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Have some profile advice...
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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There seems to be a huge amount of threads all asking the same sort of thing..'why aren't I getting any replies or meets?'
So, to save time, repetative threads and my sanity, here goes:
SWINGING is a lifestyle choice. A hobby, maybe. But not instashag.
Sex is not guarenteed, even if you are a gold site supporter. Or staying in a local hotel for work/ parked up nearby in your truck.
Capiche?
USERNAME...nobody likes 'Cock4U' type of names. They are adolescent.
PHOTOS...body pics good. Your cock, from 20 different angles..bad.
Bathrooms, bog rolls, messy backgrounds and moody faces staring at their phones all make awful pictures.
Get creative. Think about colour/ black & white, effects etc.
Do not be a knob and nick someone else's pics.
PROFILE BLURB...be funny. Be creative. But please do not be 'genuine' or any other terrible cliché...
The disclaimers (Sydney etc) are a crock of shite.
GET KNOWN...take part in the forums. Go to group socials. Go to clubs. Just sending out a cut & paste message to any female with a pulse on here will not work.
...and breathe... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You forgot:
Don't harrass and abuse anyone who deletes your messages - read or unread - it can mean they're not interested in you - or just they haven't had time to trawl through a full inbox yet. |
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"There seems to be a huge amount of threads all asking the same sort of thing..'why aren't I getting any replies or meets?'
So, to save time, repetative threads and my sanity, here goes:
SWINGING is a lifestyle choice. A hobby, maybe. But not instashag.
Sex is not guarenteed, even if you are a gold site supporter. Or staying in a local hotel for work/ parked up nearby in your truck.
Capiche?
USERNAME...nobody likes 'Cock4U' type of names. They are adolescent.
PHOTOS...body pics good. Your cock, from 20 different angles..bad.
Bathrooms, bog rolls, messy backgrounds and moody faces staring at their phones all make awful pictures.
Get creative. Think about colour/ black & white, effects etc.
Do not be a knob and nick someone else's pics.
PROFILE BLURB...be funny. Be creative. But please do not be 'genuine' or any other terrible cliché...
The disclaimers (Sydney etc) are a crock of shite.
GET KNOWN...take part in the forums. Go to group socials. Go to clubs. Just sending out a cut & paste message to any female with a pulse on here will not work.
...and breathe..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some guys believe it's dial a shag, as in, I've signed up to the site and all the ladies are just waiting for the guy to get in touch and bingo.
Some guys don't realise the number of messages ladies get.
We've experienced it ourselves where for a month or two, we just don't feel like meeting, maybe some guys believe others should be up for it 24/7.
Profile wording can often be poor or crude, eg. I'm bored, cunt etc.. A torso and one cock shot is good, many or solely cock shots is a no.
Supply and demand, ladies can pick n choose, so if they're just not attracted to you, move on. They can't just keep replying with a No Thanks, to then get abuse.
Appeal to a wider audience. A combination of a beard, pot belly, untidy long hair, prince albert etc.. will restrict your target audience. So tidy and tone up. Having said that, we're currently on diets ourselves, bit food naughty over xmas 
And our last bit of advice is, look at successful profiles with many meets and structure your profile in a similar way. |
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I bet the successful single guys on here all have one thing in common i.e.
They all took time to read the forum and took note of the answers people were given and then didn't post a whiny "Why ............." thread. |
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Well said , a note book needed!!!! I only would add but for me a single guy picture , exposing someone on their avatar picture is an instant delete or close up ones with spunk! Vile !
Great work ! X |
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"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?
And selecting 'cannot travel' and 'cannot accommodate' doesn't leave much room to work with?"
But that is a perfectly acceptable choice that most people understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?
I did...
I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.
Sorry!
I was thinking about their profile as a whole!"
Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose! |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?
I did...
I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.
Sorry!
I was thinking about their profile as a whole!
Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose! "
They never listen, anyway...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?
I did...
I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.
Sorry!
I was thinking about their profile as a whole!
Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose!
They never listen, anyway... "
True, they just can’t help themselves! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a huge amount of threads all asking the same sort of thing..'why aren't I getting any replies or meets?'
So, to save time, repetative threads and my sanity, here goes:
SWINGING is a lifestyle choice. A hobby, maybe. But not instashag.
Sex is not guarenteed, even if you are a gold site supporter. Or staying in a local hotel for work/ parked up nearby in your truck.
Capiche?
USERNAME...nobody likes 'Cock4U' type of names. They are adolescent.
Praise be!!! Someone talking sense!! All of the above is a non starter for me!! Xx
PHOTOS...body pics good. Your cock, from 20 different angles..bad.
Bathrooms, bog rolls, messy backgrounds and moody faces staring at their phones all make awful pictures.
Get creative. Think about colour/ black & white, effects etc.
Do not be a knob and nick someone else's pics.
PROFILE BLURB...be funny. Be creative. But please do not be 'genuine' or any other terrible cliché...
The disclaimers (Sydney etc) are a crock of shite.
GET KNOWN...take part in the forums. Go to group socials. Go to clubs. Just sending out a cut & paste message to any female with a pulse on here will not work.
...and breathe..."
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"Guys...there seems to be a lot of threads all asking for advice.
Please, please, please read the advice, critique your own profile and change as needed.
...and breathe... "
I’ve pasted the link for this thread into a couple of them today!! |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Guys...there seems to be a lot of threads all asking for advice.
Please, please, please read the advice, critique your own profile and change as needed.
...and breathe...
I’ve pasted the link for this thread into a couple of them today!! "
Thank you. Let's hope they read and learn... |
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"Guys...there seems to be a lot of threads all asking for advice.
Please, please, please read the advice, critique your own profile and change as needed.
...and breathe...
I’ve pasted the link for this thread into a couple of them today!!
Thank you. Let's hope they read and learn... "
Fingers crossed!!  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?
I did...
I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.
Sorry!
I was thinking about their profile as a whole!
Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose! "
 Why do people want to help the inept people get meets? I want to meet the person behind the profile, not the person that just copied it all off some advice thread! |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?
I did...
I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.
Sorry!
I was thinking about their profile as a whole!
Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose!
Why do people want to help the inept people get meets? I want to meet the person behind the profile, not the person that just copied it all off some advice thread!"
Because we all need guidance sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never met anyone on here yet, need some advice! Only get men messaging me never women ?
Did you read the thread or just post your words on the end of it? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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High all. Ive only just found this post and agree with lisa. People tend to think this site is a shag pit. Esp men. Ops its not. Put some effort in and be content with one meet every three months for gods sake. You will enjoy it more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You forgot:
Don't harrass and abuse anyone who deletes your messages - read or unread - it can mean they're not interested in you - or just they haven't had time to trawl through a full inbox yet."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read this after signing in briefly.
It'll never change. People who don't make the effort don't want the advice.
I think we should have some kind of computer game where you get to change levels when you've upped your game. Veris are either here nor there, some people care for them some don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There seems to be a huge amount of threads all asking the same sort of thing..'why aren't I getting any replies or meets?'
So, to save time, repetative threads and my sanity, here goes:
SWINGING is a lifestyle choice. A hobby, maybe. But not instashag.
Sex is not guarenteed, even if you are a gold site supporter. Or staying in a local hotel for work/ parked up nearby in your truck.
Capiche?
USERNAME...nobody likes 'Cock4U' type of names. They are adolescent.
PHOTOS...body pics good. Your cock, from 20 different angles..bad.
Bathrooms, bog rolls, messy backgrounds and moody faces staring at their phones all make awful pictures.
Get creative. Think about colour/ black & white, effects etc.
Do not be a knob and nick someone else's pics.
PROFILE BLURB...be funny. Be creative. But please do not be 'genuine' or any other terrible cliché...
The disclaimers (Sydney etc) are a crock of shite.
GET KNOWN...take part in the forums. Go to group socials. Go to clubs. Just sending out a cut & paste message to any female with a pulse on here will not work.
...and breathe..."
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