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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl |
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"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl"
It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl
It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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She was verified several times as was their couples profile so seemed genuine.
I assume some people just have double standards where these things are concerned.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl"
Good job you didn't want to meet them then XXX |
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"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl
It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody. "
hero to zero, happens all the time, somebody told me he'd contacted me for a bet!  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Not so much selfish but self absorbed and down right rude. Rejection is part and parcel of fab, we've had our fair share, disappointed yes, undignified in our response, never. Block or make a note to not accidentally contact them again and move on. |
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"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl"
It’s plain rude and people like her use this site as a platform for abuse. So wrong and hope you reported her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl
It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody. "
i usually get old added to the mix too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl"
Dodged a bullet there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a couple said that to us it would be an instant block. There are alot of couples on here who say they are looking to meet couples but in reality are looking for a FMF and because they cant find a unicorn they will make do with a couple for their fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People like this make me doubly wary of meeting anyone from Fab as well.
I mean I like to think I'm not a bad judge of character on the whole, but I've been surprised a few times here by how quickly someone can go from seemingly nice to thoroughly nasty. |
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"People like this make me doubly wary of meeting anyone from Fab as well.
I mean I like to think I'm not a bad judge of character on the whole, but I've been surprised a few times here by how quickly someone can go from seemingly nice to thoroughly nasty."
I’ve had that too and I feel the same. It’s just made me very wary of people on Fab. |
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"People like this make me doubly wary of meeting anyone from Fab as well.
I mean I like to think I'm not a bad judge of character on the whole, but I've been surprised a few times here by how quickly someone can go from seemingly nice to thoroughly nasty."
As soon as you go against their fun plans the 'real' them is revealed. Alot of strange fucked up people on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I changed from "one hot sexy babe" to "a tranny with issues" in the space of three messages recently, after turning a guy down "
That’s the first thing I hear after I decline; that I’m a 'tranny'. Doesn’t bother me. The trans ladies are bloody epic, on Fab.
Odd that I'm a 'stunning lady' until I say 'no'.... |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl"
Weird. Double standards and it's not on giving you a load of abuse.
I've had it several times off the fem of the cpl when I've said "Sorry but Mr isn't for me".
So if you're polite you get a load of abused you ignore them ..you get a load of abuse. Can't win sometimes lol
Thingy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??
Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.
I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.
She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.
She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!
It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.
How funny is that pmsl
It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She was verified several times as was their couples profile so seemed genuine.
I assume some people just have double standards where these things are concerned.
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We need to start reporting people for abuse ... They're better off here quite frankly. If they turn like that in a message what might they do face-to-face? We need to keep the site safe for everyone so need to look after each other ... |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"She was verified several times as was their couples profile so seemed genuine.
I assume some people just have double standards where these things are concerned.
We need to start reporting people for abuse ... They're better off here quite frankly. If they turn like that in a message what might they do face-to-face? We need to keep the site safe for everyone so need to look after each other ..."
I did report and block the ones who did it to me as there's just no need to be abusive.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I found it more funny than offensive to honest.
Oh well, couple more profiles added to the ever growing block list.
Maybe we will actually meet someone off here at some point.
We live in hope lol |
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"She was verified several times as was their couples profile so seemed genuine.
I assume some people just have double standards where these things are concerned.
We need to start reporting people for abuse ... They're better off here quite frankly. If they turn like that in a message what might they do face-to-face? We need to keep the site safe for everyone so need to look after each other ..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reality is that there are a hell of a lot of selfish people in the swinging world who are only out to fulfil there fantasies, play how they want to play and this is backed up by enablers in forum threads etc
Simply put swinging is about compromise, everyone involved and everyone having fun, some people would be a lot more successful if they realised this fact.
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Sounds like you swerved an a-hole though. Delete, block, carry on having fun on here. THAT will REALLY p**s them off! Dreamcatcher Xx 
