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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all any advise on how to get a verification not had a meet yet , tonesbthe profile down with no cock pic etc any help welcome regards Dan "
If you use the search tool in the forum you'll find loads of answers that have already been posted. In fact, I think there was one today 
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"Hi all any advise on how to get a verification not had a meet yet , tonesbthe profile down with no cock pic etc any help welcome regards Dan "
To get started it's probably best to go to a swingers club or go to one of the forum social events. All the best for the new year.  |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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A couple of suggestions I would make:-
1) don't focus on getting a verification - verifications aren't a golden ticket to the pussy. Concentrate on getting a meet, instead.
2) congrats on not having dick pics 'in yer face', but maybe think again about the ones you've got. Selfies taken in a mirror suggest you haven't any friends, or that you're ashamed of being a swinger (not attractive traits). You must have some pics taken by others, e,g, on the beach?
3) tone down your profile where it talks about who you DON'T want to meet. I'm not suggesting that you lower your standards, merely that you can be much more positive in your profile, and be 'silently selective', if an opportunity arises. Don't refer to people as 'weird', just because their sexuality or gender identity is different from yours. And if BBW isn't your thing, just don't mention it (and don't approach women whose profile suggests they are.)
As others have said, socials and clubs are good places to make friends, and also the chatrooms on here. Just remember that a lot of people see the swinging community as a very broad 'family' - you can make lots of new brothers and sisters, cousins and contacts who you may have no sexual interest in, but they know people, who know people, who know people. Make the effort to make friends, and this will stand you in good stead. Good luck!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your profile doesn't really say what your looking for specifically....and horrible comments like 'cross dressers or weird people like that' really isn't going to help you either! |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Your profile says I want I want I want. Perhaps say why a lady would choose to be with you. Being a judgemental ***** and not being able to accomodate won't help!
You say you have been to a club before. I suggest you go to a club. Chat to people in a polite friendly people and ask if you can swap FAB usernames . You could get a verification that way. |
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"Hi all any advise on how to get a verification not had a meet yet , tonesbthe profile down with no cock pic etc any help welcome regards Dan "
Delete the current profile , over a year with no meet veri screams timewaster , and doesn’t look good at all .
Re do it with a better , warmer text , and start afresh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also on the meet you have posted where do you want the couple to take you?
You list separate and same room swapping, your a single man what are you going to swap? |
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