've played with many couples now, several of which have become great friends with regular fun. I've found often the couples I've played with are open to swinging with other couples and men too. I've personally found when a couple is only looking for a single female that it can feel like you are a sex toy. It's a fantasy they have had as a couple for a while and you are there to fulfil it, often they can almost try too hard and I feel a certain pressure. Couples that are open to everything are generally more relaxed as they aren't focused on just a single female. This generally leads to a better social interaction and play. This is only my experience of course.
Additionally, I'm quite filthy and open to just about anything. This means I tend to connect more with couples that are the same. Those that don't have rules or limits. Nothing wrong with having them, just I hate feeling restricted. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Theres a few of us here. However meeting cpls can be real hard work and a bit intimidating.. I myself have had nothing but trouble from cpls on fab amd those i have met have been met from elsewhere. Its quite tricky navigating the wants of 2 people as well as remembering all thier 'rules'.
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That doesn’t sound good.
Speaking for ourselves, we only have two rules when meeting women from Fab. First is safe sex always, and second is the three of us share each other freely and equally.
They’re not complicated, and seem to have worked for us and the women we’ve met nicely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am another one of the elusive bisexual single females. Playing with couple can be really tricky, I have to agree. As a lot of the times, I get a vibe that the lady is mainly there as a 'favour' to her man, not because she really wants to. But I always say that if either of them is uncomfortable with what I am doing (when we proceed to play), to just stop me. Another thing- you have to be at least slightly attracted to the guy, have some connection.
My advice- swap face pics very early on, send your pics first as the lady should get her choice first. Don't try setting god knows however many rules as they'd be forgotten in the heat of the play. And enjoy  |
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"We’re not all that rare. Just make sure you’re speaking to us as equals, not a commodity and you’ll do just fine
I thought you were a mermaid? Liar! "
I am now - I realised it was way more fun to be half naked and wet with really long hair and a hermit crab for company every now and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’re not all that rare. Just make sure you’re speaking to us as equals, not a commodity and you’ll do just fine
I thought you were a mermaid? Liar!
I am now - I realised it was way more fun to be half naked and wet with really long hair and a hermit crab for company every now and then. "
You wise woman.. don't forget.. clam shells for a bra as well |
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"We’re not all that rare. Just make sure you’re speaking to us as equals, not a commodity and you’ll do just fine
I thought you were a mermaid? Liar!
I am now - I realised it was way more fun to be half naked and wet with really long hair and a hermit crab for company every now and then.
You wise woman.. don't forget.. clam shells for a bra as well "
It's taking some getting used to but I think I've found my look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’re not all that rare. Just make sure you’re speaking to us as equals, not a commodity and you’ll do just fine
I thought you were a mermaid? Liar!
I am now - I realised it was way more fun to be half naked and wet with really long hair and a hermit crab for company every now and then.
You wise woman.. don't forget.. clam shells for a bra as well
It's taking some getting used to but I think I've found my look. "
I'm still undecided as to which mythical creature I am.. willing to listen to opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still undecided as to which mythical creature I am.. willing to listen to opinions
Did you not settle on Centaur? They're hot. "
Kind of.. but I feel obliged to put Shetland Centaur.. as I don't want to give a false impression of myself.. it doesn't have the same ring to it |
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