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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi All, I’d be grateful for some advice on my profile.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS  over a year ago

Maidstone


"Hi All, I’d be grateful for some advice on my profile."

It looks fine. Simple, straightforward and not too wordy. Pictures are ok and gives a good impression of what is on offer.

However your verifications are only from TV/TS... if you want to attract a wider base, you may want to meet and get verified by couples, single (cis) women, etc.

I get loads of men who contact me and their profile say they are straight and no sign they are into TV/TS (no TV/TS verificationsm no TV/TS "Friends" nothing!). And when I ask them if they know I am trans, they say "yes but I don't put that down because it puts other women off me"...

It is refreshing that you don't pander after those kind of women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hi All, I’d be grateful for some advice on my profile.

It looks fine. Simple, straightforward and not too wordy. Pictures are ok and gives a good impression of what is on offer.

However your verifications are only from TV/TS... if you want to attract a wider base, you may want to meet and get verified by couples, single (cis) women, etc.

I get loads of men who contact me and their profile say they are straight and no sign they are into TV/TS (no TV/TS verificationsm no TV/TS "Friends" nothing!). And when I ask them if they know I am trans, they say "yes but I don't put that down because it puts other women off me"...

It is refreshing that you don't pander after those kind of women?"

Thanks, not sure what I can do to improve opportunities for meets. Will just keep plodding along.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Perhaps explain why you can’t accommodate otherwise we’ll presume you’re attached

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Perhaps explain why you can’t accommodate otherwise we’ll presume you’re attached "

Thanks changed setting.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS  over a year ago

Maidstone


"Thanks, not sure what I can do to improve opportunities for meets. Will just keep plodding along."

For sure, and as I've said, get a mix of meets and verifications from Couples, single Females etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Thanks, not sure what I can do to improve opportunities for meets. Will just keep plodding along.

For sure, and as I've said, get a mix of meets and verifications from Couples, single Females etc."

Trying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As per the advice on the thread you initially tried to hijack;

“Your profile pic is of a cock - maybe lose that, we know what one looks like!”

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

Agree with above. If you are looking to meet women and couples you need a different profile pic.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In all honesty OP it's a very generic profile not that different from most other single male profiles on here - you need to make yourself stand out, inject some of your personality into it.

People will often read a profile before reading a message to try and get a flavour of the profile owner, so by not giving a lot of detail and using the get out "any questions just ask" you may be putting people off.

Doesn't have to be a life story, but should include some detail about who you are, what you're looking for and most importantly a reason as to why someone would want to meet you over the next person.

I'd ditch the cock pic avatar too - from your public pics you've got a decent body - show that off and not your cock. Also learn how to use the timer on your phone's camera to avoid the taking pics in a mirror with a flash going off effect

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By *orticiaWoman  over a year ago

Wirral

I agree with the above - if I get a message & the profile pic is a cock, it’s an instant delete.

Aside from that, it’s pretty generic but you have a diving photo so there’s clearly interesting stuff you could put in your profile.

Think of it like a CV - if it’s forgettable, are you going to get the job?

Clubs and socials are also a good way to get more veris, so maybe try that too

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