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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Can someone make it clear to me .

So messages that I have sent either say.

Unread

Read

Deleted

So the deleted ones haven't been read right and the read ones are still in there inbox ??

How do you know if they haven't even read them and just deleted (god forbid )

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can someone make it clear to me .

So messages that I have sent either say.

Unread

Read

Deleted

So the deleted ones haven't been read right and the read ones are still in there inbox ??

How do you know if they haven't even read them and just deleted (god forbid )

Thanks "

You don’t know. Best thing to do is delete from your sent box then you can’t torture yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Can someone make it clear to me .

So messages that I have sent either say.

Unread

Read

Deleted

So the deleted ones haven't been read right and the read ones are still in there inbox ??

How do you know if they haven't even read them and just deleted (god forbid )

Thanks

You don’t know. Best thing to do is delete from your sent box then you can’t torture yourself "

not bothered really just wanted to know

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

id take deleted as unopened/not read

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By *estinysswingersCouple  over a year ago

Worsley

Unread = unread (or read and then marked as unread)

Read = read (well opened at least)

Deleted = deleted (it may have been read before they deleted it)

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks .

So there isn't a read and deleted so just deleted is unread is my understanding .

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By *estinysswingersCouple  over a year ago

Worsley

Deleted could mean it was either read or unread prior to deletion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Deleted could mean it was either read or unread prior to deletion. "

So when people say they deleted before reading is a myth then .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Deleted could mean it was either read or unread prior to deletion.

So when people say they deleted before reading is a myth then ."

No? You can delete a message either before reading or after reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Deleted could mean it was either read or unread prior to deletion.

So when people say they deleted before reading is a myth then ."

Not at all I block delete without reading. Not meeting so they haven’t read my profile so I won’t read their messages! Brutal I know!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it. "

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Deleted could mean it was either read or unread prior to deletion.

So when people say they deleted before reading is a myth then .

No? You can delete a message either before reading or after reading it."

cool thanks .

Clears that up .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude ) "

Wow wasn’t being rude just said!

That was rude for saying time of the month!

No wonder your messages get deleted! Right charmer! NOT!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

Wow wasn’t being rude just said!

That was rude for saying time of the month!

No wonder your messages get deleted! Right charmer! NOT!!!!!!"

you started it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

Wow wasn’t being rude just said!

That was rude for saying time of the month!

No wonder your messages get deleted! Right charmer! NOT!!!!!! you started it "

I apologise .i was only as,in and not desperate for messages .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

Wow wasn’t being rude just said!

That was rude for saying time of the month!

No wonder your messages get deleted! Right charmer! NOT!!!!!! you started it "

No OP, you started it, you invaded Poland!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

Wow wasn’t being rude just said!

That was rude for saying time of the month!

No wonder your messages get deleted! Right charmer! NOT!!!!!! you started it

Love and peace people love and peace ..

No OP, you started it, you invaded Poland! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You came on the forum to ask a question you got answers but kept asking about deleted messages being read. I answered the question. Saying time of the month is very childish OP

Remember folks read forums so that was a rather sexist remark.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You came on the forum to ask a question you got answers but kept asking about deleted messages being read. I answered the question. Saying time of the month is very childish OP

Remember folks read forums so that was a rather sexist remark. "

as said I apologise now go pick on someone else .ps sorry for asking not everyone understands things .the end

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

Wow wasn’t being rude just said!

That was rude for saying time of the month!

No wonder your messages get deleted! Right charmer! NOT!!!!!!"

Exactly!

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By *rladytoyMan  over a year ago

bournemouth

This is going to blow your mind......but some people are so sad and insecure, that they read a message , and then mark it as un-read again! I know, the mind boggles right

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is going to blow your mind......but some people are so sad and insecure, that they read a message , and then mark it as un-read again! I know, the mind boggles right"

Or has a couple one reads marks it unread for the other as not to give the impression it was read and being ignored. Or just maybe singles and couples may be reading through messages something comes up so they don’t have time to answer so again mark it unread to reply to when they have time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This just goes to show we'll discuss any topic at length on Fab!!!

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By *londieddWoman  over a year ago

fife


"This is going to blow your mind......but some people are so sad and insecure, that they read a message , and then mark it as un-read again! I know, the mind boggles right"

have you never done this with an email so you can go back to it when you have more time to reply?

hardly mind blowing, sad or insecure

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You came on the forum to ask a question you got answers but kept asking about deleted messages being read. I answered the question. Saying time of the month is very childish OP

Remember folks read forums so that was a rather sexist remark. "

Not only childish

But quite terrifying

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

Wow wasn’t being rude just said!

That was rude for saying time of the month!

No wonder your messages get deleted! Right charmer! NOT!!!!!!

Exactly! "

My message didn't get deleted I was only asking a question and she assumed I was a twisted hater that had my message deleted ,what if I was asking for my sake as someone was messaging me and I didn't want them to know I'd read there message before deleting it,if a woman had asked the same question everyone would be on her side .she was rude first thanks

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple  over a year ago

South Wales


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude ) "

And you wonder why you're not having any luck.

Enjoy the next baron six months fella.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

Wow wasn’t being rude just said!

That was rude for saying time of the month!

No wonder your messages get deleted! Right charmer! NOT!!!!!!

Exactly!

My message didn't get deleted I was only asking a question and she assumed I was a twisted hater that had my message deleted ,what if I was asking for my sake as someone was messaging me and I didn't want them to know I'd read there message before deleting it,if a woman had asked the same question everyone would be on her side .she was rude first thanks "

I have to ask how what Kitty Kat said was in any way rude? All she did was point out that you had said earlier that you weren't bothered by messages being deleted/read/unread despite asking about them in the first place and she simply pointed out that for someone that wasn't bothered you seemed to be taking it to the nth degree - nothing rude in that from my viewpoint - it was a simple observation nothing more.

You then responded asking if it was her time of the month - which is incredibly rude.

And before you say it - my suit of armour is at the cleaners today

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple  over a year ago

South Wales

The forum is increasingly useful as a block feeder. You get to block people before they can even check out your profile.

Result!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

Wow wasn’t being rude just said!

That was rude for saying time of the month!

No wonder your messages get deleted! Right charmer! NOT!!!!!!

Exactly!

My message didn't get deleted I was only asking a question and she assumed I was a twisted hater that had my message deleted ,what if I was asking for my sake as someone was messaging me and I didn't want them to know I'd read there message before deleting it,if a woman had asked the same question everyone would be on her side .she was rude first thanks

I have to ask how what Kitty Kat said was in any way rude? All she did was point out that you had said earlier that you weren't bothered by messages being deleted/read/unread despite asking about them in the first place and she simply pointed out that for someone that wasn't bothered you seemed to be taking it to the nth degree - nothing rude in that from my viewpoint - it was a simple observation nothing more.

You then responded asking if it was her time of the month - which is incredibly rude.

And before you say it - my suit of armour is at the cleaners today "

It isn't just rude

It is what I would expect from a 14yr old

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You said earlier op you wasn’t bothered either way but you keep on at it.

Still not bothered no ,just asking (time of the month or born rude )

And you wonder why you're not having any luck.

Enjoy the next baron six months fella."

Still not bothered people ,x

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By *rladytoyMan  over a year ago

bournemouth


"This is going to blow your mind......but some people are so sad and insecure, that they read a message , and then mark it as un-read again! I know, the mind boggles right

have you never done this with an email so you can go back to it when you have more time to reply?

hardly mind blowing, sad or insecure "

The occasional exception im sure

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You came on the forum to ask a question you got answers but kept asking about deleted messages being read. I answered the question. Saying time of the month is very childish OP

Remember folks read forums so that was a rather sexist remark.

Not only childish

But quite terrifying

"

Out of interest, for scale, what do you feel about North Korea possibly having a nuclear capability?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP you need to chill out either that or go and do some to relieve your anger and frustration

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You came on the forum to ask a question you got answers but kept asking about deleted messages being read. I answered the question. Saying time of the month is very childish OP

Remember folks read forums so that was a rather sexist remark.

Not only childish

But quite terrifying

Out of interest, for scale, what do you feel about North Korea possibly having a nuclear capability? "

I think its an illustration that human beings really haven't evolved, moved on or learnt lessons

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You came on the forum to ask a question you got answers but kept asking about deleted messages being read. I answered the question. Saying time of the month is very childish OP

Remember folks read forums so that was a rather sexist remark.

Not only childish

But quite terrifying

Out of interest, for scale, what do you feel about North Korea possibly having a nuclear capability?

I think its an illustration that human beings really haven't evolved, moved on or learnt lessons"

See what you've done there, very good!

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

Alot of messages i can read without opening as just say hi or how r u.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP you need to chill out either that or go and do some to relieve your anger and frustration"
maybe mate yes .

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