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"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe " Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others? | |||
"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others?" Was wondering this also | |||
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"So do you all use protection when performing oral?" No as it carries much much less risk although if I'm receiving I do bag up Giving oral to a female no | |||
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"So do you all use protection when performing oral? No as it carries much much less risk although if I'm receiving I do bag up Giving oral to a female no" Yup...there's a super gonorrhoea bacteria now. Nurtured by bacteria from the back of the throat. Bagging up is no guarantee of protection an infection. It just reduces the risk. Condoms are not the be all and end all 100% guarantee of a dose free sex life. | |||
"So do you all use protection when performing oral?" u have to avoid it in order to protect urself from oral transmitted disease like (hsv)herpes simplex virus very contagious can transmit easly by kissing some one | |||
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"There is of course a risk as there is for everything in life but we must be sensible about the risk and not panic Getting three balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 Dying on the road over 50 years of driving, 1 in 85 Transmission of measles, 1 in 100 Dying of any cause in the next year, 1 in 100 Annual risk of death from smoking 10 cigarettes per day , 1 in 200 Getting four balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 206 Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a can, bottle, or jar , 1 in 1,00 Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000 Probability that you get something bad from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sexual intercourse,1 in 3,000 Wearing protection only improves the odds, 1 in 6,000 Death by an accident at home, 1 in 7100 Getting five balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 098 Death by an accident at work, 1 in 40 000 Death playing soccer, 1 in 50 000 Death by murder, 1 in 100 000 Being hit in your home by a crashing aeroplane, 1 in 250 000 Death by rail accident, 1 in 500 000 Drowning in the bath in the next year, 1 in 685 000 Getting six balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 2 796 763 Being struck by lightning, 1 in 10 000 000 Death from new variant Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease, 1 in 10 000 000 Death from a nuclear power accident, 1 in 10 000 000 Risk of Infection (%) from One Unprotected Encounter Risk percentage for men followed by percentage for women Genital Herpes, 30%, 30% Gonorrhea, 25%, 50% Chlamydia, 20%, 40% Syphilis, 20%, 30% Chancroid, 15%, 30% Genital Warts, 10%, 10% Hepatitis B, 5%, 10% HIV, 0.9%, 1% " Chances for getting laid on fabs as a single bloke; 4.3 quintillion to 1 | |||
"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't " If was someone I was meeting, they could beg & plead all they wanted, never going to happen. Only something I'd consider with someone I'd already established a relationship with, knew very well, totaly trusted & was positive (both of us) checked & clean. | |||
"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't " Sounds like he doth protest too much. Avoid with a wide berth for a meet let alone bareback! | |||
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"get a certificate of sexual health! " A certificate means jack shit. The genital wart virus can stay dormant in the skin for years before symptoms, ie warts.. and you can't test for them at an sti clinic. Visual examination only. | |||
"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others? Was wondering this also "Like asking a dog why he licks his balls , | |||
"Incidentally recent surveys found that shaving the pubic region increases the risk of catching a STI by up to 400% Something to seriously think about " Ahh now there’s a statistic I can get on board with. I’m so over the totally bald look! | |||
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"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others? Was wondering this also
Like asking a dog why he licks his balls ,"Why does a dog lick his balls? Because he can! | |||
"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others? Was wondering this also
Like asking a dog why he licks his balls ,
The safest sex is to pleasure yourself
Why does a dog lick his balls?
Because he can!" | |||
needless to say we didn't meet. I'm no medical expert so don't know if the first bit was true or not but we wouldn't meet people who start talking bareback as we assume they'll just raise the subject again when you meet.
Ginger | |||
"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms needless to say we didn't meet. I'm no medical expert so don't know if the first bit was true or not but we wouldn't meet people who start talking bareback as we assume they'll just raise the subject again when you meet.
Ginger "Isn't that how a vasectomy works? | |||
"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms needless to say we didn't meet. I'm no medical expert so don't know if the first bit was true or not but we wouldn't meet people who start talking bareback as we assume they'll just raise the subject again when you meet.
Ginger
Isn't that how a vasectomy works? "Well if it is they've cocked Fred's up. | |||
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"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't " Yeah I'd let 'em. | |||
"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms needless to say we didn't meet. I'm no medical expert so don't know if the first bit was true or not but we wouldn't meet people who start talking bareback as we assume they'll just raise the subject again when you meet.
Ginger
Isn't that how a vasectomy works? " | |||
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"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others? Was wondering this also
Like asking a dog why he licks his balls ,"Not really. Dogs lick their balls because they can, and don't care who's watching. Starting a thread about your choices, on a controversial topic? That's attention seeking. | |||
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"There is of course a risk as there is for everything in life but we must be sensible about the risk and not panic Getting three balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 Dying on the road over 50 years of driving, 1 in 85 Transmission of measles, 1 in 100 Dying of any cause in the next year, 1 in 100 Annual risk of death from smoking 10 cigarettes per day , 1 in 200 Getting four balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 206 Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a can, bottle, or jar , 1 in 1,00 Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000 Probability that you get something bad from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sexual intercourse,1 in 3,000 Wearing protection only improves the odds, 1 in 6,000 Death by an accident at home, 1 in 7100 Getting five balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 098 Death by an accident at work, 1 in 40 000 Death playing soccer, 1 in 50 000 Death by murder, 1 in 100 000 Being hit in your home by a crashing aeroplane, 1 in 250 000 Death by rail accident, 1 in 500 000 Drowning in the bath in the next year, 1 in 685 000 Getting six balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 2 796 763 Being struck by lightning, 1 in 10 000 000 Death from new variant Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease, 1 in 10 000 000 Death from a nuclear power accident, 1 in 10 000 000 Risk of Infection (%) from One Unprotected Encounter Risk percentage for men followed by percentage for women Genital Herpes, 30%, 30% Gonorrhea, 25%, 50% Chlamydia, 20%, 40% Syphilis, 20%, 30% Chancroid, 15%, 30% Genital Warts, 10%, 10% Hepatitis B, 5%, 10% HIV, 0.9%, 1% " What if the person you play with doesn't have any of those? What are the percentages then? | |||
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"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't " Ermmm no | |||
"I just wanted to know if people put there health at risk just for sex . " Really? | |||
Each to their own and live how you feel | |||
"So here is one. What if the guy has a medical condition where he orgasms but does not produce semen due to prostate being removed." And he didn't care what he catches? | |||
"There is of course a risk as there is for everything in life but we must be sensible about the risk and not panic Getting three balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 Dying on the road over 50 years of driving, 1 in 85 Transmission of measles, 1 in 100 Dying of any cause in the next year, 1 in 100 Annual risk of death from smoking 10 cigarettes per day , 1 in 200 Getting four balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 206 Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a can, bottle, or jar , 1 in 1,00 Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000 Probability that you get something bad from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sexual intercourse,1 in 3,000 Wearing protection only improves the odds, 1 in 6,000 Death by an accident at home, 1 in 7100 Getting five balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 098 Death by an accident at work, 1 in 40 000 Death playing soccer, 1 in 50 000 Death by murder, 1 in 100 000 Being hit in your home by a crashing aeroplane, 1 in 250 000 Death by rail accident, 1 in 500 000 Drowning in the bath in the next year, 1 in 685 000 Getting six balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 2 796 763 Being struck by lightning, 1 in 10 000 000 Death from new variant Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease, 1 in 10 000 000 Death from a nuclear power accident, 1 in 10 000 000 Risk of Infection (%) from One Unprotected Encounter Risk percentage for men followed by percentage for women Genital Herpes, 30%, 30% Gonorrhea, 25%, 50% Chlamydia, 20%, 40% Syphilis, 20%, 30% Chancroid, 15%, 30% Genital Warts, 10%, 10% Hepatitis B, 5%, 10% HIV, 0.9%, 1% " Death from cancer... 1 in 5. If you smoke why bother to wear a condom? | |||
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"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't " No... Any guy who won't respect my choices and worse pleaded with me to change them would be out the door in seconds. . Probably propelled by Cal 
Nita | |||
"T Death from cancer... 1 in 5. If you smoke why bother to wear a condom?" I take it that you are unaware that smokers don't necessarily get cancer and that cancer occurs for a multitude of reasons? Nita | |||
"So here is one. What if the guy has a medical condition where he orgasms but does not produce semen due to prostate being removed." Are you under the impression that it’s only the ejaculate that carries sti’s? | |||
"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't " Of course not, and frankly if anyone was pushy on the subject we would refuse to meet them. Nothing I like less than someone who doesn't understand no. | |||
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"Anyone asking for bearback should be band from the site This is only my opinion" Why? | |||
"Anyone asking for bearback should be band from the site This is only my opinion" Bearback? Is that because they're bipolar? (this is a bear joke, by the way, don't take offence...) | |||
"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't " No way on God's Earth! Someone with half a dozen STI's isn't going to say "I have herpes, ghonorea, HIV... Would you mind if I had unprotected sex with you?" are they? | |||
"Anyone asking for bearback should be band from the site This is only my opinion" I’m confused , are you forming a band dressed as bears ? | |||
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"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms "There is an unusual medical condition called retrograde ejaculation, but some STI risk is carried simply in the skin and tissues, so condoms would always be desirable. | |||
"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms
There is an unusual medical condition called retrograde ejaculation, but some STI risk is carried simply in the skin and tissues, so condoms would always be desirable."He claimed it was due to cancer when he was younger but he still fathered two children afterwards. He could have been telling the truth but it set alarm bells ringing. Ginger | |||
"There is of course a risk as there is for everything in life but we must be sensible about the risk and not panic Getting three balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 Dying on the road over 50 years of driving, 1 in 85 Transmission of measles, 1 in 100 Dying of any cause in the next year, 1 in 100 Annual risk of death from smoking 10 cigarettes per day , 1 in 200 Getting four balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 206 Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a can, bottle, or jar , 1 in 1,00 Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000 Probability that you get something bad from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sexual intercourse,1 in 3,000 Wearing protection only improves the odds, 1 in 6,000 Death by an accident at home, 1 in 7100 Getting five balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 098 Death by an accident at work, 1 in 40 000 Death playing soccer, 1 in 50 000 Death by murder, 1 in 100 000 Being hit in your home by a crashing aeroplane, 1 in 250 000 Death by rail accident, 1 in 500 000 Drowning in the bath in the next year, 1 in 685 000 Getting six balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 2 796 763 Being struck by lightning, 1 in 10 000 000 Death from new variant Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease, 1 in 10 000 000 Death from a nuclear power accident, 1 in 10 000 000 Risk of Infection (%) from One Unprotected Encounter Risk percentage for men followed by percentage for women Genital Herpes, 30%, 30% Gonorrhea, 25%, 50% Chlamydia, 20%, 40% Syphilis, 20%, 30% Chancroid, 15%, 30% Genital Warts, 10%, 10% Hepatitis B, 5%, 10% HIV, 0.9%, 1% What if the person you play with doesn't have any of those? What are the percentages then? " Can you get an STI from having your balls in the lottery | |||
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"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't " No chance!  | |||
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"Absolutely fucking not " you're ummmmimg and rrrrrring their spit it out | |||
"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms needless to say we didn't meet. I'm no medical expert so don't know if the first bit was true or not but we wouldn't meet people who start talking bareback as we assume they'll just raise the subject again when you meet.
Ginger "Retrograde ejaculation. It is a genuine condition and can be caused by several things. But it's quite common in long term diabetics. | |||
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"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms
Ginger"That would be like saying if a guy says he’ll pull out he doesn’t need condoms. Utter tosh. Wrap it up! | |||
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"God just had a woman send me a private message saying it's only us gays spreading hiv. How small minded can you get . " Did you tell her the 1980s called and want their ignorance back? | |||
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"Not for me. I'll also occasionally use condoms for men, orally (though not always). I don't use dental dams. The risks for oral are lower, I just make sure I get tested fully every 6-8 weeks, but I rarely play these days. " What makes you choose when to give oral bare or with condom? | |||
"God just had a woman send me a private message saying it's only us gays spreading hiv. How small minded can you get . " Did she mention intravenous drug users too ?? | |||
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"God just had a woman send me a private message saying it's only us gays spreading hiv. How small minded can you get . Did she mention intravenous drug users too ??" no not at all just ranted over gay guys . Has messaged me again and blocked me . I won't be able to sleep tonight lol | |||
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"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't " As a man I would never beg a stranger for bareback, both for her protection (she doesn’t know where I’ve been) and for mine. | |||
"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't As a man I would never beg a stranger for bareback, both for her protection (she doesn’t know where I’ve been) and for mine. " well said | |||
"Nope only person I'd bb with is a very regular play partner or a partner " Same here. I've blocked people and I've only been on here a couple of months | |||
"T Death from cancer... 1 in 5. If you smoke why bother to wear a condom? I take it that you are unaware that smokers don't necessarily get cancer and that cancer occurs for a multitude of reasons? Nita" Very true Nita! On the other hand not everyone catches AIDS from unprotected sex.
Furthermore, on average, 120,000 die each year in Britain from smoking related diseases. In the latest figures (2015) deaths from AIDS related illnesses were 594. More people have sex than smoke so, bareback or a cigarette??? | |||
"T Death from cancer... 1 in 5. If you smoke why bother to wear a condom? I take it that you are unaware that smokers don't necessarily get cancer and that cancer occurs for a multitude of reasons? Nita Very true Nita! On the other hand not everyone catches AIDS from unprotected sex.
Furthermore, on average, 120,000 die each year in Britain from smoking related diseases. In the latest figures (2015) deaths from AIDS related illnesses were 594. More people have sex than smoke so, bareback or a cigarette??? "Bareback for me  | |||
"on average, 120,000 die each year in Britain from smoking related diseases. In the latest figures (2015) deaths from AIDS related illnesses were 594. More people have sex than smoke so, bareback or a cigarette??? "I'll carry on being a non-smoker who enjoys bareback but looks carefully before crossing the road. I'll also carry on not judging others for their choices unless it affects me. | |||
"on average, 120,000 die each year in Britain from smoking related diseases. In the latest figures (2015) deaths from AIDS related illnesses were 594. More people have sex than smoke so, bareback or a cigarette???
I'll carry on being a non-smoker who enjoys bareback but looks carefully before crossing the road. I'll also carry on not judging others for their choices unless it affects me."Perfectly put | |||
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"Given that the only safe sex is no sex Then the answer is every single person in here takes a risk for the pleasure of their sex life The only variation is where in the sand that line is drawn for that individual not whether that the risk exists or not " True but let us not become unrealistic about it...  | |||
