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By *tephanj OP Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
I have a big regret due to my own stupidity. Also being a bit shy and not wanting to appear pushy. I had a friend on here who has now unfriended me and blocked me. Im not sure how I should go about putting my wrongs right. Anyone have any suggestions? |
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By *tephanj OP Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
"Sometimes is just best to accept their choice to unfriended and block you and move on. Learn from whatever you did wrong  "
oh im learning the hard way but thank you maybe you right and I should just let it go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes is just best to accept their choice to unfriended and block you and move on. Learn from whatever you did wrong oh im learning the hard way but thank you maybe you right and I should just let it go"
What choice have you got |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the nature of the beast.
The women have got their pick from 100’s of men and get inundated with messages and friend requests so you can see why they would rearrange their lists from time to time.
It’s always difficult to come across to someone you don’t know and then harder to keep their attention whilst trying to build a rapport.
Just move on and be yourself, if there’s someone out there you’ll find them eventually.
Take everything with a pinch of salt until you’ve actually met the person.
I’m a member on another site which is far more productive in terms of initial contacts but it’s still hard to get to the point of meeting.
This and similar sites are full of men , timewasters and fantasists unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have not really lost a friend, unless it was someone you met frequently you were just a flag on a database. Being unfriended is just them rearranging the flags.
You may not have even done anything wrong, you just didn't appeal enough to keep on the list.
Onwards and upwards  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thanks people for the advise. The friend was someone who id known on here since I first came on here but hey ho life goes on"
These things happen to us all, at some time, best just to move on, as others have said.   |
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I lost my childhood friend in November. To cancer she would be 28 in February . She had her ing booked for the summer 2018. Is hard but I am moving on , I cherish our memories together . So you will survive OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op can i ask is this friend someone you actually met or just corresponding with through fab ?if the latter the chances are nothing was ever going to happen if former then obviously you didn't know them as well as you thought but then again how well can you truly know someone on fab? |
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By *tephanj OP Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
"Op can i ask is this friend someone you actually met or just corresponding with through fab ?if the latter the chances are nothing was ever going to happen if former then obviously you didn't know them as well as you thought but then again how well can you truly know someone on fab?"
yes i have met this lady a few times
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Op can i ask is this friend someone you actually met or just corresponding with through fab ?if the latter the chances are nothing was ever going to happen if former then obviously you didn't know them as well as you thought but then again how well can you truly know someone on fab? yes i have met this lady a few times"
Oh dear, Stephen. Only you know her. It would appear she wants no further contact with you. Can you text her and say you would like to talk to her? If there is no response then, I would move on. Good luck. |
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By *tephanj OP Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
"Op can i ask is this friend someone you actually met or just corresponding with through fab ?if the latter the chances are nothing was ever going to happen if former then obviously you didn't know them as well as you thought but then again how well can you truly know someone on fab? yes i have met this lady a few times
Oh dear, Stephen. Only you know her. It would appear she wants no further contact with you. Can you text her and say you would like to talk to her? If there is no response then, I would move on. Good luck. "
I have tried to text as it looks like she has a new number that she is using as it bounced back to me. I suppose I should just move on at my age life is to short |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could write her a letter if you got her address but if she's decided your not worth knowing it may be misconstrued as harassment so it's your choice you know her better than us |
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"Op can i ask is this friend someone you actually met or just corresponding with through fab ?if the latter the chances are nothing was ever going to happen if former then obviously you didn't know them as well as you thought but then again how well can you truly know someone on fab? yes i have met this lady a few times
Oh dear, Stephen. Only you know her. It would appear she wants no further contact with you. Can you text her and say you would like to talk to her? If there is no response then, I would move on. Good luck. I have tried to text as it looks like she has a new number that she is using as it bounced back to me. I suppose I should just move on at my age life is to short"
You have obviously done something to make her not want you in her life anymore. Respect her decision, learn from it and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't write her a letter, if I'd blocked someone on here and my number had changed I'd feel very threatened if someone started writing to me at home.
If she hasn't told you why you're just going to have to move on. Even if you've met and know her a bit there could still be plenty of things that made her decide she needed to break contact. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Op can i ask is this friend someone you actually met or just corresponding with through fab ?if the latter the chances are nothing was ever going to happen if former then obviously you didn't know them as well as you thought but then again how well can you truly know someone on fab? yes i have met this lady a few times
Oh dear, Stephen. Only you know her. It would appear she wants no further contact with you. Can you text her and say you would like to talk to her? If there is no response then, I would move on. Good luck. I have tried to text as it looks like she has a new number that she is using as it bounced back to me. I suppose I should just move on at my age life is to short"
Yes, it sounds like you need to move on, lovely. Plenty of others out there. Good luck. xx |
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