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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My new GF has asked me to spice things up in the bedroom I'm very adventurous and seasoned swinging just don't know how to spice things up subtly I want to gently break her in not jump in at the deep end any ideas ??? |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
First, spice things up between the two of you before suggesting swinging. You don't mention if she means swinging when she says about spicing things up, and it's best to go gently and explore - more fun as well
One thing we have found fun and revelatory from time to time is to write out a fantasy for the other to read.
The best time we did this was at the start of a weekend away in a crowded cafe. We bought two small notepads and sat there opposite each other, surrounded by people, and wrote out a fantasy each. Then swapped and read them.
Another time we shared the writing of an erotic story together on a g*****gle doc, so we could do it anywhere any time. We would just add bits in turn to see where it went.
These things can open up barriers with perhaps less awkwardness than just coming out with "well what do you like" etc.
Just a thought. Good luck. |
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"My new GF has asked me to spice things up in the bedroom I'm very adventurous and seasoned swinging just don't know how to spice things up subtly I want to gently break her in not jump in at the deep end any ideas ???"
Does she mean swinging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My new GF has asked me to spice things up in the bedroom I'm very adventurous and seasoned swinging just don't know how to spice things up subtly I want to gently break her in not jump in at the deep end any ideas ???"
just say I know a great dance club and take her to abfabs on a couples night that'll give her an eye opener and you can dance to  |
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I got a porn DVD filmed in La Chambre, starring real swingers, not porn stars. When we were watching it I asked my gf if she'd like to try that, and she said she would, so we went to La Chambre the next Saturday night.
We didn't swap that night, but loved the scene and that started us swinging.
I asked my ex-wife if she would like to try swinging and she said "NO!" firmly. Some women are upon for it, some are not. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You say you are a very seasoned swinger yet 6 weeks ago you were plucking up the courage to go to a club for the first time. "
yes but he was In Borneo the week previous  |
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"My new GF has asked me to spice things up in the bedroom I'm very adventurous and seasoned swinging just don't know how to spice things up subtly I want to gently break her in not jump in at the deep end any ideas ???"
Nah you can't get a little bit pregnant, jump in at the deep end. You already have a wife who is a prude, unless she's now been disemboweled, so the last thing you want is a girlfriend who thinks kinky sex is when you leave the lights on. Why not organise a gangbang without telling her? Women love surprises and if the guys and naked when she gets in the door then the awkwardness of the situation will compell her to go through with it against her better judgement. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for x |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for x"
Perhaps we should tell you about the little green arrow next to your name on the Forum! Go on, click on it!  |
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"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for x
Perhaps we should tell you about the little green arrow next to your name on the Forum! Go on, click on it! "
Fabulous ! Similar user name ? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for x"
Pah hahaha the green arrow never lies, perhaps you should try doing the same. |
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"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for x
Perhaps we should tell you about the little green arrow next to your name on the Forum! Go on, click on it! Fabulous ! Similar user name ? Lol"
Similar location and dick picture too  |
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"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for x
Perhaps we should tell you about the little green arrow next to your name on the Forum! Go on, click on it! Fabulous ! Similar user name ? Lol
Similar location and dick picture too "
Really funny !!! Married talk that's rubbish !!! False accusations !!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My new GF has asked me to spice things up in the bedroom I'm very adventurous and seasoned swinging just don't know how to spice things up subtly I want to gently break her in not jump in at the deep end any ideas ???"
just say look you're gorgeous I really fancy you and love fucking and don't want to lose you but I want to fuck other women and guys to is that ok? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well looks like iv left my fucking fab account on and someone's been on it worse thing isn't having bullshit wrote it's not knowing who knows about it :| iv never been married and would never treat a woman like that I'd always be upfront and honest as I was brought up if anyone wants proof ask for my Facebook I'm sure that would have proof off a marriage cnt believe someone knows my little fab secret lol |
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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago
Bristol, Thornbury |
"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for x
Pah hahaha the green arrow never lies, perhaps you should try doing the same."
I wonder if being caught out with the green arrow is like being caught by your wife lmao |
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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago
Bristol, Thornbury |
"Well looks like iv left my fucking fab account on and someone's been on it worse thing isn't having bullshit wrote it's not knowing who knows about it :| iv never been married and would never treat a woman like that I'd always be upfront and honest as I was brought up if anyone wants proof ask for my Facebook I'm sure that would have proof off a marriage cnt believe someone knows my little fab secret lol"
Really....? I can smell something  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well looks like iv left my fucking fab account on and someone's been on it worse thing isn't having bullshit wrote it's not knowing who knows about it :| iv never been married and would never treat a woman like that I'd always be upfront and honest as I was brought up if anyone wants proof ask for my Facebook I'm sure that would have proof off a marriage cnt believe someone knows my little fab secret lol
Really....? I can smell something "
it wasn't me honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well looks like iv left my fucking fab account on and someone's been on it worse thing isn't having bullshit wrote it's not knowing who knows about it :| iv never been married and would never treat a woman like that I'd always be upfront and honest as I was brought up if anyone wants proof ask for my Facebook I'm sure that would have proof off a marriage cnt believe someone knows my little fab secret lol"
You could narrow it down by finding which of your friends has the same level of grammar as yourself... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well looks like iv left my fucking fab account on and someone's been on it worse thing isn't having bullshit wrote it's not knowing who knows about it :| iv never been married and would never treat a woman like that I'd always be upfront and honest as I was brought up if anyone wants proof ask for my Facebook I'm sure that would have proof off a marriage cnt believe someone knows my little fab secret lol
You could narrow it down by finding which of your friends has the same level of grammar as yourself..."
could be anyone on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Blood he'll as iv said I'm on Facebook sure that will shed some light anyway think what.you like have fun only asked for advice not for all the keyboard warriors to take the mick |
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"Well looks like iv left my fucking fab account on and someone's been on it worse thing isn't having bullshit wrote it's not knowing who knows about it :| iv never been married and would never treat a woman like that I'd always be upfront and honest as I was brought up if anyone wants proof ask for my Facebook I'm sure that would have proof off a marriage cnt believe someone knows my little fab secret lol"
It might be an idea to change your password and don't leave whatever device you log in to fab on laying around. |
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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago
Bristol, Thornbury |
"Blood he'll as iv said I'm on Facebook sure that will shed some light anyway think what.you like have fun only asked for advice not for all the keyboard warriors to take the mick"
No one is "taking the mick" you have just been caught out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haha well as I said I'm not married and this is pathetic a) If I was married which I'm not and never have been I'd off been looking for advice not criticism (isn't that why we're all hiding on this site and not out in public???) 2) I couldn't care what Tom dick and Harry have to say so unless you have advice for my current question then you know we're the block button is 3) no wonder this site is dieing a slow death it's because the swingers who hide from judgment seem to be the quickest to dish it... have fun anyway guys it's all fun and games |
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But the another post you wanted to introduce your wife to the swinging world ,now is the new girlfriend ! Someone has the same imagination as you ! Maybe you have double personality ! Honestly !!!! |
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"My new GF has asked me to spice things up in the bedroom I'm very adventurous and seasoned swinging just don't know how to spice things up subtly I want to gently break her in not jump in at the deep end any ideas ???"
Why not say that it’s something you have gone in the past , that you are on here etc
Everyone has a past |
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"My new GF has asked me to spice things up in the bedroom I'm very adventurous and seasoned swinging just don't know how to spice things up subtly I want to gently break her in not jump in at the deep end any ideas ???"
She's your NEW gf and she's asking you to spice things up (already)..I think that's her way of saying the sex is boring already. I would work on that before thinking about introducing her to swinging. |
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The most hilarious thing about this is the guy doubling down on his deceit. . He's been busted as a fantasist with probably neither a wife or a girlfriend. At that point any sensible person would delete his account and set up a new one.
Not this chap, he comes up with some half arsed story about someone posting on his account who just happens to write in exactly the same way as him. Add to this his ramblings about Facebook and it becomes performance art. |
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"The most hilarious thing about this is the guy doubling down on his deceit. . He's been busted as a fantasist with probably neither a wife or a girlfriend. At that point any sensible person would delete his account and set up a new one.
Not this chap, he comes up with some half arsed story about someone posting on his account who just happens to write in exactly the same way as him. Add to this his ramblings about Facebook and it becomes performance art. "
Yeah but no but yeah, what it was was this whole thing that i didn't know nothing about so SHUT UP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for x"
it's the green arrow op it shows all your posts about you your wife and every bit of shit you post
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We may be keyboard warriors in your opinion op but you are a blatant mmm what's the word smells like a male cows dung ah yes bullshitter lol just man up and say yes married and now playing around with a new lady stop digging or you'll soon reach Australia |
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"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for xit's the green arrow op it shows all your posts about you your wife and every bit of shit you post "
I can literally hear the OP’s jaw hitting the floor  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for xit's the green arrow op it shows all your posts about you your wife and every bit of shit you post
I can literally hear the OP’s jaw hitting the floor "
I bet his wife doesn't know they're divorcing lol |
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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago
Bristol, Thornbury |
"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for xit's the green arrow op it shows all your posts about you your wife and every bit of shit you post
I can literally hear the OP’s jaw hitting the floor I bet his wife doesn't know they're divorcing lol"
I wonder if she knew she was married lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know were all these married shouts are coming from ??? Maybe a user with a similar name but as usual it's the single women with the best answers thanks again hope you all get what your looking for xit's the green arrow op it shows all your posts about you your wife and every bit of shit you post
I can literally hear the OP’s jaw hitting the floor I bet his wife doesn't know they're divorcing lol
I wonder if she knew she was married lmao"
bet she's married but not to him lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My new GF has asked me to spice things up in the bedroom I'm very adventurous and seasoned swinging just don't know how to spice things up subtly I want to gently break her in not jump in at the deep end any ideas ???"
Just talk about you like and ask her what she likes she might be having the same dilemma |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
West Kent (near Tonbridge) |
"I'm waiting for Jeremy Kyle to turn up or Jerry springer lol"
Haha, I was thinking Jeremy Kyle as i2was reading through this hilarious thread. I think the OP is the kind of guy who would still deny any wrongdoing even after failing the lie detector test |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find whoever posted on your behalf OP. I believe they are your soul mate. You both have an identical aversion to using any punctuation whatsoever. Such an amazing coincidence!! "
It's okay though if you read his profile he's in Barcelona :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All quiet on the western front I see lol
Some serious money has been lost on the UNLOS betting markets"
yep lol but I bet the only women he knows pa(l)m and her 5 sisters lol |
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