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"I would lobe a Social amd have put on my status many a time but no luck " as a few women have already said, it's a profile you need, not luck! | |||
"I would lobe a Social amd have put on my status many a time but no luck as a few women have already said, it's a profile you need, not luck!" If you’re waiting to be invited to a social, you’ll be waiting a long time. It’s up to you to sort one out or simply go to a club. | |||
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"It may sound harsh, but there is nothing about your profile that would make me want to reply to your message. It consists of a pair of legs and 2 sentences. Women often look at a profile before they read a message & if no effort has gone into it, the message gets deleted. I’m not sure of the exact figures, but there are dozens of men to every one woman on Fab & single females & even some couples get 100+ messages a day. Lengthy messages aren’t going to get read, it’s easier to glance at a profile to see if it grabs your attention. If it doesn’t, you move on. Your profile is your stage to make yourself interesting, to stand out from the other thousands of men on here. If you put no effort into that then it comes across as lazy. If you can’t make an effort on your profile, you’re either expecting sex to fall into your lap because you’re here or maybe you would put as little effort into sex as you did building your profile. Your profile is instantly forgettable. Now I’m sure that you’re not lazy & not just expecting women to come running or would be the kind of guy to put no effort in during sex ... but that’s how you’re coming across & that’s why no one is replying to you. You need a few more photos - be creative, a shower or bath shot, cheeky butt shot, half open shirt, nice pair of boxers, torso, make one black & white maybe ... do a search for threads on profile advice (there are literally hundreds of threads on here that do that) and look at the profiles of some of the guys commenting, as they are usually the guys with the good profiles! Get some tips from them! Your write up needs to be more than 2 sentences. In the short time it’s taken to write this, I’ve actually forgotten what it said, so it’s not memorable, other than the fact it’s brief. Who are you, what made you join Fab, what do you like, what are you looking for, what does a girl get out of meeting you, what sort of person are you ... again, take some inspiration from other single male profiles. Lastly, get some veris. It’s not about whether you’ve got a 10” dick or can bang like a barn door in a gale; it’s about knowing you’re genuine & not a time waster or even an axe wielding psychopath!! Get to some socials or clubs in your area and get some face to face verifications. Like I said, I don’t mean to be harsh - and please feel free to disregard it, but due to the volume of you, men do have an uphill battle. Definitely search for other threads though, there’s some great advice out there. Mainly though, be yourself - don’t try & be someone you’re not, just make sure we can see who you are (other than 2 legs & 2 sentences!!) Good luck! "Greart advice  | |||
"HI i am a decent genuine guy and have messaged lots of ladies and couples with long detailed messages but never seem to get a reply and i am getting to the point that its a waste of time me even trying any more the thing is if they meet me would see what a nice gut i am so any advice would be welcome or is it time to call it a day " Before opening a message a lot of people have said they first look at your profile. If you have a profile that interests them they will then open your email. So first make sure your profile is intersesting. Make sure your message is tailored to the people you are emailing. Don't send a generic cut and paste message. Don't send one liners. Most of all remember there are thousands if not tens of thousands of single men on Fab. Women and couples have plent of choice when it comes to single men. You have to make yourself stand out from all the other singlemen. | |||
"Thank you so much i did not know about these events " Have a look at the UK forum, Meet Requests and Parties forum. You will find upcoming social threads for Newcastle, Durham and many others. All the best and Happy New Year. | |||
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"bear in mind that most women will look at your profile before your message.If there isn't really anything on it, it doesnt matter what your message is like, it may not even get read.." This! | |||
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"Talk about catch 22 cannot get verified with out a meet and cant get a meet with =out being verified i used to come on thinking i will meet some one but now know never going to happen as it seems a closed circle and new people stand no chance may sound bitter but i live in the real world love love to be proved wrong but i am not holding my Breath " May I also add this is a recreational, mutually enjoyable pastime, not a service. Once you get your head around the fact you're not entitled to sex with anyone just because you've logged onto the site the happier you'll be. If you thought by virtue of signing up to Fab you'd be balls deep in pussy without any effort...and let's be honest, zero effort was put into your profile. You are on a site competing with 6ft plus, chiseled jawed, hung like pit ponies, fit as fuck men. They struggle with no effort...you have to work with what you have, but make an effort you must. Not everyone cares about verification. The opinion of a total stranger to decide whether I meet another total stranger is ludicrous to me so don't get hung up on them just relax and engage with people. Ending on a positive: there really is someone for everyone. I'm old and fat but managed to meet my partner here. He's 6ft 1, fit as fuck and looks like Jason Statham...four years and still going strong. Good luck! | |||
"It may sound harsh, but there is nothing about your profile that would make me want to reply to your message. It consists of a pair of legs and 2 sentences. Women often look at a profile before they read a message & if no effort has gone into it, the message gets deleted. I’m not sure of the exact figures, but there are dozens of men to every one woman on Fab & single females & even some couples get 100+ messages a day. Lengthy messages aren’t going to get read, it’s easier to glance at a profile to see if it grabs your attention. If it doesn’t, you move on. Your profile is your stage to make yourself interesting, to stand out from the other thousands of men on here. If you put no effort into that then it comes across as lazy. If you can’t make an effort on your profile, you’re either expecting sex to fall into your lap because you’re here or maybe you would put as little effort into sex as you did building your profile. Your profile is instantly forgettable. Now I’m sure that you’re not lazy & not just expecting women to come running or would be the kind of guy to put no effort in during sex ... but that’s how you’re coming across & that’s why no one is replying to you. You need a few more photos - be creative, a shower or bath shot, cheeky butt shot, half open shirt, nice pair of boxers, torso, make one black & white maybe ... do a search for threads on profile advice (there are literally hundreds of threads on here that do that) and look at the profiles of some of the guys commenting, as they are usually the guys with the good profiles! Get some tips from them! Your write up needs to be more than 2 sentences. In the short time it’s taken to write this, I’ve actually forgotten what it said, so it’s not memorable, other than the fact it’s brief. Who are you, what made you join Fab, what do you like, what are you looking for, what does a girl get out of meeting you, what sort of person are you ... again, take some inspiration from other single male profiles. Lastly, get some veris. It’s not about whether you’ve got a 10” dick or can bang like a barn door in a gale; it’s about knowing you’re genuine & not a time waster or even an axe wielding psychopath!! Get to some socials or clubs in your area and get some face to face verifications. Like I said, I don’t mean to be harsh - and please feel free to disregard it, but due to the volume of you, men do have an uphill battle. Definitely search for other threads though, there’s some great advice out there. Mainly though, be yourself - don’t try & be someone you’re not, just make sure we can see who you are (other than 2 legs & 2 sentences!!) Good luck! "Damn...could have saved myself some typing!  | |||
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"I’ve met some lovely people on here so it is possible. " but are you genuine ? | |||
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"Talk about catch 22 cannot get verified with out a meet and cant get a meet with =out being verified i used to come on thinking i will meet some one but now know never going to happen as it seems a closed circle and new people stand no chance may sound bitter but i live in the real world love love to be proved wrong but i am not holding my Breath " You can get cam verified so you can verify someone else. | |||
"bear in mind that most women will look at your profile before your message.If there isn't really anything on it, it doesnt matter what your message is like, it may not even get read.." Exactly this. We always check the profile before reading the message. If we like the profile THEN we read the message. If the profile doesn't work for us we simply delete the message. It sounds harsh, but for couples and women this can be the only way of staying on top if things and not encouraging the occasional nutters who can't take rejection. So the secret is to make sure your profile is up to scratch. It's more important than the messages you send | |||
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"You have my sympathy as I'm in the same boat pal. Us genuine guys don't get a chance of a look in. Anyway whilst we play our violins the search must continue and eventually we will find a genuine profile that is worthy of our time and effort. But think on it's not about getting your leg over but the kick of satisfaction of the kink that goes with swinging!" Don’t quite know what boat you’re in but with 10 vefications in your belt it’s clearly not the same one the Op is in! | |||
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"From your status I don't think you get yhe concept of a social. Big organised social are events you go to meet people. You have to have a lady to go with. Deep breath and go alone." You don’t need a plus one to attend an organised social. | |||
"Genuine guys don't. But the arseholes seem to have much more success which subsequently ruin it for the genuine ones! "You have no pictures on your profile & wonder why you have no success, if the A’holes really do get all the luck on here, you know the expression if you can’t beat em.... | |||
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"I’ve met some lovely people on here so it is possible. but are you genuine ? "If you speak to those that have verified me they will tell you I am. | |||
"It may sound harsh, but there is nothing about your profile that would make me want to reply to your message. It consists of a pair of legs and 2 sentences. Women often look at a profile before they read a message & if no effort has gone into it, the message gets deleted. I’m not sure of the exact figures, but there are dozens of men to every one woman on Fab & single females & even some couples get 100+ messages a day. Lengthy messages aren’t going to get read, it’s easier to glance at a profile to see if it grabs your attention. If it doesn’t, you move on. Your profile is your stage to make yourself interesting, to stand out from the other thousands of men on here. If you put no effort into that then it comes across as lazy. If you can’t make an effort on your profile, you’re either expecting sex to fall into your lap because you’re here or maybe you would put as little effort into sex as you did building your profile. Your profile is instantly forgettable. Now I’m sure that you’re not lazy & not just expecting women to come running or would be the kind of guy to put no effort in during sex ... but that’s how you’re coming across & that’s why no one is replying to you. You need a few more photos - be creative, a shower or bath shot, cheeky butt shot, half open shirt, nice pair of boxers, torso, make one black & white maybe ... do a search for threads on profile advice (there are literally hundreds of threads on here that do that) and look at the profiles of some of the guys commenting, as they are usually the guys with the good profiles! Get some tips from them! Your write up needs to be more than 2 sentences. In the short time it’s taken to write this, I’ve actually forgotten what it said, so it’s not memorable, other than the fact it’s brief. Who are you, what made you join Fab, what do you like, what are you looking for, what does a girl get out of meeting you, what sort of person are you ... again, take some inspiration from other single male profiles. Lastly, get some veris. It’s not about whether you’ve got a 10” dick or can bang like a barn door in a gale; it’s about knowing you’re genuine & not a time waster or even an axe wielding psychopath!! Get to some socials or clubs in your area and get some face to face verifications. Like I said, I don’t mean to be harsh - and please feel free to disregard it, but due to the volume of you, men do have an uphill battle. Definitely search for other threads though, there’s some great advice out there. Mainly though, be yourself - don’t try & be someone you’re not, just make sure we can see who you are (other than 2 legs & 2 sentences!!) Good luck! "That's you told Good luck mate | |||
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"Decent or not. Genuine or not. What ever or what ever not. Every guy stands a chance on here. It’s honestly not that hard. Scrap the cock pics I say (If you/others have any) you don’t walk up to a girl in a bar with your cock out do you. " A million percent this!!! | |||
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"Do you think your public pic sells you well ? Loud boxers (or shorts) and a pair of white skinny legs both framed by what appear to be grandmas curtains You could write an epic profile and I still think 90% of women would struggle to see past that pic. " Pretty much sums up what I was going to say, you could be Jason Momoa and with that pic I would give you a second glance. Don't take this the wrong way but those shorts, that couch and those curtains..... Good luck. | |||
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"if i was looking for a service provider i would join Adultwork i joined hoping to meet new people and make friends." and if you actually bothered to take any of the advice you've been given , that might actually happen! | |||
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"Genuine guys don't. But the arseholes seem to have much more success which subsequently ruin it for the genuine ones! "How does a successful guy ruin it for anyone....? | |||
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"No i am not after that all i joined here for more than that " You are a proper upbeat bundle of joy arnt you lol | |||
"if i was looking for a service provider i would join Adultwork i joined hoping to meet new people and make friends." see... that to me screams all the advice you were given went straight in one ear and out the other... okay... think of it like this... look at the profiles of the people who have taken time out to try and help you... look at yours.... "would you answer your own profile... hand on heart? really????" there are clubs across the north east... get to them! there are various social events across the north east... put your name down for them and get to them!!!! sometimes you have to help yourself "help yourself"! are you doing that at the moment? | |||
"HI i am a decent genuine guy and have messaged lots of ladies and couples with long detailed messages but never seem to get a reply and i am getting to the point that its a waste of time me even trying any more the thing is if they meet me would see what a nice gut i am so any advice would be welcome or is it time to call it a day " When you say detailed messages, most of the long ones I get (about once a year) are like the script for a porn scene. At the best of times I hate to be told what to wear, what to do, etc. I like spontaneity until I get to know soneone, if I know what is going to happen before you arrive I can do it quite well without you! Nice legs by the way, I have several face pics, what are you hiding from? Maybe the wife/girlfriend? | |||
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"Hi Single gys can do very well on here. There are a lot of pieces of advice om here. It can take a while to build up "Momentum" too. Things are stacked against your favour but with that comes opportunities. Things against you You are male 1)They are 10 a penny 2)A lot of males have no idea 3)A lot of males have no idea about women 4)A lot of profile are not very good So what does this mean for you 1)If everyone is same old same old, be a bit different. with cool pics, a good write up. 2) Get an idea, we know women dont like pushy men but a lot are just so pushy. Learn how to have decent chat. Intelligent convo does wonders especially with a playful personality and banter (hate that word) 3) Network and socialise, go to parties, let people meet you. A 2d picture with a block of writing is not "you". You will go from a random random single guy to "we know him he is fun, come and join" type of guy. 4) Keep in contact with women you meet and stay friends. Go to clubs with them and parties. Hope that helps a little " . Lots of good advice there take it I know my profile and pictures are fairly basic but I have joined a club and I aim to attend some of the London social in 2018. | |||
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"I did not demand a meet i simply sent you a nice polite message and said if i am not your sort please block x" That in itself comes over as demanding, in my opinion. | |||
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"Not at all the way i look at it if we are not suited its for the best " To be fair it was quite a few messages and spamming nonsense. Thank you for the inbox. Apology accepted and appreciated. | |||
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"I’d like to add that part of being a success on here is not demanding meets or replies to your messages. Nor spamming women demanding they block you. Just saying. " Ah so I wasn't the only one! Approximately 15 messages in 24 hours | |||
"I’d like to add that part of being a success on here is not demanding meets or replies to your messages. Nor spamming women demanding they block you. Just saying. Ah so I wasn't the only one! Approximately 15 messages in 24 hours" Snap. Scattergun approach I think!! | |||
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"Not at all i only message the lady who appeal to me and always take me time and put my heart into any message i send " Send one message, if they don't reply to that they're not interested and half a dozen more messages won't change that | |||
"HI i am a decent genuine guy and have messaged lots of ladies and couples with long detailed messages but never seem to get a reply and i am getting to the point that its a waste of time me even trying any more the thing is if they meet me would see what a nice gut i am so any advice would be welcome or is it time to call it a day " If they don't fancy you, then no. Sorry but for so many people it's all about attraction. I wouldn't sleep with someone I didn't fancy. It's not about being shallow either. | |||
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"Genuine guys don't. But the arseholes seem to have much more success which subsequently ruin it for the genuine ones! "is that because the assholes are genuine assholes or really assholes | |||
"Genuine guys don't. But the arseholes seem to have much more success which subsequently ruin it for the genuine ones! is that because the assholes are genuine assholes or really assholes "All assholes are genuine assholes | |||
"Genuine guys don't. But the arseholes seem to have much more success which subsequently ruin it for the genuine ones! is that because the assholes are genuine assholes or really assholes
All assholes are genuine assholes "omg glad we cleared that up | |||
"Genuine guys don't. But the arseholes seem to have much more success which subsequently ruin it for the genuine ones! is that because the assholes are genuine assholes or really assholes
All assholes are genuine assholes omg glad we cleared that up " | |||
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"How do we know that assholes have more phun...has anyone here met one...or verified one...if so, were they worthy of the label that is the asshole..? "I've met a few assholes in my time | |||
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"So many men here whinging lol and I noticed that most of the whingers have cannot accommodate, we all know how us females read that "Yep married or can't afford hotel . | |||
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"So many men here whinging lol and I noticed that most of the whingers have cannot accommodate, we all know how us females read that
Yep married or can't afford hotel . "I cant accom am single but can afford a hotel ,your theory smashed to smithers | |||
"So many men here whinging lol and I noticed that most of the whingers have cannot accommodate, we all know how us females read that
Yep married or can't afford hotel . I cant accom am single but can afford a hotel ,your theory smashed to smithers "You live with mam and dad then . | |||
"So many men here whinging lol and I noticed that most of the whingers have cannot accommodate, we all know how us females read that
Yep married or can't afford hotel . I cant accom am single but can afford a hotel ,your theory smashed to smithers
You live with mam and dad then . "nope well sometimes daddy | |||
"So many men here whinging lol and I noticed that most of the whingers have cannot accommodate, we all know how us females read that
Yep married or can't afford hotel . I cant accom am single but can afford a hotel ,your theory smashed to smithers
You live with mam and dad then . nope well sometimes daddy "Ah cute | |||
"So many men here whinging lol and I noticed that most of the whingers have cannot accommodate, we all know how us females read that
Yep married or can't afford hotel . I cant accom am single but can afford a hotel ,your theory smashed to smithers
You live with mam and dad then . nope well sometimes daddy
Ah cute "yea right but I am | |||
"How do we know that assholes have more phun...has anyone here met one...or verified one...if so, were they worthy of the label that is the asshole..?
I've met a few assholes in my time "Oh so have I! And some just don't give up, even though they have been found to be an arse! | |||
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"With a rebel yell she cried more more more .......more more more "In the midnight hour, more more more! | |||
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"With a rebel yell she cried more more more .......more more more
In the midnight hour, more more more!"in the midnight hour a new year awaits x | |||
"Just chat shit with people rather than expecting anything, the genuine ones will let you know if they fancy a drink or more." | |||
"With a rebel yell she cried more more more .......more more more
In the midnight hour, more more more!in the midnight hour a new year awaits x "Happy new year to you x | |||
"With a rebel yell she cried more more more .......more more more
In the midnight hour, more more more!in the midnight hour a new year awaits x
Happy new year to you x"and you x | |||
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"No chance on here mate. The women only go for lairs and cheaters. (it's a bad boy thing)"  | |||
"No chance on here mate. The women only go for lairs and cheaters. (it's a bad boy thing)" pardon my french, but that's bollocks. | |||
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"No chance on here mate. The women only go for lairs and cheaters. (it's a bad boy thing)" How wrong of us to presume you had no verifications, presumably with 31 verifications you are putting yourself in this category LOL. | |||
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"Never trust someone who says they are genuine,if they were they wouldn't need to say it! " | |||
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"Never trust someone who says they are genuine,if they were they wouldn't need to say it! "I say I am genuine - and my 97 veris kinda day that also | |||
"What actually is a genuine guy ? " Probably a one that says who he is on his profile; his age, accommodation status etc... Someone that doesn't lie, would attend a meet and not be a time waster. Also a guy that doesn't hide behind a couples account. That type of genuine guy. Not many on here tbh. | |||
"Never trust someone who says they are genuine,if they were they wouldn't need to say it! "I'm not genuine. Wanna fuck? | |||
"What actually is a genuine guy ? Probably a one that says who he is on his profile; his age, accommodation status etc... Someone that doesn't lie, would attend a meet and not be a time waster. Also a guy that doesn't hide behind a couples account. That type of genuine guy. Not many on here tbh." Well every guy will be a genuine guy till find out he ain't | |||
"Here here mate someone that said what needs to be said. There are way to many people on here that forget the one word. FUN yes its not all about brownie points. I have been here for 4 years and had one meeting and one drinks meeting in all that time. People get message and think sod this and block delete. So us nice guys never get a chance. Because we got deleted before it even started " Your profile has no effort in it. All I can tell is that you’re tall, you have an ear & a dick. Other than that, I don’t know anything about you - so no, you’re not likely to get much of a response for exactly the same reasons as the OP!! | |||
"What actually is a genuine guy ? " I suppose that is the 64,000 dollar question. Here goes. Single guy who says exactly what he is and wants = genuine single guy. Married guy who says exactly what he is and wants = genuine married and cheating guy. Married guy who sets up a couples profile in the forlorn hope that he (or someone else on his behalf) might convince his Mrs to join in = second class dickhead, but a genuine one. Single guy who sets up a couples profile so he can lurk around the chat rooms using every excuse in the world as to why his Mrs isn't there just to get some cam fun = fist class dickhead, but a genuine one. Now can I have my 64,000 dollars please. | |||
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"Yes however you have to be patient & never hassle or pester anybody to meet . Ou have to prove you are genuine because everybody says they are lol. Best of luck " *you | |||
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"What actually is a genuine guy ? I suppose that is the 64,000 dollar question. Here goes. Single guy who says exactly what he is and wants = genuine single guy. Married guy who says exactly what he is and wants = genuine married and cheating guy. Married guy who sets up a couples profile in the forlorn hope that he (or someone else on his behalf) might convince his Mrs to join in = second class dickhead, but a genuine one. Single guy who sets up a couples profile so he can lurk around the chat rooms using every excuse in the world as to why his Mrs isn't there just to get some cam fun = fist class dickhead, but a genuine one. Now can I have my 64,000 dollars please. " | |||
"Never trust someone who says they are genuine,if they were they wouldn't need to say it!
I say I am genuine - and my 97 veris kinda day that also "97 fake veris eh  | |||
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"I have redone my profile text and next getting some better pics please can you give me a honest opinion as i have valued all your help and advice so far cheers " What's your age????? | |||
"HI i am a decent genuine guy and have messaged lots of ladies and couples with long detailed messages but never seem to get a reply and i am getting to the point that its a waste of time me even trying any more the thing is if they meet me would see what a nice gut i am so any advice would be welcome or is it time to call it a day " Know the feeling mate. | |||
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"I have redone my profile text and next getting some better pics please can you give me a honest opinion as i have valued all your help and advice so far cheers " Try breaking it up into paragraphs and amend your age. | |||
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"Genuine guys don't. But the arseholes seem to have much more success which subsequently ruin it for the genuine ones! "Nobody ruins it for anyone else, you make your own luck on here. | |||
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"What actually is a genuine guy ? Probably a one that says who he is on his profile; his age, accommodation status etc... Someone that doesn't lie, would attend a meet and not be a time waster. Also a guy that doesn't hide behind a couples account. That type of genuine guy. Not many on here tbh." Nope, not a one I'm betting! | |||
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"It may sound harsh, but there is nothing about your profile that would make me want to reply to your message. It consists of a pair of legs and 2 sentences. Women often look at a profile before they read a message & if no effort has gone into it, the message gets deleted. I’m not sure of the exact figures, but there are dozens of men to every one woman on Fab & single females & even some couples get 100+ messages a day. Lengthy messages aren’t going to get read, it’s easier to glance at a profile to see if it grabs your attention. If it doesn’t, you move on. Your profile is your stage to make yourself interesting, to stand out from the other thousands of men on here. If you put no effort into that then it comes across as lazy. If you can’t make an effort on your profile, you’re either expecting sex to fall into your lap because you’re here or maybe you would put as little effort into sex as you did building your profile. Your profile is instantly forgettable. Now I’m sure that you’re not lazy & not just expecting women to come running or would be the kind of guy to put no effort in during sex ... but that’s how you’re coming across & that’s why no one is replying to you. You need a few more photos - be creative, a shower or bath shot, cheeky butt shot, half open shirt, nice pair of boxers, torso, make one black & white maybe ... do a search for threads on profile advice (there are literally hundreds of threads on here that do that) and look at the profiles of some of the guys commenting, as they are usually the guys with the good profiles! Get some tips from them! Your write up needs to be more than 2 sentences. In the short time it’s taken to write this, I’ve actually forgotten what it said, so it’s not memorable, other than the fact it’s brief. Who are you, what made you join Fab, what do you like, what are you looking for, what does a girl get out of meeting you, what sort of person are you ... again, take some inspiration from other single male profiles. Lastly, get some veris. It’s not about whether you’ve got a 10” dick or can bang like a barn door in a gale; it’s about knowing you’re genuine & not a time waster or even an axe wielding psychopath!! Get to some socials or clubs in your area and get some face to face verifications. Like I said, I don’t mean to be harsh - and please feel free to disregard it, but due to the volume of you, men do have an uphill battle. Definitely search for other threads though, there’s some great advice out there. Mainly though, be yourself - don’t try & be someone you’re not, just make sure we can see who you are (other than 2 legs & 2 sentences!!) Good luck! "MORTICA 76 Best answer out there | |||
"You have my sympathy as I'm in the same boat pal. Us genuine guys don't get a chance of a look in. Anyway whilst we play our violins the search must continue and eventually we will find a genuine profile that is worthy of our time and effort. But think on it's not about getting your leg over but the kick of satisfaction of the kink that goes with swinging!" So it's only non genuine guys that mostly get meets?  . Maybe i'm not as genuine as i thought then. | |||
"Patience is a virtue, don't give up. Good luck OP" 5 months without any sex takes a hell of lot more than patience and virtue lol. Good luck though. Try search option and look for what you actually want | |||
"Like I said, I don’t mean to be harsh - and please feel free to disregard it, but due to the volume of you, men do have an uphill battle. Definitely search for other threads though, there’s some great advice out there. Mainly though, be yourself - don’t try & be someone you’re not, just make sure we can see who you are (other than 2 legs & 2 sentences!!) Good luck!
MORTICA 76 Best answer out there"Thanks | |||
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