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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi just a little advice, if I message people and they read and don’t reply or just delete the message, I block them so they don’t come up in my searches. Am I been too harsh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just a little advice, if I message people and they read and don’t reply or just delete the message, I block them so they don’t come up in my searches. Am I been too harsh?"
Not even slightly. Why would that be harsh? They’re not interested so they’ll never know you have and you won’t bother them again. Winners all round  |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"Hi just a little advice, if I message people and they read and don’t reply or just delete the message, I block them so they don’t come up in my searches. Am I been too harsh?"
I used to do this as it makes logical sense and saves times but, over time, I ended up with quite a large block list and it felt so negative so, I deleted all my block list and now I don't block anyone  |
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"Always just block then you not wasting anyone's time .
.. people may think we are bring rude but thus site is for shagging nothing else "
For you maybe. Some enjoy the social side too. There would't be numerous social all over the country otherwise. |
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"Always just block then you not wasting anyone's time .
.. people may think we are bring rude but thus site is for shagging nothing else "
I don't agree. Lots of people enjoy using the site for chat rooms or the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always just block then you not wasting anyone's time .
.. people may think we are bring rude but thus site is for shagging nothing else
For you maybe. Some enjoy the social side too. There would't be numerous social all over the country otherwise."
I agree, not everyone can meet as much as they’d like but are certainly up for the social side. There’s more to this site than just shagging!! |
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By *aked AngelMan
over a year ago
Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire |
I do the same, it is pointless to bother the same people maybe a month or 2 after, because you don't remember about your first contact.
Much more scary when people agree a meet and then block you!!! Happened twice to me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just a little advice, if I message people and they read and don’t reply or just delete the message, I block them so they don’t come up in my searches. Am I been too harsh?"
No. I do same. If people are as rude as to be so passive aggressive then blocking is a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just a little advice, if I message people and they read and don’t reply or just delete the message, I block them so they don’t come up in my searches. Am I been too harsh?"
I don't think so. There is a chance you might miss a reply from someone who likes to take a bit of time before doing so, but if your message has been deleted without response I'd say it was a genius move - stops you wasting any more of your time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just a little advice, if I message people and they read and don’t reply or just delete the message, I block them so they don’t come up in my searches. Am I been too harsh?"
that's what I do too
and it works for me |
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"Always just block then you not wasting anyone's time .
.. people may think we are bring rude but thus site is for shagging nothing else "
maybe this site is just for shagging for you! Not for me and a lot of people! Have the forums , events and forge friendships! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The trouble with blocking is you never know if someone might change their mind. If a message has been ignored or deleted it still shows you mailed them. I have had mail deleted then a few days later had a message after they read my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it makes your Fab life easier or pleasanter then block. However it will also mean you won’t be able to look at their pictures or converse with them in the forums - as others have said there is more to Fab than just arranging meets. It’s also worth considering that if you block them they won’t be able to see your profile and you won’t come up in their searches. Now it may be that the timing was just bad when you were deleted. Or it maybe that your message or profile didn’t appeal. Another time, another place, maybe when they are actively looking they might stumble scross your profile and think ‘he looks good’. Why close doors?
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