I am now getting a lot of no shows from of so called genuine and honest I people I have had two in two days is anybody else having the same problem. It is making me fed up I put a lot of time money and effort into my meets but I am now thinking whether there are any real genuine and honest people on this site and fabguys |
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had 100s of these .. thats why i only meet when i was going to dress anyway..im very cynical ..and i assume that most guys will let me down ..and invite a few .. sometimes they all show up tho but usually not.
just dont spend too much time chatting on line .. never travel too far and never book a hotel .. |
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Sorry but I do not believe there is such a person as genuine and honest. A genuine person would have to be honest about times that they have been dishonest and if someone tells you that they have never lied then they are not being genuine. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I am now getting a lot of no shows from of so called genuine and honest I people I have had two in two days is anybody else having the same problem. It is making me fed up I put a lot of time money and effort into my meets but I am now thinking whether there are any real genuine and honest people on this site and fabguys "
Pardon me for asking but what sort of money are you putting in to your meets?  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I am now getting a lot of no shows from of so called genuine and honest I people I have had two in two days is anybody else having the same problem. It is making me fed up I put a lot of time money and effort into my meets but I am now thinking whether there are any real genuine and honest people on this site and fabguys
Pardon me for asking but what sort of money are you putting in to your meets? "
If hotels are booked, or travel is involved it's all a wasted cost if there's a no show.
My advice to you OP would be perhaps put measures in place to minimise the risk of no shows - things like taking a bit more time to get to know people before arranging meets, or having them verify by phone on the morning of a meet that they'll be there etc - know none of that is foolproof but it might help reduce the inconveniences
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By *robertsCouple
over a year ago
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We think it's completely down to luck !
When we started here we couldn't understand all this talk of timewasters as the guys we were seeing were genuine .
However since that time we've experienced a different side like the OP.
We had a social last week with an experienced guy who is based here and said the majority of people here are timewasters !
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"I am now getting a lot of no shows from of so called genuine and honest I people I have had two in two days is anybody else having the same problem. It is making me fed up I put a lot of time money and effort into my meets but I am now thinking whether there are any real genuine and honest people on this site and fabguys
Pardon me for asking but what sort of money are you putting in to your meets?
If hotels are booked, or travel is involved it's all a wasted cost if there's a no show.
My advice to you OP would be perhaps put measures in place to minimise the risk of no shows - things like taking a bit more time to get to know people before arranging meets, or having them verify by phone on the morning of a meet that they'll be there etc - know none of that is foolproof but it might help reduce the inconveniences
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they are genuine and honest make sure they are by chatting on cam or phone before arranging meets if you aren't doing this already. Some of us are for real, don't give up x"
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It's happened once to me. It's frustrating but I think you need to see the other side. Sometimes people do change their minds or nerves get the better of them. Or simply they get a more attractive offer (not everyone has a lot of free time so they want to make best of it). It doesn't make them not genuine per se. No one should ever feel guilty for changing their minds. How ever much time, energy and/or money someone has investes the other person has no obligation to have sex with them. Because there are so many assholes who do not take kindly to rejection I think people are often too scared to give an honest reason for why they no longer want to and become a no show. |
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