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Embarrassed To Squirt
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now I know it is a natural thing to do in the throws of passion, however, its okay when I'm at home because I know maybe I can be prepared with a good couple of thick bath towels should that happen and sometimes it is multiple. However, even though you can warn someone, being at someone else's home or in a sex club, I would feel embarassed especially if I was in a position where those towels are not going to catch if you know what I mean. I wonder does anyone else feel the same or should I not worry about it? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Now I know it is a natural thing to do in the throws of passion, however, its okay when I'm at home because I know maybe I can be prepared with a good couple of thick bath towels should that happen and sometimes it is multiple. However, even though you can warn someone, being at someone else's home or in a sex club, I would feel embarassed especially if I was in a position where those towels are not going to catch if you know what I mean. I wonder does anyone else feel the same or should I not worry about it? "
They have towels in sex clubs.
Its on my verifications that I squirt but I also warn the people I am meeting because it can spoil beds somewhat. Communication is very important in swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never seen anything other than encouragement in a club....
With my swinging partner who needs to keep a lifeboat handy, we will often tell people in club quietly before or during fun... we find that..
1) the number of participants increases..
2) The number of voyeurs increases...
which only turns her on more and makes the situation worse...or better depending on your linguistic point of view....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldnt worry it seems the in thing is to squirt so people enjoy seeing it.
As said before clubs have towls and if not there tends to be boxes of tissues around xxx Enjoy and have fun xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's always tons of big towels, and if you run out of dry towels, just ask the staff for some more - they're likely to be very helpful and entirely unabashed by it too!
have a cracking time
Wolf
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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I am Gusher and regulaly attend our local swingers club. Have to say at first i used to try and hold back, but now they are used to me there and i just be myself. They have wipable matresses where we go, so very easy to clean. the club owener the lady half is a gusher too, so she totally understands. Just enjoy xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I accept that everyone at a club has the right to enjoy themselves.
But I have to say that if I was in a public playroom and a woman squirted and it went all over my lovely lingerie I'd be really fed up (was gonna say pissed off but it may be construed as inappropriate).
The same as if I was in a public room and another guy whom I wasnt playing with ejaculated and it went all over me.
But of course public means just that, everyone has a right to be there and if I felt too strongly about it Id go into a private room.
But I do think that you should just keep yourself and your juices to your own little playing space
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"But I do think that you should just keep yourself and your juices to your own little playing space
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As you have stated on another thread that you don't squirt yourself, its probably best one of us describes it for you.
We don't EXPLODE like a firework. It doesn't get sprayed everywhere like a man cumming can do. It pools around us, and there is not lakes of it coming out. A quick swiff with a towel and it's gone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well Ive read different on some threads you see, Ive read that some can catupult it across a room and need loads of plastic sheeting to mop it all up as it can ruin their beds. If its that amount of fluid, then I do feel its best kept in a private room.
I do think you should only share body fluids with the person you have agreed to play with. I wouldnt want another guys cum on me or another womans juices. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
We once played with a couple, and the lady found it very funny to face a viewing window and squirt like you have never seen before all over the window, with ppl on the other side. Personally even as a gusher myself i found it disgusting and the distance it went was like it was forced. I know sometimes it is hard for us gushers, but think most women if in a public playroom, would sure try to keep it away from others. I know i would as its just good manners, as for a guy spraying cum all over me i wasnt even playing with, i think i would have been anoyed. Just cause its a public play room, dont mean its a compulsary orgy. some ppl may only be in there to be watched as thats their thing. So really its all just about good manners. xxx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Well Ive read different on some threads you see, Ive read that some can catupult it across a room and need loads of plastic sheeting to mop it all up as it can ruin their beds. If its that amount of fluid, then I do feel its best kept in a private room."
I must admit I'd not be pleased if I got hit by a stray orgasm on a walk, but in a club its probably going to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I understand ironics concerns, and I agree with her that it should be between the people playing. Even though when you are playing sometimes this cannot be controlled so this is why I'm asking this question. So there are private rooms too at the sex clubs too, because the last thing I would want is to upset anyone at all and it is one of my concerns as to why I haven't been to any. Do they have signs up saying which room is which? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I know it is a natural thing to do in the throws of passion, however, its okay when I'm at home because I know maybe I can be prepared with a good couple of thick bath towels should that happen and sometimes it is multiple. However, even though you can warn someone, being at someone else's home or in a sex club, I would feel embarassed especially if I was in a position where those towels are not going to catch if you know what I mean. I wonder does anyone else feel the same or should I not worry about it? "
most sex clubs have the PVC covered play areas anyway, so if you miss a towel its easy to clean up after you
I shouldnt worry to much, not many people get offended at women squrting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand ironics concerns, and I agree with her that it should be between the people playing. Even though when you are playing sometimes this cannot be controlled so this is why I'm asking this question. So there are private rooms too at the sex clubs too, because the last thing I would want is to upset anyone at all and it is one of my concerns as to why I haven't been to any. Do they have signs up saying which room is which? "
If its in a public room then people go in there expecting no control over the amount of people watching or playing in there. So its a two way thing.
I wouldnt not go and not enjoy yourself, because that wouldnt be right either. It wouldnt be a huge problem if you chose your spot, ie; your nether regions facing one of the walls, as its likely thats the direction it would go in, rather than over your head to the people behind you.
I wouldnt choose other bodily fluids going on me, but we are all sharing a small space, sex is messy at times, all of us accept it, so Id go with it and do what you feel happy with, dont hold back for other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're playing at someone else's house then I'd advise you to tell them upfront so they can be prepared. Mr had a meet on his own with a single lady a while ago and she didn't tell him upfront that she gushed like Niagara Falls so he was a very unhappy bunny at spending his saturday night washing and drying all his bedding! Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you, I know I sound silly, but I've never been to a club before and yeah I don't want to show myself up. "
show yourself up ????
Show yourself off more like....
Xxxx |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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I shouldnt worry to much, not many people get offended at women squrting "
I am a squirter, I mention it on my profile and if I am playing at a club I do warn people that I can sometimes get a bit messy 
I have had no complaints so far and I always clear up after me |
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