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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So many profiles are now saying put some effort on or come up with an original introduction, I wondered what the more experienced fabbers say in their messages, to make the right impression.
I'm really interested in playing with a couple and I understand they probably get bombarded with requests from guys looking for notches but I'm genuinely interested in meeting a couple and it not being a one off.
I have had some great singles meets but couples undetstandably more cautious with us guys.
Any advice would be really helpful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rejig this post a bit, and you have the basis of a good message.
There is no formula, timing and questions that make them want to answer is your best bet |
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over a year ago
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You might want to mention if you've had any threesome or group experience and why you want to meet a couple or how you'd imagine it going (without getting graphic)
We get messages from guys who seem to think they can just meet and play with me , ignore G and call it a threesome. If your message explains the above it saves me asking and removes any doubt about whether you just see a couple as an easier way to meet than single women. |
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over a year ago
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There's no such thing as the perfect message. The right message to the right couple at the right time is all it takes. Sounds easier than it is mind you |
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We messaged a guy just stating that we are a straight to the point couple who are looking for a guy who can accommodate, would like an mfm and if they're interested, just get in touch and we'll send some ideas on possible dates.
With Christmas, we didn't expect an immediate reply and sure enough, 5 days or so later, we got an informative detailed message back -
"Sorry, just got back. Hello to you both."
Unless we're unique in message expectations, we rarely speak to people that kind of know what to say, what they expect the other party may want to know. It seems very obvious to us, but often, people just do one liners.
Here's an example, distance. We are always the ones that has to mention and cover distance first. It's great talking about meets, we're interested etc.. but were you planning to travel through, would you suggest meeting half way etc..
So it's a case of reading and understanding their profile; what they wrote and in the tick boxes (accommodating etc..)
We long to get a, "Hi, I'm Dave and after checking and liking your profile, I thought that I'd drop you a message just to say I'm in your area due to wotrk and will be stopping in a hotel at the end of January. I know you prefer meeting guys at theirs but with the distance involved, I thought I would just say hi and mention a possible meet if you check out my profile and like what you see. Thanks, Dave".
That tells us that he's polite, he has read our profile about accommodating, he's aware of distance and that we need a few weeks notice. He's actually thought through how the meet would be possible.
Not, "Hi, like your pofile, fancy meeting?". |
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