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Advice for 1st timer to swinging
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Struggling with the first message . I'm a proper normal fella who just fancies moving out my comfort zone and meting naughty like minded woman but melt with messaging someone . What to put , what not to put sound really forward or not to go to strong it's hard showing yourself in a message advice please ....
Anyone that fancies showing me the ropes please do
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try fancy a fuck love"
say anythin if they like the look of you theyll reply reagrdless. but be warned its not easy on here for stright guys so youll get more deleated than replys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Look mate If you ain't got nothing good to say go join another forum mate I know I sound like a prick writing this asking for help but atleast I've got the arsehole to put a profile picture up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok thank you for the fantastic advice mate I feel like I've gone ten steps backward listening to you good luck mate go work your charm chatting to woman I feel a lot better now knowing that what I write ain't nothing like yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok thank you for the fantastic advice mate I feel like I've gone ten steps backward listening to you good luck mate go work your charm chatting to woman I feel a lot better now knowing that what I write ain't nothing like yours "
Can't believe you even replied to that lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks you for wasting 1 and half hours of your life and your completely wrong there by being a man and not a little keyboard melt I've gained some friends from this so no actually your completely wrong good crack on and go annoy someone else trying to ask a few questions |
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Hey fella. Your profile looks fine but the point this nice chap is making (if he knows it or not) is not to message people on here and be in amongst the gutter rabble. Instead start going to clubs and before that go to socials help out like you have done before and get on the scene. You’ll be knee deep in klunge before you know it totting up the good verifications. 10 to one men to women on here, another message is just white noise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey fella. Your profile looks fine but the point this nice chap is making (if he knows it or not) is not to message people on here and be in amongst the gutter rabble. Instead start going to clubs and before that go to socials help out like you have done before and get on the scene. You’ll be knee deep in klunge before you know it totting up the good verifications. 10 to one men to women on here, another message is just white noise. "
spot on . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Struggling with the first message . I'm a proper normal fella who just fancies moving out my comfort zone and meting naughty like minded woman but melt with messaging someone . What to put , what not to put sound really forward or not to go to strong it's hard showing yourself in a message advice please ....
Anyone that fancies showing me the ropes please do
Thanks"
Judging from what you have written in you profile, you’ are an experienced swinger, verified by women and couples, helped host parties, and feels comfortable performing in front of other men. I would carry on doing whatever you were doing before, as it doesn’t sound like you need 1st time swinger advice!
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"Struggling with the first message . I'm a proper normal fella who just fancies moving out my comfort zone and meting naughty like minded woman but melt with messaging someone . What to put , what not to put sound really forward or not to go to strong it's hard showing yourself in a message advice please ....
Anyone that fancies showing me the ropes please do
Thanks
Judging from what you have written in you profile, you’ are an experienced swinger, verified by women and couples, helped host parties, and feels comfortable performing in front of other men. I would carry on doing whatever you were doing before, as it doesn’t sound like you need 1st time swinger advice!
Mrs"
You can always rely on the classy swingers to hit the pretty much on the head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good advice above ... unfortunately publicly ranting in reply to anyone doesn't look great as you come across as very aggressive ... not something a lady is going to warm to ...
Can't see the verifications you mention? |
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"Ok thank you for the fantastic advice mate I feel like I've gone ten steps backward listening to you good luck mate go work your charm chatting to woman I feel a lot better now knowing that what I write ain't nothing like yours "
Responding like this doesnt help. Best to quote and reply like I have. We then know who your hissy fit is directed at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Struggling with the first message . I'm a proper normal fella who just fancies moving out my comfort zone and meting naughty like minded woman but melt with messaging someone . What to put , what not to put sound really forward or not to go to strong it's hard showing yourself in a message advice please ....
Anyone that fancies showing me the ropes please do
Thanks"
Your profile suggests you’re experienced? Which one is it OP? |
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"Ok thank you for the fantastic advice mate I feel like I've gone ten steps backward listening to you good luck mate go work your charm chatting to woman I feel a lot better now knowing that what I write ain't nothing like yours
Responding like this doesnt help. Best to quote and reply like I have. We then know who your hissy fit is directed at."
haha hissy fit!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good advice above ... unfortunately publicly ranting in reply to anyone doesn't look great as you come across as very aggressive ... not something a lady is going to warm to ...
Can't see the verifications you mention?"
I believe he was responding to some extremely abusive posts which have since been removed. His annoyance was not unprovoked, though with the posts gone, it probably makes him look bad for no reason.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good advice above ... unfortunately publicly ranting in reply to anyone doesn't look great as you come across as very aggressive ... not something a lady is going to warm to ...
Can't see the verifications you mention?
I believe he was responding to some extremely abusive posts which have since been removed. His annoyance was not unprovoked, though with the posts gone, it probably makes him look bad for no reason.
Mrs"
The contradictions between thread title and profile look bad from here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good advice above ... unfortunately publicly ranting in reply to anyone doesn't look great as you come across as very aggressive ... not something a lady is going to warm to ...
Can't see the verifications you mention?
I believe he was responding to some extremely abusive posts which have since been removed. His annoyance was not unprovoked, though with the posts gone, it probably makes him look bad for no reason.
Mrs
The contradictions between thread title and profile look bad from here."
Yes that doesn’t make sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good advice above ... unfortunately publicly ranting in reply to anyone doesn't look great as you come across as very aggressive ... not something a lady is going to warm to ...
Can't see the verifications you mention?
I believe he was responding to some extremely abusive posts which have since been removed. His annoyance was not unprovoked, though with the posts gone, it probably makes him look bad for no reason.
Mrs"
Yeah the guy was bang out of order. Glad his comments got removed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good advice above ... unfortunately publicly ranting in reply to anyone doesn't look great as you come across as very aggressive ... not something a lady is going to warm to ...
Can't see the verifications you mention?
I believe he was responding to some extremely abusive posts which have since been removed. His annoyance was not unprovoked, though with the posts gone, it probably makes him look bad for no reason.
Mrs"
He was. There was a guy being really unpleasant. Possibly d*unk
Doesn't detract from the fact that the OP and profile text are somewhat contradictory though |
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