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"any one else find they cant get hard when it comes to play time on a meet ? 3rd time its happened now ,never usualy have a problem " It’s normal, very normal, you’re human not robot. | |||
"Its an age thing... "I would agree with this,try with someone younger. 99?you really want to swing with women that old? | |||
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"I should give up mate. It's obviously not for you. It's those other dastardly dicks hanging around that does it. He he. Only joking. I should get some blue friends in from somewhere. Don't the chemists do them now ??? " You can get herbal ones from shops & sites that sell toys etc - Anne summers, love honey, nice n naughty ... Or go to your GP | |||
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"any one else find they cant get hard when it comes to play time on a meet ? 3rd time its happened now ,never usualy have a problem " were you nervous ,were others watching or maybe she just wasn't attractive  | |||
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"I should give up mate. It's obviously not for you. It's those other dastardly dicks hanging around that does it. He he. Only joking. I should get some blue friends in from somewhere. Don't the chemists do them now ??? You can get herbal ones from shops & sites that sell toys etc - Anne summers, love honey, nice n naughty ... Or go to your GP "You can get two British made blue pills in poundland yep for a £1 ..probably safer than buying dodgy ones made of all sorts on the internet | |||
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 nice no pressure meet stayed nice and hard throughout ,thanks for the replies | |||
"I don't know why men feel the need to use Viagra? Aren't they worried about long-term consequences, and isn't it better to get to the source of the "problem?" Men aren't fucking machines. " My doctor Blamed my wife for so no x’s loads and loads. That why I struggle now. Pills work fine for me and I feel it’s worth it for a bit of fun. | |||
"If you can get spontaneous erections normally then your GP won’t be all that interested if it’s just down to meet nerves or pressure." First thing my Doctor asked was. Do you get the morning horn( she actually asked like that ). When I said yes. We had a chat and found what could be the problem. | |||
"any one else find they cant get hard when it comes to play time on a meet ? 3rd time its happened now ,never usualy have a problem " Its quite normal so relax & don't worry, we have filmed hundreds of people over the years & this is a common problem. The more you worry the less it will work so when you next play soft swing so there is no pressure on you, before long you'll be fine & banging away for England again. | |||
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"any one else find they cant get hard when it comes to play time on a meet ? 3rd time its happened now ,never usualy have a problem " try a blue pill an hour before meet or club meet | |||
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"I've not met a man yet with that issue As you don't meet men over 46 it is less likely.. That said, I'm told it can happen to any man" | |||
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"It happens, it can happen to any man at any age, it can be as simple as nerves x" What having a shag with a bird you fancy ...???  | |||
"It happens, it can happen to any man at any age, it can be as simple as nerves x What having a shag with a bird you fancy ...??? "Yeah, just because you fancy someone doesn't mean you will automatically not be nervous...I've known a few men to have trouble it's no big deal, that's what hands and tongues are for and usually after a while they're able to get it up with no problem (unless they've taken a pile of or whatever they take and it's killed it  ) | |||
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"It happens, it can happen to any man at any age, it can be as simple as nerves x What having a shag with a bird you fancy ...???
Yeah, just because you fancy someone doesn't mean you will automatically not be nervous...I've known a few men to have trouble it's no big deal, that's what hands and tongues are for and usually after a while they're able to get it up with no problem (unless they've taken a pile of or whatever they take and it's killed it )"interesting | |||
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"I should give up mate. It's obviously not for you. It's those other dastardly dicks hanging around that does it. He he. Only joking. I should get some blue friends in from somewhere. Don't the chemists do them now ??? You can get herbal ones from shops & sites that sell toys etc - Anne summers, love honey, nice n naughty ... Or go to your GP
You can get two British made blue pills in poundland yep for a £1 ..probably safer than buying dodgy ones made of all sorts on the internet"Are the poundland ones any good. Do they actually contain the magic ingredient, sildenafil citrate. I very much doubt it. | |||
In my opinion I would have to go with a man who i was attracted too and who i had connected with by chatting .If not id rather do without | |||
"If I had a dick and was going to have sex with someone I didn't no well and no connection .it would be floppy
In my opinion I would have to go with a man who i was attracted too and who i had connected with by chatting .If not id rather do without "I agree me to ,if you're not turned on you won't rise to occassion | |||
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"If I had a dick and was going to have sex with someone I didn't no well and no connection .it would be floppy
In my opinion I would have to go with a man who i was attracted too and who i had connected with by chatting .If not id rather do without
But you are not a man so are not wired up like one.
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"If I had a dick and was going to have sex with someone I didn't no well and no connection .it would be floppy
In my opinion I would have to go with a man who i was attracted too and who i had connected with by chatting .If not id rather do without
"But you are not a man so are not wired up like one. I am not sure the OP is about that though | |||
"If I had a dick and was going to have sex with someone I didn't no well and no connection .it would be floppy
In my opinion I would have to go with a man who i was attracted too and who i had connected with by chatting .If not id rather do without "That makes sense. An ex and I met a few ladies who he was obviously not attracted to and it was a definite no go. Shame because I thought they were lovely. No amount of reassurance would save the situation. | |||
. Though I take hormones so side affect is affected function down stairs .
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"I should give up mate. It's obviously not for you. It's those other dastardly dicks hanging around that does it. He he. Only joking. I should get some blue friends in from somewhere. Don't the chemists do them now ??? You can get herbal ones from shops & sites that sell toys etc - Anne summers, love honey, nice n naughty ... Or go to your GP
You can get two British made blue pills in poundland yep for a £1 ..probably safer than buying dodgy ones made of all sorts on the internet
Are the poundland ones any good. Do they actually contain the magic ingredient, sildenafil citrate. I very much doubt it."I doubt it lol | |||
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"Maybe you should go to the doctors . 3 times nerves ?Maybe a underline issue ? " I have no issue at home with my Mrs but if I over think things when we play then I can go soft. Even with a couple we meet regularly with it can happen. So yeah it can be down to nervous. Don’t think about getting hard or think about penetration lots of kissing and forplay and you should find it works on its own so to speak. Also as embarrassing as it is tell the person your with people have always understood and it takes away some pressure. | |||
"I should give up mate. It's obviously not for you. It's those other dastardly dicks hanging around that does it. He he. Only joking. I should get some blue friends in from somewhere. Don't the chemists do them now ??? You can get herbal ones from shops & sites that sell toys etc - Anne summers, love honey, nice n naughty ... Or go to your GP
You can get two British made blue pills in poundland yep for a £1 ..probably safer than buying dodgy ones made of all sorts on the internet
Are the poundland ones any good. Do they actually contain the magic ingredient, sildenafil citrate. I very much doubt it. I doubt it lol". For £1.00 worth having a go if it works great if not you no worse off than before and it only cost you £1.00 | |||
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"If I had a dick and was going to have sex with someone I didn't no well and no connection .it would be floppy
In my opinion I would have to go with a man who i was attracted too and who i had connected with by chatting .If not id rather do without I agree me to ,if you're not turned on you won't rise to occassion "I totally disagree. You can be turned on and not have a boner. You can not be turned on and have a spontaneous boner. Ever been on a long car journey and suddenly got hard for no reason? | |||
"If I had a dick and was going to have sex with someone I didn't no well and no connection .it would be floppy
In my opinion I would have to go with a man who i was attracted too and who i had connected with by chatting .If not id rather do without I agree me to ,if you're not turned on you won't rise to occassion
I totally disagree. You can be turned on and not have a boner. You can not be turned on and have a spontaneous boner.
Ever been on a long car journey and suddenly got hard for no reason?"I used to loads of em on double decker bus but that's many years ago lol on the top deck lol | |||
)I have even had to give them a blue pill from my own stock on occasions. Personally I've never failed to perform, old faithful me. So far anyway | |||
"It's happened to us quite lot over the years. We can't quite work it out why some guys can't stay hard when playing with Mrs T. I mean look at her ffs, you would think she would stiffen a dead man (and I don't mean rigor mortis )I have even had to give them a blue pill from my own stock on occasions. Personally I've never failed to perform, old faithful me. So far anyway "Your one of the lucky ones to never get performance nerves..it's nothing to do what the lady looks like ..it's probably the anticipation of the meet ahead they have had all day and then the meet itself wanting to please..although we do not do social meets first I can see where it would probably help a lot of guys out and settle their nerves first .. | |||
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"any one else find they cant get hard when it comes to play time on a meet ? 3rd time its happened now ,never usualy have a problem " Sleep and vitamins bud, and plenty o fresh fruit | |||
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"This thread restores my faith , great advice with no sneering / trying to humiliate anyone To the OP...we had a man who we met a few times that did the same thing on the first meet, we just stopped play and chatted instead with the intention of not playing that night. After a while he relaxed enough to forget about his hard on ( or lack of ) and we ended up having a great meet. I think like others have said, it is nerve racking at times especially when you are joining a couple so as long as you don't get someone who will chuck you out because of it you will probably find it rights itself in the end" . Totally agree. I’ve always said that here’s never any pressure to play. Some guys also find it difficult to cum which can also be frustrating. | |||
It's not a big thing though...
Leave them relax as others have said and they will warm up. In fact, thinking about it, some of my best head came from a guy who was struggling. | |||
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"There called nooky in poundland I spotted them today lol" They can’t work surely | |||
"There called nooky in poundland I spotted them today lol They can’t work surely " I could do an investigation but for a quid I doubt it so for research purposes I've a spare quid lol | |||
"If I had a dick and was going to have sex with someone I didn't no well and no connection .it would be floppy
In my opinion I would have to go with a man who i was attracted too and who i had connected with by chatting .If not id rather do without I agree me to ,if you're not turned on you won't rise to occassion
I totally disagree. You can be turned on and not have a boner. You can not be turned on and have a spontaneous boner.
Ever been on a long car journey and suddenly got hard for no reason?"sorry but if you're not turned on it doesn't rise unless you've took the lil blue pill then in some cases it won't subside | |||
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"I've not met a man yet with that issue That said, I'm told it can happen to any man" i like your confidence.! | |||
"If I had a dick and was going to have sex with someone I didn't no well and no connection .it would be floppy
In my opinion I would have to go with a man who i was attracted too and who i had connected with by chatting .If not id rather do without I agree me to ,if you're not turned on you won't rise to occassion
I totally disagree. You can be turned on and not have a boner. You can not be turned on and have a spontaneous boner.
Ever been on a long car journey and suddenly got hard for no reason?sorry but if you're not turned on it doesn't rise unless you've took the lil blue pill then in some cases it won't subside "So you’ve never woken up with an erection, never had one going about your normal day? | |||
"any one else find they cant get hard when it comes to play time on a meet ? 3rd time its happened now ,never usualy have a problem " Not read the thread yet so my answer my be covered already. 1. It could be physical, but if you're fine alone.. 2. It's emotional. If it's emotional, you need to do a couple of things. a) Find someone who you can explain it to and who is willing to work with you. Believe it or not, there are lots of nice people out there, contrary to what Fab will have you believe. b) Explain that it's either i) Nerves or ii) Confidence. c) Be honest and open about it. d) Promise nothing. e) Avoid putting pressure on yourself. f) Build up slowly. g) Use foreplay to maximum effect, kiss, stroke, touch, talk and communicate. h) Relax, let your mind go and enjoy the feeling.. the warmth, the finer things. Bare in mind you may not actually be as attracted in the flesh as you think you are online. My issue was confidence. I had a difficult marriage breakdown that left me feeling unattractive, fat, not worthy of affection, guilt and unsexy. It destroyed my libido to the point that trying to take a photo of my stiffy was becoming impossible. Now.. without any medication, bar the care and attention of some patient, caring, kind women who saw the goodness in me.. Erections are again, thankfully, no longer a problem. Once you get it in your head that you may have a problem.. it only makes the matter worse. Relax. Enjoy. Provided you are willing to spend an hour or two on foreplay, willing to listen, observe and put the effort in. Why wouldn't they for you? If they aren't, they're not worth the hassle. It could be physical, but provided you are physically fit, eat and sleep well, have good mental health. It's more likely to be in your head. Good luck dude.. it's a scary time when you think youre Willy doesn't work. | |||
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