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over a year ago
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"What’s the best place to take a non swinger to introduce the lifestyle, without it being too obvious what it was?"
Does the non swinger want to be introduced to it though?
If so I would suggest a club, it's not much different to a straight place. Just more liberated, and facilitate peoples needs/wants, you choose if and how you participate. It's also safe and secure |
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Yeah I would start by putting a program on about swinging or bring it up in conversation. Gauge there reaction and go from there. I wouldn't just take someone. I've been with some really kinky people that would hate the idea of being in a swing club especially if they didn't know they were going to one |
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"What’s the best place to take a non swinger to introduce the lifestyle, without it being too obvious what it was?
Does the non swinger want to be introduced to it though?
If so I would suggest a club, it's not much different to a straight place. Just more liberated, and facilitate peoples needs/wants, you choose if and how you participate. It's also safe and secure"
Yeah this is the question I should've asked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn’t suggest dogging. Think you need to discuss it with them and then suggest a club. "
Yeah ease them into the scene with a nice night of dogging. Clubs are definitely the one because you can just stay in the non-sex areas if uncomfortable. Hard to do that on a car park in the middle of nowehere |
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Police station?
It'll save a lot of time when the non-consent issue arises.
Duping someone into it is a very bad idea.
Discussion, shared fantasies, porn/tv shows - all worth getting into before jumping in. Playboy TV show Swing is a good intro. It shows we're not all weirdos and it's a small part of a wider relationship. The format is easy viewing and opens some common points to talk over. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Anywhere outdoors, although duno why but I’d loved to be fucked in church, pretty hard when I don’t even go church "
I have not fucked but have had a cheeky play with a lass once. Just feels so naughty!  |
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"Best place to get fucked?
Up the arse and down the throat simultaneously
Cunt, then arse, then mouth - i ch*ke a bit too easily so other two take preference "  |
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