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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few times I’ve received a message then when I’ve gone to reply it states the user has blocked me.
I don’t get the point in that at all  "
you maybe said something inadvertantly they didn't like  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you look, I didn’t get a chance to say anything
"Quite a few times I’ve received a message then when I’ve gone to reply it states the user has blocked me.
I don’t get the point in that at all you maybe said something inadvertantly they didn't like "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you look, I didn’t get a chance to say anything
Quite a few times I’ve received a message then when I’ve gone to reply it states the user has blocked me.
I don’t get the point in that at all you maybe said something inadvertantly they didn't like "
see just like that ,I mean that didn't come across in your initial point but that's enough to get blocked if read with a negative bias |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think it did as it said ‘when I’ve gone to reply’ lol
"If you look, I didn’t get a chance to say anything
Quite a few times I’ve received a message then when I’ve gone to reply it states the user has blocked me.
I don’t get the point in that at all you maybe said something inadvertantly they didn't like see just like that ,I mean that didn't come across in your initial point but that's enough to get blocked if read with a negative bias "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seems to be a lot of game players on here
"Hi..we get a wink and when we return it we get blocked or ignored at least you got as far as a message x storm x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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They messaged me which is why I went to reply
"Did the reply actually require an answer? If it was a no thankyou then that will be why they've blocked, to avoid you replying to their reply  "
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"Yes
Do you mean someone sent you an initial message out of the blue, and then when you tried to answer you found you were blocked? "
Well mate, all i can say is this... "There's a lot of cunts on here". Don't let them drag you down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Time wasters and game players
"Yes
Do you mean someone sent you an initial message out of the blue, and then when you tried to answer you found you were blocked?
Well mate, all i can say is this... "There's a lot of cunts on here". Don't let them drag you down. "
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"Seems to be a lot of game players on here
Hi..we get a wink and when we return it we get blocked or ignored at least you got as far as a message x storm x"
Is there?? Does it happen to you alot for you to think there is alot of game players here? |
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"Time wasters and game players
Yes
Do you mean someone sent you an initial message out of the blue, and then when you tried to answer you found you were blocked?
Well mate, all i can say is this... "There's a lot of cunts on here". Don't let them drag you down. "
How exactly have they wasted your time by blocking you after 1 message?
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A timewaster is someone who arranges a time and place to meet and doesn't turn up or cancel. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As stated in the post ‘a few times’
"Seems to be a lot of game players on here
Hi..we get a wink and when we return it we get blocked or ignored at least you got as far as a message x storm x
Is there?? Does it happen to you alot for you to think there is alot of game players here?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Did I say they wasted my time or was I replying to someone else’s comment lol. Keep up
"Time wasters and game players
Yes
Do you mean someone sent you an initial message out of the blue, and then when you tried to answer you found you were blocked?
Well mate, all i can say is this... "There's a lot of cunts on here". Don't let them drag you down.
How exactly have they wasted your time by blocking you after 1 message?
FYI
A timewaster is someone who arranges a time and place to meet and doesn't turn up or cancel."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did I say they wasted my time or was I replying to someone else’s comment lol. Keep up
Time wasters and game players
Yes
Do you mean someone sent you an initial message out of the blue, and then when you tried to answer you found you were blocked?
Well mate, all i can say is this... "There's a lot of cunts on here". Don't let them drag you down.
How exactly have they wasted your time by blocking you after 1 message?
FYI
A timewaster is someone who arranges a time and place to meet and doesn't turn up or cancel."
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"As stated in the post ‘a few times’
Seems to be a lot of game players on here
Hi..we get a wink and when we return it we get blocked or ignored at least you got as far as a message x storm x
Is there?? Does it happen to you alot for you to think there is alot of game players here?"
Well aren't you unlucky. |
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"Did I say they wasted my time or was I replying to someone else’s comment lol. Keep up
Time wasters and game players
Yes
Do you mean someone sent you an initial message out of the blue, and then when you tried to answer you found you were blocked?
Well mate, all i can say is this... "There's a lot of cunts on here". Don't let them drag you down.
How exactly have they wasted your time by blocking you after 1 message?
FYI
A timewaster is someone who arranges a time and place to meet and doesn't turn up or cancel."
Well I kinda think they were a bit of a timewaster,they sent you a message which you read and they blocked you before you could reply. So they wasted your time,which makes them a timewaster. There's not just one meaning to a timewaster although it seems the case on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it's childish bored men game playing?
I had someone message me but immediately went unlos!
Who know? Don't let it get to you. As already said block in return |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did I say they wasted my time or was I replying to someone else’s comment lol. Keep up
Time wasters and game players
Yes
Do you mean someone sent you an initial message out of the blue, and then when you tried to answer you found you were blocked?
Well mate, all i can say is this... "There's a lot of cunts on here". Don't let them drag you down.
How exactly have they wasted your time by blocking you after 1 message?
FYI
A timewaster is someone who arranges a time and place to meet and doesn't turn up or cancel.
Well I kinda think they were a bit of a timewaster,they sent you a message which you read and they blocked you before you could reply. So they wasted your time,which makes them a timewaster. There's not just one meaning to a timewaster although it seems the case on here."
Yes, there are various timewasters. Some waste a minute or two of your time, others an hour or so.
If you received a message, you read it and go to reply but blocked, you just wasted that time. If you message back and forwards and then they go quiet, your time was wasted. When you get ready, travel, wait and the couple/single doesn't show, that's the biggest timewaster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had men message to say you’re fake or they are abusive and when I’ve gone to reply (which I mostly ignore) they have blocked me and that’s their prerogative. So I think it depends what he’s being sent. If they’re nice messages then I too would be confused, but hey ho, but if they’re negative comments and he just wants to retaliate then I think he already knows the answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's happened to me a couple of times before.
People assume cause you're online at the moment they messaged you then you should reply within the next 30 seconds.
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"Maybe but it wasn’t even 10 hours ago
Instant replies please!!! I'd be sitting staring at my laptop for 10 hours waiting on your reply "
I'm not really btw... Just in case you didn't get the sarcasm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In general, we find social skills are deteriorating. Communication has been replaced by silence and blocking.
Too many people with drama in their lives, changing their minds every minute. There are many odd bods out there, that's life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've spoken to a couple before, some months ago. Just recently we got an out of the blue question off them, 3 days ago. We wrote a bit and then asked them a question. They've been on umpteen times since and no reply.
Today, we deleted the messages and blocked them. Can't be done with that type of character. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In general, we find social skills are deteriorating. Communication has been replaced by silence and blocking.
Too many people with drama in their lives, changing their minds every minute. There are many odd bods out there, that's life."
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